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Originally Posted by GopherM  <i>
I would like to be remembered for being a good husband, father, friend, companion, son, brother and whatever else I might end up being with the time I have left. I do not want to end up in some pasture marked with granite markers that anyone feels obligated to visit on my birthday or holidays and leave flowers that neither I nor anyone else will enjoy. |
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I couldnt have said it better. My husband and I fight about this a lot!