[latinamomma]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

Well, here's the first thing, it's called a break up for a reason...think back to why the two of you split in the first place....why didn't you see the "wonderful" side of BEFORE you split??? It's very hard to get someone back after sooo much time has gone by. Maybe he has moved on and maybe you should as well. Seek some help ....in other words, share your feelings with someone that can help with the depression you may be feeling. Don't dwell on the past, and start looking towards your future....and stay off the bridge...no one is worth that! LOL