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Originally Posted by tshowusa  It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.
I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
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Okay, your leaving a HUGE CHUNK out of this whole scenario. You dated 2 years BEFORE you got COLD FEET? See, I'm thinking BS here. Didn't you ever think to just explain yourself to him instead of dumping him (presuming you did dump him)? Did he ask you to marry him? Did he ask you to move in w/him? What changed in the relationship that gave you FROSTBITE?