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Old 04-10-2008, 08:27 PM   #44 (permalink)
Queenofdenile1
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Originally Posted by signora View Post
A lot of people have regrets for things they did or should have done differently but you can't keep dwelling on it because in the end it's only going to keep causing problems in any relationship you have. Even though now you think this guy was great, something did stop you from wanting more with him.
It doesn't sound like either of you chose to keep any contact w/each other or have made contact w/each other so could be a sign he has moved on w/his life, while you keep obsessing over him.

But I think the only way you are going to solve your own problems is to contact him and see where he stands. It can either have a positive or negative outcome. If negative then you need to put closure on the past and move on w/your life. I think when a relationship ends in many ways it ended for a reason - so maybe it was just meant to be.

I believe that too, but this is different. She isn't telling the whole story. I wouldn't keep in contact with someone who dumped me because they had FROSTBITE and who hasn't bothered to try and contact me. She has three choices...Get over it, call him and talk to him or MOVE.
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