My sibs and I are two pairs; the older two and the younger two.
To this day, us older two still expect our parents to, suddenly, and for the first time in their lives, be our parents, or, our idea of parents anyway. We still get disappointed. We still get our feelings hurt. We still want what we long know just isn't there.
The younger two don't expect a damn thing from them, never get hurt or even annoyed with them and accept them 100% for who they are. No problem whatsoever.
I asked my brother why this is and he said because we're losers.
It CAN'T be THAT simple!?
