Originally Posted by tshowusa

No! I don't hate men, well...a few~ but no, not in general. I guess my dad treated me like a queen and I want that from a man now and it's hard to find that. ....I want all those things, holding hands, cuddling, talking. ..and even talking over a Redskins game. I love sports! I guess I'm just frustrated because I'm not finding what I'm looking for. I'd love to settle down and get married and start a family. I tend to spoil my men, cooking and waiting on them and I expect the same in return. I'm meeting men my age but most of them have children and can't give the time it takes to cultivate a real relationship. While I wouldn't mind being a step mother, I'm not going to hop in bed within the first few months of dating. I'm just not. I ended up moving in with the last b-friend and it turned out being unhealthy for me. long story. but no, I'm not a man hater, I'm just a very smart women! LOL