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Originally Posted by puggymom  So are you saying that I should stop having sex with my husband? We are finished have children and he had a vasectomy. Should we abstain for the rest of our lives because of the chance the vasectomy could reverse? Does does not account for a healthy marriage to me. |
No, I'm not saying that at all. I'm saying bully for you that you have sex and you've taken precautions not to have a baby. But, you've also chosen the risk, and thus the consequences, should there be an unexpected and unplanned for pregnancy.
When a person drives a car, they take the risk that there will be an accident, knowingly and voluntarily. You are not allowed to kill anyone who gets in your way so that you don't have accidents. You have to live with the consequences.