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Originally Posted by amotley  what i did was suspended his child support while he had them for the summer (what was the sence in him paying when i didnt have them). he didnt want me to pay him because he said he could use the money he was saving not sending it to me. so they went to him june, july, and august. then he started paying again in september. |
That's really the way it should be and I bet all the guys who are in similar situations wish their ex's were more like you.
Your ex is really lucky that you are so level headed and your relationship is probably a lot better with your ex because you aren't just looking at him like he's a bank.