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Originally Posted by GWguy  It actually comes down to exactly what has been said in this forum... Many of us truly are nice guys and true gentlemen, but because we aren't "hunks" we don't get the chance for others to get close enough to know the real us.
I'm sure that's very true of men looking at women, too. I know looks are important to me too, but it MUST be accompanied with intelligence and a good attitude. If a women is incredibly striking but the 'tude stinks, they don't even make it to a first date. |
Oh, I'm not disagreeing with you at all. Here is my thing, you perhaps don't think your a "Hunk" but that doesn't mean your not. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your statement of a striking woman applies with an attractive man as well. If he has some sort of attitude, I wouldn't go out with him again. However, sometimes you don't find out what kind of a person they are for awhile. They can be charming and sweet and all that and you think "Wow what a great guy or gal", and learn later, sometimes much later, they aren't that great. Even the "not so attractive" can be jerks too. I'm not sure why that is but I've dated a few who were "in the beginning" extremely sweet and couldn't do enough for you. Made you feel like "I've never been treated this well before" until...... a few months later, thinking you've found the guy or gal (maybe not the best looking but fairly cute)who has now turned on you like a German Shepard and has you tears (I'm not sure how men react). So, any way you look at it, attractive, not attractive, cute, mediocre, it doesn't matter, it's all gamble and your taking a chance with the ole heart.