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Old 06-23-2009, 11:05 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068 View Post
I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?
OK brutal truth here..........SUCCESSFUL HANDSOME PROFESSIONAL MAN....and I bet you also talk about your house, cars, bank account...etc?

Women do not need to be told all this......it makes you look vain, arrogrant, selfish and materialist. If you are truly *all that* then you never have to advertise it because it will be apparent in the way you conduct yourself.........it comes across better being confident and self assured instead of LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME.

Ask the ladies what they like, goals, family, hobbies and interact that way......leave the other stuff out and try being yourself.
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