| OK get off the dating websites. They really don't work nearly as often as they try to make it seem, and its really just a money making machine for the people who run it.
Have you tried... you know... ASKING a woman out? In the flesh? Step away from the pc, make some friends, go to parties and get togethers with said friends, and just hang out and relax. Eventually someone will surface without you even having to really look. I found that when I was looking actively, I was either attracting loosers, or not getting any dates at all. The second I stopped looking, wasn't interested in dating anymore, that my beau fell into my lap without me having to do much of anything.
Another thing to look at is instead of dating websites, if you're just too busy to try to cultivate your own personal life, go to a dating SERVICE, where you're dealing one on one with professional match makers, people who do this stuff for a living. If they dont get successes, they don't make their money, so you're a lot more likely to have a shot with them than a website. One of my professors from college admitted to meeting her hubby that way and said it was much better than the websites she tried. I wouldn't know either way, but it logically makes more sense. |