I want a column...

[Marley007s]

Originally posted by ememdee19
That's all ya got?

I think I would have to ask you the same ???

[ememdee19]

Originally posted by Marley007s
So you admit that you are judgemental about the way things appear, with out actually having the intelligence to ask these people questions. With out trying to see if there is substance behind what they say. That seems like you might be a bit closed minded... If you take the blinders off and get to know these people you would say otherwise... And the banter you speak about... Is it the same banter that I see you participate in or is it considered to be less immature because you are older than they are... Hmmm... Makes you think... But hey, it's just my opinion... Right???

Marley, hon, I think you need to go back and read all of the somd threads and realize what you're saying makes absolutely no sense at all. I read it like I see it. And you speak of intelligence? How are you supposed to have an 'intelligent' conversation when all of their posts exude ignorance? It goes both ways....

[Marley007s]

Originally posted by ememdee19
Marley, hon, I think you need to go back and read all of the somd threads and realize what you're saying makes absolutely no sense at all. I read it like I see it. And you speak of intelligence? How are you supposed to have an 'intelligent' conversation when all of their posts exude ignorance? It goes both ways....

I know what I read also, and I have spoken to a lot of these people on an individual basis. I must say though, you have to be very controlled if you always speak calmly, and with full reguard when angry. I might need to take some lessons from you. If ignorance has been thrown about it has been through emotion, not rational thinking. I think we can all relate to that. When anger rears it's ugly head ignorance is always evident. I'm sure you can agree... So what makes them any different from you...???

[citysherry]

Originally posted by Marley007s
What Gives Us the Right

Marley - What are you trying to say... that noone has the right to pass judgment? If so, I disagree with you. I actually plan on teaching my kids to pass judgment, of course it will be based on an established value system. IMO, reasonable people will disagree and it is possible to make judgments about our disagreements - not that there is necessarily one right answer; there may be several partially right answers. But there are certainly some wrong answers and better and worse judgments about them. It's arrogant and disrespectful to treat others as if they do not have the right to make judgments and choices; choices for which they deserve to be held responsible and accountable.

[Beener]

I pass judgement on you, Marley. You think you're better than everyone.

[Marley007s]

Originally posted by citysherry
Marley - What are you trying to say... that noone has the right to pass judgment? If so, I disagree with you. I actually plan on teaching my kids to pass judgment, of course it will be based on an established value system. IMO, reasonable people will disagree and it is possible to make judgments about our disagreements - not that there is necessarily one right answer; there may be several partially right answers. But there are certainly some wrong answers and better and worse judgments about them. It's arrogant and disrespectful to treat others as if they do not have the right to make judgments and choices; choices for which they deserve to be held responsible and accountable.

Judgements are and choices are different things... I will not condemn anyone for the choices they have made in life, not here or anywhere... These girls on here have been dealt a hand of cards that they are playing to the best of their ability, as most of us do...

You are fully entitled to your opinion and I think it is great that you expressed it.

In my opinion, I find judgement in itself arrogant and condicending. I don think it is fair to treat people as if they are different than me. We all have a wealth of knowledge that we can take from eachother. If I was to think that I was better than another that would make me a biggot, and who wants to live like that. Not I...

[Marley007s]

Originally posted by Beener
I pass judgement on you, Marley. You think you're better than everyone.

No way... as far as I know you are a molecular scientist, that has the brain power of a super computer. I don't think I'm better than anyone... I simply posted an observation... It seems like everyone is offended by that...

[Beener]

Originally posted by Marley007s
These girls on here have been dealt a hand of cards that they are playing to the best of their ability, as most of us do...

These girls are not innocent victims. They dealt their own hand when they spread their legs.

[DoWhat (Premo)]

Originally posted by Marley007s
Judgements are and choices are different things... I will not condemn anyone for the choices they have made in life, not here or anywhere... These girls on here have been dealt a hand of cards that they are playing to the best of their ability, as most of us do...

You are fully entitled to your opinion and I think it is great that you expressed it.

In my opinion, I find judgement in itself arrogant and condicending. I don think it is fair to treat people as if they are different than me. We all have a wealth of knowledge that we can take from eachother. If I was to think that I was better than another that would make me a biggot, and who wants to live like that. Not I...

If they didn't have their legs spread all the time (after a couple drinks), they probably would not have as many problems.

[Ehesef]

Originally posted by Beener
These girls are not innocent victims. They dealt their own hand when they spread their legs.

Because you've never made a mistake?