What the heck Somd.com?

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

Glad to hear it

Originally Posted by Pasofever

Yep its up I saw the ad the other day

how you doing baby? hanging in there?

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Originally Posted by Fat Momma

Hi there sweetie. I am doing fine. Just tired....dont get on the puter much anymore. family wearing me down.

How is life treating you?

GREAT! Waiting for the warm weather to get on the bike. How yooooooou doing?

Originally Posted by BS Gal

GREAT! Waiting for the warm weather to get on the bike. How yooooooou doing?

getting back on track. Family had some issues, that needed me to settle. Moved to VA and am very lonely. Daughter just got her first car and I am scared everytime she leaves the house.

Realizing my child is almost an adult and don't know how to take that.
Part of me is like, gurl you did it. You raised your girl to be a smart and loving person. Then I think about her leaving and then wondering whats next for me?

Okay enough of me whining.

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Originally Posted by Fat Momma

awwwww baby you making me blush....I have been away for awhile....I missed you guys! Hope life has been good to you.

I lost five pounds on the root canal diet.

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Originally Posted by Fat Momma

getting back on track. Family had some issues, that needed me to settle. Moved to VA and am very lonely. Daughter just got her first car and I am scared everytime she leaves the house.

Realizing my child is almost an adult and don't know how to take that.
Part of me is like, gurl you did it. You raised your girl to be a smart and loving person. Then I think about her leaving and then wondering whats next for me?

Okay enough of me whining.

They grow up, we suffer. They spread their wings. We feel lost without them. They will NEVER understand it until they have children of their own. When boy left for Marine boot camp, I really did not function for 13 weeks. I went thru the motions, but I was not functioning. I changed my lunch hour so I could check the mail every day, I wrote him letters, sometimes twice a day, the entire time he was there. It broke my heart. They grow, we grow. Luckily, I have a wonderful husband, who was also lonely without having him in the house. Now we have found ways to grow. We got bikes, we go on vacations. It hurts, but you find a new "self" after they are gone. You never, ever get over the "emptiness" once they are gone, but you re-arrange your life. I still love when my boy drops by.

Originally Posted by BS Gal

They grow up, we suffer. They spread their wings. We feel lost without them. They will NEVER understand it until they have children of their own. When boy left for Marine boot camp, I really did not function for 13 weeks. I went thru the motions, but I was not functioning. I changed my lunch hour so I could check the mail every day, I wrote him letters, sometimes twice a day, the entire time he was there. It broke my heart. They grow, we grow. Luckily, I have a wonderful husband, who was also lonely without having him in the house. Now we have found ways to grow. We got bikes, we go on vacations. It hurts, but you find a new "self" after they are gone. You never, ever get over the "emptiness" once they are gone, but you re-arrange your life. I still love when my boy drops by.

It is nice to know I am not the only one that felt this way. All the years with them being in my life, now I just do not know what or how to feel....time went by too quickly..