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baswm
07-06-2004, 11:31 AM
My coworker gets to go to St. Marys to learn how much CS they are going to hit him with for the 13 year old surprise he knew nothing about. Do they go before a judge in the court room or is it something that a case worker determines in an office setting?

geminigrl
07-06-2004, 12:27 PM
Originally posted by baswm
My coworker gets to go to St. Marys to learn how much CS they are going to hit him with for the 13 year old surprise he knew nothing about. Do they go before a judge in the court room or is it something that a case worker determines in an office setting?

When I filed back in 99, they served the absent parent and he had a choice of agreeing with the order or not, then in that case he will go to court. My order was settled out of court, but I'm sure all cases are different. Hope that helped some. :wink:

mixallagist
07-06-2004, 01:08 PM
It depends. Has paternity already been established? He might be able to avoid going to court and do this behind closed doors at the States Attorneys Office if he shows up early enough before court.

baswm
07-08-2004, 01:07 PM
The SA was only interested in $$$$$. They did not care about anything else. He basically has a 63 month payment of 450 for a kid he never seen.

Pete
07-08-2004, 01:09 PM
Originally posted by baswm
The SA was only interested in $$$$$. They did not care about anything else. He basically has a 63 month payment of 450 for a kid he never seen. But a kid that is his none the less.

Sharon
07-08-2004, 01:14 PM
Originally posted by baswm
for a kid he never seen. Now he can start.

mixallagist
07-08-2004, 01:17 PM
It's not the childs fault. The child shouldn't have to suffer.

baswm
07-08-2004, 01:26 PM
I agree. IT is not the kids fault at all. The kid is the real loser in that soap opera. Because one birth mother not testing two guys and saying it was guy number ones and the child grows up thing guy one is his daddy then right before he is to turn 13 finds out some guy he never met is now his bio father.

Two families lives turned upside down by one event in the past.

At least he is going to pay and hopefully it will go towards making the kids life better.

Pete
07-08-2004, 01:41 PM
Originally posted by baswm
I agree. IT is not the kids fault at all. The kid is the real loser in that soap opera. Because one birth mother not testing two guys and saying it was guy number ones and the child grows up thing guy one is his daddy then right before he is to turn 13 finds out some guy he never met is now his bio father.

Two families lives turned upside down by one event in the past.

At least he is going to pay and hopefully it will go towards making the kids life better. Tell him to be glad he doesn't live in a state that awards CS retroactively.

christy20657
07-14-2004, 10:18 PM
No your right, its NOT the childs fault. But its also not his fault that he never knew the child existed. Its also not his wife's fault or the other 4 children whom he had. And that he had due to thinking he had no other children. If he had been notified or ordered to pay this support from the begining maybe that would have been taken into consideration as far as how many children they would have had or whether his wife was a stay at home mom.

Funny, child support managed to tell his wife that after she had the baby, she could quit being a stay at home mom w/ her children and get a job but didnt bother to tell the welfare mother to get a job. Funny how the system works. Why is it ok for one parent but not the other?

geminigrl
07-15-2004, 07:51 AM
Originally posted by christy20657
No your right, its NOT the childs fault. But its also not his fault that he never knew the child existed. Its also not his wife's fault or the other 4 children whom he had. And that he had due to thinking he had no other children. If he had been notified or ordered to pay this support from the begining maybe that would have been taken into consideration as far as how many children they would have had or whether his wife was a stay at home mom.

Funny, child support managed to tell his wife that after she had the baby, she could quit being a stay at home mom w/ her children and get a job but didnt bother to tell the welfare mother to get a job. Funny how the system works. Why is it ok for one parent but not the other?

How is a man/father supposed to know a kid exists when the mom never lets the guy know, I think its wrong that some mom's wait so long to inform the father. Not taking up for anyone, cause I'm in the situation with a dead-beat, but waiting 10 years or longer is crazy. :crazy:

Kain99
08-18-2004, 04:03 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
I'm in the situation with a dead-beat, but waiting 10 years or longer is crazy. :crazy:
BUT... You said you lived with your babies daddy. :confused:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:06 PM
Originally posted by Kain99
BUT... You said you lived with your babies daddy. :confused:

yes and no, oldest isn't his, but takes care of him like he is, ok.

Kain99
08-18-2004, 04:07 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
yes and no, oldest isn't his, but takes care of him like he is, ok.
OIC... You have two babies daddies. Got it.

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:09 PM
Originally posted by Kain99
OIC... You have two babies daddies. Got it.

Kinda, but the daddy of oldest hasn't been around in 9 yrs, so, but my bf takes care of him and the others. BTW I have 4 kids and kinda 2 different daddies, not 4 kids and 4 different daddies.

CMC122
08-18-2004, 04:13 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Kinda, but the daddy of oldest hasn't been around in 9 yrs, so, but my bf takes care of him and the others. BTW I have 4 kids and kinda 2 different daddies, not 4 kids and 4 different daddies. It's not a "kinda" thing. It's either yes or no biologically.

Sharon
08-18-2004, 04:14 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
I have 4 kids and kinda 2 different daddies And you worry about a little cigarette smoke? :lmao:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:16 PM
Originally posted by CMC122
It's not a "kinda" thing. It's either yes or no biologically.

When anyone asks my bf how many kids we has he says 4, even tho biologically he only has 3. So yes, I have 2, but don't think of it that way.

mAlice
08-18-2004, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by CMC122
It's not a "kinda" thing. It's either yes or no biologically.

And I bet she told all 4 baby daddy that she was "kinda pregnant". :roflmao:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by Sharon
And you worry about a little cigarette smoke? :lmao:

:rolleyes: Yea atleast I don't have 4 kids and 4 different daddies. You ever gonna stop the bullshyt with the smoke?

CableChick
08-18-2004, 04:17 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
When anyone asks my bf how many kids we has he says 4, even tho biologically he only has 3. So yes, I have 2, but don't think of it that way.



:confused:

Now I'M confused.


Thanks!

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:18 PM
Originally posted by mAlice
And I bet she told all 4 baby daddy that she was "kinda pregnant". :roflmao:

I don't have 4 baby daddies :rolleyes: There's 2 (two), better?

mAlice
08-18-2004, 04:19 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
I don't have 4 baby daddies :rolleyes: There's 2 (two), better?

:liar:

Kain99
08-18-2004, 04:20 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
:rolleyes: Yea atleast I don't have 4 kids and 4 different daddies. You ever gonna stop the bullshyt with the smoke?
Absolutely Not! These things have a way of sticking like glue. :wink:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:20 PM
Originally posted by CableChick
:confused:

Now I'M confused.


Thanks!

What part did you not understand? I have 4 kids, but 3 (three) are my bf, but he takes care and claims all 4 as his... And yea I have 2 (two) different daddies for teh kids, but I don't think of it that way, since my bf takes care of them all.....

CMC122
08-18-2004, 04:21 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
What part did you not understand? I have 4 kids, but 3 (three) are my bf, but he takes care and claims all 4 as his... And yea I have 2 (two) different daddies for teh kids, but I don't think of it that way, since my bf takes care of them all..... How come you guys didn't get married in April?

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:21 PM
Originally posted by mAlice
:liar:

Never give up Cari, huh? I have 4 kids and 2 different daddies, ok , great , swell.

mAlice
08-18-2004, 04:22 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Never give up Cari, huh? I have 4 kids and 2 different daddies, ok , great , swell.

:liar:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:22 PM
Originally posted by CMC122
How come you guys didn't get married in April?

Oh you believed that, but you read it on the internet? :wink:

mAlice
08-18-2004, 04:22 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Oh you believed that, but you read it on the internet? :wink:

:liar:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:23 PM
Originally posted by mAlice
:liar:

How am I liar?

mAlice
08-18-2004, 04:23 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
How am I liar?

:liar:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:23 PM
Originally posted by Kain99
Absolutely Not! These things have a way of sticking like glue. :wink:

Geez thanks, Kain....:wink:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:24 PM
Originally posted by mAlice
:liar:

:liar: :liar:

mAlice
08-18-2004, 04:25 PM
Oh, geminigrl!

http://forums.somd.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=31556

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:26 PM
Originally posted by CMC122
How come you guys didn't get married in April?


pssst....There is a new date somewhere in the posts, it was posted earlier, think you can find it? :smile:

otter
08-18-2004, 04:27 PM
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v203/otterzzz/puff_md.gif

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:28 PM
Originally posted by otter
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v203/otterzzz/puff_md.gif

:duh:

CMC122
08-18-2004, 04:29 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
pssst....There is a new date somewhere in the posts, it was posted earlier, think you can find it? :smile: Really, how old are you?

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:30 PM
Originally posted by CMC122
Really, how old are you?

Old enough, why?

BuddyLee
08-18-2004, 04:33 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Old enough to ride on training wheels, why? :yay:

geminigrl
08-18-2004, 04:36 PM
Originally posted by BuddyLee
:yay:

Real funny, anyone that should be using training wheels its you, I have a few years on you, so enjoy your training wheels...

CMC122
08-18-2004, 04:37 PM
Originally posted by BuddyLee
:yay: :high5:

Ehesef
08-18-2004, 10:00 PM
Wow, how did I miss this most entertaining thread? :lmao:

BuddyLee
08-18-2004, 10:27 PM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Real funny, anyone that should be using training wheels its you, I have a few years on you, so enjoy your training wheels...

Here hold this. :stupid:

I've held this long enough now. You've earned it. Show it with pride.

Liquidwrench
08-19-2004, 05:18 AM
Ouch! This thread is getting brutal here.:bonk: :oops: :shutup: :whack:

geminigrl
08-19-2004, 09:11 AM
Originally posted by BuddyLee
Here hold this. :stupid:

I've held this long enough now. You've earned it. Show it with pride.

Na, you can keep it... I don't want it..:wink:

BuddyLee
08-19-2004, 09:11 AM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Na, you can keep it... I don't want it..:wink:

Too late. The damage has already been done. :neener:

nomoney
08-19-2004, 09:44 AM
Originally posted by geminigrl
Na, you can keep it... I don't want it..:wink:


whats your opinion on head start:confused:

geminigrl
08-19-2004, 09:55 AM
Originally posted by nomoney
whats your opinion on head start:confused:

What's your opinion on STFU?:wink:

geminigrl
08-19-2004, 09:56 AM
Originally posted by BuddyLee
Too late. The damage has already been done. :neener:

:biteme:













j/k

Elle
08-19-2004, 09:59 AM
Originally posted by nomoney
whats your opinion on head start:confused:

Or bathmats:confused: