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One of the sinners
Ok as must of you know I am divorced...
Heres what Im having a problem with. My ex tells me maybe 2 weeks ago he wanted the girls this past weekend. The time comes to get them and he says his gfs father was in teh hospital and since he has no DL to come without he cant get the kids. He tells me tonight he wants the kids this weekend. As to my court order he gets the kids every other weekend for 1 week at a time. There is no set date he has to get them. He lives in NC so they ahve it wrote as when work allows.
I try to explain to him that Im sick of how he is with them. Such as not being there to get them when he says, he calls CPS on me cause he dont like paying the money, he dont call, he dont write, Its like he dont care. Everytime I tell him (god help me for this one) he tried to smooth talk me into rolling over for him.
Like tonight when we were discussing him not being there when he says he will... He tells me Oh Crystal you just dont understand how hard it is for me. I have no DL to get there. (hes got the DUI his fault noone elses) Then he says We should just put all this nonsense behind us and start fresh. (we tried that once and it got ummm 2 weeks into it and it was blown all to ___ He wouldnt bring the kids home so Jaime and I had to go get them after 2 weeks and wanted to keep them another week!)
How can I get throughto him that this is not accpetable for him to be doing? I try talking. I dont want to fight cause its harder on the kids but do I have to beat it into him???
Heres what Im having a problem with. My ex tells me maybe 2 weeks ago he wanted the girls this past weekend. The time comes to get them and he says his gfs father was in teh hospital and since he has no DL to come without he cant get the kids. He tells me tonight he wants the kids this weekend. As to my court order he gets the kids every other weekend for 1 week at a time. There is no set date he has to get them. He lives in NC so they ahve it wrote as when work allows.
I try to explain to him that Im sick of how he is with them. Such as not being there to get them when he says, he calls CPS on me cause he dont like paying the money, he dont call, he dont write, Its like he dont care. Everytime I tell him (god help me for this one) he tried to smooth talk me into rolling over for him.
Like tonight when we were discussing him not being there when he says he will... He tells me Oh Crystal you just dont understand how hard it is for me. I have no DL to get there. (hes got the DUI his fault noone elses) Then he says We should just put all this nonsense behind us and start fresh. (we tried that once and it got ummm 2 weeks into it and it was blown all to ___ He wouldnt bring the kids home so Jaime and I had to go get them after 2 weeks and wanted to keep them another week!)
How can I get throughto him that this is not accpetable for him to be doing? I try talking. I dont want to fight cause its harder on the kids but do I have to beat it into him???