Well here is my situation.

There is a girl at work that keeps sending me emails, asking me to go to lunch with her, so she can take me to her favorite place. I've stopped at her desk and chatted with her a bit while waiting to see her boss, she is in Admin. We have talked about working out, she talks about going out dancing and stuff like that. When she found out I was single she started saying oh I have a bunch of single friends you should come out with me. Now she is sending me emails trying to go out to lunch? Should I go, see whats she's trying to accomplish or just avoid the entire going out with co-workers?

Well here is my situation.

There is a girl at work that keeps sending me emails, asking me to go to lunch with her, so she can take me to her favorite place. I've stopped at her desk and chatted with her a bit while waiting to see her boss, she is in Admin. We have talked about working out, she talks about going out dancing and stuff like that. When she found out I was single she started saying oh I have a bunch of single friends you should come out with me. Now she is sending me emails trying to go out to lunch? Should I go, see whats she's trying to accomplish or just avoid the entire going out with co-workers?

Don't piss into the wind
Don't shiat where you eat
And definetly don't Screw where you work

Well here is my situation.

There is a girl at work that keeps sending me emails, asking me to go to lunch with her, so she can take me to her favorite place. I've stopped at her desk and chatted with her a bit while waiting to see her boss, she is in Admin. We have talked about working out, she talks about going out dancing and stuff like that. When she found out I was single she started saying oh I have a bunch of single friends you should come out with me. Now she is sending me emails trying to go out to lunch? Should I go, see whats she's trying to accomplish or just avoid the entire going out with co-workers?


:eyebrow:

I'm pretty sure you already know what she's "trying to accomplish" youngblood. :lmao:

Is she trying to work her way to the top? If so, have at it and just dont promote her :P

Well here is my situation.

There is a girl at work that keeps sending me emails, asking me to go to lunch with her, so she can take me to her favorite place. I've stopped at her desk and chatted with her a bit while waiting to see her boss, she is in Admin. We have talked about working out, she talks about going out dancing and stuff like that. When she found out I was single she started saying oh I have a bunch of single friends you should come out with me. Now she is sending me emails trying to go out to lunch? Should I go, see whats she's trying to accomplish or just avoid the entire going out with co-workers?
I'd think twice! :jameo:
Thought there was some sort of "code" about dating Admin. folks?? :whistle:

Never get your meat where your bread is buttered. :yay:

I'd think twice! :jameo:
Thought there was some sort of "code" about dating Admin. folks?? :whistle:


tHATS WHY THEY QUIT CALLING THEM SUCKATERYS :razz:

Eh, what the hell.

Don't date HER, since you both work in the same place.

But this chick has GIRLFRIENDS, and one of them might be perfect for you. What's the harm in hanging out with a bunch of girls and having a good time?

I'm pretty sure you already know what she's "trying to accomplish" youngblood. :lmao:
Yeah thats kinda what I figured :lmao: I'm just wondering what I did to give her an impression that I was interested. It's not like I ever said hey we should go out sometime. :killingme

Eh, what the hell.

Don't date HER, since you both work in the same place.

But this chick has GIRLFRIENDS, and one of them might be perfect for you. What's the harm in hanging out with a bunch of girls and having a good time?
Thats the only reason I halfway considered it. Plus she works in a different division of the company. I am working in their building for a couple more weeks then after that I'm off to the next job.

Thats the only reason I halfway considered it. Plus she works in a different division of the company. I am working in their building for a couple more weeks then after that I'm off to the next job.
Don't go there my friend! She still has access to your "personnel records" :evil:

Eh, what the hell.

Don't date HER, since you both work in the same place.

But this chick has GIRLFRIENDS, and one of them might be perfect for you. What's the harm in hanging out with a bunch of girls and having a good time?

:yeahthat:


I concur with Badgirl here. Let her know you just want to be friends, don't mind hanging out, and are open to the possibility of meeting some of her single friends.

Female friends that know where you stand are good to have. Kind of like having an interpreter in a foreign country... :yay:

Just go ahead and say that you want to meet her and her friends out somewhere. I'd try it.

Thats the only reason I halfway considered it. Plus she works in a different division of the company. I am working in their building for a couple more weeks then after that I'm off to the next job.
In that case, go for it :yay:

Thats the only reason I halfway considered it. Plus she works in a different division of the company. I am working in their building for a couple more weeks then after that I'm off to the next job.
It's "lunch" what's the problem?
She might actually want to hook you up with one of her friends like she said.
Away from the office you'll be able to determine her true intentions and worst case you can always tell you don't feel comfortable with dating someone from work.
Nothing says "I'm not interested" like splitting the check

Hey! I got married to my co-worker 15 years ago!! :biggrin:

Hey! I married my co-worker 15 years ago!! :biggrin:


I bet you looked cute dressed up like a priest. :biggrin:

I bet you looked cute dressed up like a priest. :biggrin:

:lol:

Magnum, do you like being single?

Dating is about risk and taking chances with your personal life and emotions. Ask yourself if the good that could come out of dating her is worth whatever the perceived risk is. Yes or no, and then you'll know whether you "should" or not.

Thats the only reason I halfway considered it. Plus she works in a different division of the company. I am working in their building for a couple more weeks then after that I'm off to the next job.
Hit it!! :lmao:

Yeah thats kinda what I figured :lmao: I'm just wondering what I did to give her an impression that I was interested. It's not like I ever said hey we should go out sometime. :killingme

It's your animal magnumtism!!! :lmao:

Hit it!! :lmao:

:rolleyes: :smack:

:rolleyes: :smack:
What?? It's not like everyone else wasn't thinkin it..

Whatchu doin for lunch?? :eyebrow:

:rolleyes: :smack:
Okay... then how about hitting this...

Okay... then how about hitting this...
Hubba! :hot:

Okay... then how about hitting this...
Are you asking Julz or MMDad.. because I'm guessing the guy in the picture is GHEY!!

What?? It's not like everyone else wasn't thinkin it..

Whatchu doin for lunch?? :eyebrow:

Still ... :smack:

I'm driving to Pax for a meeting.

Are you asking Julz or MMDad.. because I'm guessing the guy in the picture is GHEY!!
Oh pulleeeze... how come that's the first comment guys resort to when it comes to commenting about a sexy, studly man...:lol:

Okay... then how about hitting this...

Well hey now.

Are you asking Julz or MMDad.. because I'm guessing the guy in the picture is GHEY!! She meant for you. You know, that whole Army thing.

Well hey now.
Too late, RR spoke up first so I already passed his number to her...:ohwell:

Still ... :smack:

I'm driving to Pax for a meeting.
So am I, but not for ameeting.. have to go pay for the Moon Bounce...


And take whatshername out for lunch..

Wanna ride?

Hey! I got married to my co-worker 15 years ago!! :biggrin:Has he finished the floor yet?

Oh pulleeeze... how come that's the first comment guys resort to when it comes to commenting about a sexy, studly man...:lol:
Because there is something about a guy that has a body from hanging out in a gym 4 - 6 hours a day with other sweaty men..

Jim Belushi, John Goodman, THOSE are heterosexual males..

She meant for you. You know, that whole Army thing.
It's easy to get the Army and Navy mixed up.. I mean they are both 4 letter words. You're forgiven.

Because there is something about a guy that has a body from hanging out in a gym 4 - 6 hours a day with other sweaty men..

Jim Belushi, John Goodman, THOSE are heterosexual males..

What's your excuse?

So am I, but not for ameeting.. have to go pay for the Moon Bounce...


And take whatshername out for lunch..

Wanna ride?

I love whatshername! Give her big huggy and kissy for me.

What's the moonbouce for?

I'm going to be leaving from Pax to home, but thanks anyway...I'll catch ya next time. Are you on the bike?

Hey! I got married to my co-worker 15 years ago!! :biggrin:

:yeahthat: Almost 25 for us.

Has he finished the floor yet?

:howdy:

What's your excuse?
Hey, I've got a Jim and John physique.. there is not doubt about my Heteroness..

What's the moonbouce for?

Don't you know...:confused: That's part of the Memorial Day party entertainment. The kids use it during the day. Then later in the evening it's taken over by adults for drunkin' topless bounce-offs. Each bouncer gets rated and there are prizes for the top three scores.

I love whatshername! Give her big huggy and kissy for me.

What's the moonbouce for?

I'm going to be leaving from Pax to home, but thanks anyway...I'll catch ya next time. Are you on the bike?
For the memorial day BBQ...

And of course i am.. but have to stop by the house too, I forgot my rain gear..

Don't you know...:confused: That's part of the Memorial Day party entertainment. The kids use it during the day. Then later in the evening it's taken over by adults for drunkin' topless bounce-offs. Each bouncer gets rated and there are prizes for the top three scores.
We have a winner!!!

Though we made need the trailer that morning to go pick it up..

:howdy::howdy:

Magnum, do you like being single?

Dating is about risk and taking chances with your personal life and emotions. Ask yourself if the good that could come out of dating her is worth whatever the perceived risk is. Yes or no, and then you'll know whether you "should" or not.
I hear ya. Judging from what I know of her I do not think we would be a good couple. She's a city girl and I am far from being a city boy :lmao:

For the memorial day BBQ...

And of course i am.. but have to stop by the house too, I forgot my rain gear..


Of course, what was I thinking...Kwillia says it for the adults at night though. :lmao:

I don't have my helmet with me anyway so I couldn't have ridden with ya.

:howdy:

Where ya been, haven't chatted with ya in a while....how's it going?

Because there is something about a guy that has a body from hanging out in a gym 4 - 6 hours a day with other sweaty men..

Jim Belushi, John Goodman, THOSE are heterosexual males..
Man let me tell you... :killingme
I ran into an old childhood friend at a bar a few months ago. He has been doing power lifting, won competitions and stuff like that. Well his gym buddies came in later and all started rubbing each other :barf: and it wasn't were all drunk lets put our arms on another guys shoulder, they were running their hands up dudes shirts. I had to leave, haven't spoke to him since

I hear ya. Judging from what I know of her I do not think we would be a good couple. She's a city girl and I am far from being a city boy :lmao:
First sleep over, fix her squirrel gravy and biscuits and some scrapple.

Has he finished the floor yet?

No. :bawl:

First sleep over, fix her squirrel gravy and biscuits and some scrapple.
:lmao: Ever hear that old Jeff Foxworthy song Copenhagen?? :killingme

Because there is something about a guy that has a body from hanging out in a gym 4 - 6 hours a day with other sweaty men..

Jim Belushi, John Goodman, THOSE are heterosexual males..
:rolleyes: Ross the Intern?

:rolleyes: Ross the Intern?
:killingme

Because there is something about a guy that has a body from hanging out in a gym 4 - 6 hours a day with other sweaty men..

Jim Belushi, John Goodman, THOSE are heterosexual males..
:eyebrow:

RED KARMA!! Oh Shi.... :faint:

"Go ahead pretty boy tell us how many women you have hanging on your arm :evil: :elaine: "

:eyebrow:
Are you supporting the point I was trying to make??

Are you supporting the point I was trying to make??

No, I only spend 2-3 hours a day. :yay: :lmao:

Because there is something about a guy that has a body from hanging out in a gym 4 - 6 hours a day with other sweaty men.. But what you don't realize is there are also women that hang out at the gym and they have some nice shapes. :banana: I'm at the gym daily, only wish I had more time to spend there.

But what you don't realize is there are also women that hang out at the gym and they have some nice shapes. :banana: I'm at the gym daily, only wise I had more time to spend there.
:lmao: True, true, true. :whistle:

But what you don't realize is there are also women that hang out at the gym and they have some nice shapes. :banana: I'm at the gym daily, only wish I had more time to spend there.
I should check out your gym, there are absolutly none at mine. Dang gym being in Clinton :lmao:

I should check out your gym, there are absolutly none at mine. Dang gym being in Clinton :lmao:
:smack:

Check out my gym too! :yay:

Take the chick to lunch. While out, ask her which of her friends she wanted you to wake up ne... uhhh... date.

Or, if she's cute and well-endowed you could take her to lunch and ask if she likes being tied and :whip: If yes, send her to me :biggrin: If she thinks you're a freak for asking, you just solved the "how do I get her to stop hitting on me" dilemna.

YW.


Yeah... I'm bored.

:smack:

Check out my gym too! :yay:
I would but Ya'll are just too far down the road. I live in Welcome so I hit Clinton on my way to work.

Take the chick to lunch. While out, ask her which of her friends she wanted you to wake up ne... uhhh... date.

Or, if she's cute and well-endowed you could take her to lunch and ask if she likes being tied and :whip: If yes, send her to me :biggrin: If she thinks you're a freak for asking, you just solved the "how do I get her to stop hitting on me" dilemna.

YW.


Yeah... I'm bored.
Well she's not too bad. If she was hot there would have been no question.

That would be one good way to run off

It's just lunch. Just go as friends. Test the water before jumping in it. You'll be fine and you got nothing to lose. :yay:

Dear karma giver,

That information does me no good if I don't know who you are. I have a busy schedule, but could possibly fit you in if certain factors in the equation are mutually acceptable.

Sincerely,

-Chain

P.S. If nothing else, those of us with odd interests and cultures need to stick together :huggy:

That would be one good way to run off
Unless she likes that stuff :lol:

Unless she likes that stuff :lol:
:killingme Yeah I doubt it, she is very citified.

:killingme Yeah I doubt it, she is very citified.
whether or not they like
ask if she likes being tied and :whip: If she thinks you're a freak for asking, you just solved the "how do I get her to stop hitting on me" dilemma.
Has nothing to do with where they were raised.

But what you don't realize is there are also women that hang out at the gym and they have some nice shapes. :banana: I'm at the gym daily, only wish I had more time to spend there.
How did you pull off getting allowed in Curves??








Yes, potato is a shape..

Don't piss into the wind
Don't shiat where you eat
And definetly don't Screw where you work


:yeahthat:

Take the chick to lunch. While out, ask her which of her friends she wanted you to wake up ne... uhhh... date.

Or, if she's cute and well-endowed you could take her to lunch and ask if she likes being tied and :whip: If yes, send her to me :biggrin: If she thinks you're a freak for asking, you just solved the "how do I get her to stop hitting on me" dilemna.

YW.


Yeah... I'm bored.


Of course if she says hell yea and take the whip,, you better run! :lmao:

Go for it!

Every office can use a little intense drama to break up the monotony.

RED KARMA!! Oh Shi.... :faint:

"Go ahead pretty boy tell us how many women you have hanging on your arm :evil: :elaine: "
Awww they shouldn't pick on the pretty boy :huggy: That's MY job. :burning:

Magnum,

Personally, I think you are reading way too much into it. The girl probably thinks you are fun and sweet, which you are. She wants to talk to you at lunch to get more of a feel for you and then introduce you to a gaggle of her gal pals, pushing the one she knows is "just right" for you towards you. Don't see co-worker as a possible romantic interest, see her as a friend who can possible introduce you to someone who may be just right for you or just a bunch of gals that can be a lot of fun to know and hang out with. :shrug: If nothing else, you are opening yourself up to new possibilities.

I have two male co-workers, both of which claim to be my work husband. One is married and the other single. We all go out to lunch together. The single guy has taken me out on the town and introduced me to several of his friends, letting me know who is right and who isn't. The married guy and his wife invite me over and introduce me to people at parties and dinners. I have had a ball meeting new people this way. I am not romantically inclined towards either one of my work husbands.

Food for thought.

Miggy

Magnum,

Personally, I think you are reading way too much into it. The girl probably thinks you are fun and sweet, which you are. She wants to talk to you at lunch to get more of a feel for you and then introduce you to a gaggle of her gal pals, pushing the one she knows is "just right" for you towards you. Don't see co-worker as a possible romantic interest, see her as a friend who can possible introduce you to someone who may be just right for you or just a bunch of gals that can be a lot of fun to know and hang out with. :shrug: If nothing else, you are opening yourself up to new possibilities.

I have two male co-workers, both of which claim to be my work husband. One is married and the other single. We all go out to lunch together. The single guy has taken me out on the town and introduced me to several of his friends, letting me know who is right and who isn't. The married guy and his wife invite me over and introduce me to people at parties and dinners. I have had a ball meeting new people this way. I am not romantically inclined towards either one of my work husbands.

Food for thought.

Miggy
:yeahthat: -OR- taking you to lunch at her "favorite place" is code for she wants to try out the new Jenna Jammeson moves she saw on a DVD she rented because she is tired of "Barney" her big purple BOB.

:yeahthat: -OR- taking you to lunch at her "favorite place" is code for she wants to try out the new Jenna Jammeson moves she saw on a DVD she rented because she is tired of "Barney" her big purple BOB.

I hope I speak for all of the forum gals when I say, WE NEVER GET TIRED OF BOB!!! :getdown:

:lol:

Wait, are we talking about the same Bob?:whistle:

Should ask the guy who runs LEGENDS about dating and the work place, since he's got a few girlfriends working there!