Ok I realize that this might not be the best place to ask this so I am just going come on out and ask. I am just recently separated from my wife of ten years and I am looking for a little support. I am having a hard time of it and thought maybe there was some sort of group out there that could give some advice. I know I am not the only person out there going through this. Any help or advice is much appreciated.
thank you

I don't know of any real support groups except parents without partners. Maybe Walden can direct you.

Sorry you are having a rough time :huggy:

Just an FYI, a jock strap is a lot more supportive than this forum.

Ok I realize that this might not be the best place to ask this so I am just going come on out and ask. I am just recently separated from my wife of ten years and I am looking for a little support. I am having a hard time of it and thought maybe there was some sort of group out there that could give some advice. I know I am not the only person out there going through this. Any help or advice is much appreciated.
thank you

try one of the local bars. You can get plenty of support there.:buddies:

Plus you can drown all your sorrows.

Good luck with the child support its cheaper to keep her

Sorry you are having a rough time :huggy:

Just an FYI, a jock strap is a lot more supportive than this forum.

:frown: How could you say that after we helped you through your boob-hanging-out-at-the-carwash-4-all-2-C episode?

Sorry you are having a rough time :huggy:

Just an FYI, a jock strap is a lot more supportive than this forum.

:yeahthat: :huggy:

Ok I realize that this might not be the best place to ask this so I am just going come on out and ask. I am just recently separated from my wife of ten years and I am looking for a little support. I am having a hard time of it and thought maybe there was some sort of group out there that could give some advice. I know I am not the only person out there going through this. Any help or advice is much appreciated.
thank you

Look at it as a new beginning.:coffee:

Ladies he is just tryin to get some sympathy booty.

So who will be the first to give him sum?

Ladies he is just tryin to get some sympathy booty.

So who will be the first to give him sum?

Really? I don't read him like that.... My husband does call me naive but I think he is genuine.

:frown: How could you say that after we helped you through your boob-hanging-out-at-the-carwash-4-all-2-C episode?

You are right. The boob popping was a downer and you guys really helped me find a better bra :huggy:

Really? I don't read him like that.... My husband does call me naive but I think he is genuine.

so I guess he is gona talk you outa your panties first.

OH I am soo lonely :blahblah:

so I guess he is gona talk you outa your panties first.

OH I am soo lonely :blahblah:

I don't wear panties Doug... I wear bloomers! Geez!

looking for a little help 11-06-2007 08:27 PM You're a tool


not the sharpest tool either but I know a sympathy booty plea when I see one.

I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty comments. After what the ex did to me I really am not looking for anything. Was just looking for some coping skills. Looks like some of you need more help then me.

looking for a little help 11-06-2007 08:27 PM You're a tool


not the sharpest tool either but I know a sympathy booty plea when I see one.

:smack: What is this like your fifteenth MPD or what.:killingme

not the sharpest tool either but I know a sympathy booty plea when I see one.

I read it the same way

btw....who was your sympathy boo........

nevermind....with your history, I don't need to throw up right now

I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty comments. After what the ex did to me I really am not looking for anything. Was just looking for some coping skills. Looks like some of you need more help then me.

If you tell us what she did....we might be able to help you better :popcorn:

Ok I realize that this might not be the best place to ask this so I am just going come on out and ask. I am just recently separated from my wife of ten years and I am looking for a little support. I am having a hard time of it and thought maybe there was some sort of group out there that could give some advice. I know I am not the only person out there going through this. Any help or advice is much appreciated.
thank you

Are there kids involved or is it just you and the wife? It's a whole different scenario if there are kids involved.

If you tell us what she did....we might be able to help you better :popcorn:

That is what I was thinking. I might not even be all that bad. :shrug:

I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty comments. After what the ex did to me I really am not looking for anything. Was just looking for some coping skills. Looks like some of you need more help then me.

:roflmao: :roflmao:

That is what I was thinking. I might not even be all that bad. :shrug:

Darn, what a difference a letter can make. I am bad. I meant "it might not even be all that bad." Shesh....

Sooooo :popcorn:

:roflmao: :roflmao:

he's been a member since March and he's just now figuring it out....he's either an MPD or not the brightest light on the house :lmao:

Are there kids involved or is it just you and the wife? It's a whole different scenario if there are kids involved.

Three kids

Darn, what a difference a letter can make. I am bad. I meant "it might not even be all that bad." Shesh....

Sooooo :popcorn:

Been there, done that. :lmao: One letter.......

Three kids

so, what'd she do?

Go to stmarysnetworkofcare.org, it list all the agencies in the area and contact info. There are plenty places that offer help and group support.

:buddies:One letter makes a big difference.:howdy:

:buddies:One letter makes a big difference.:howdy:
Boil / Broil the steak still got cooked :howdy:

Three kids

Maybe I'm naive too but I will take you at your word as well. When my 1st marriage ended in divorce - and before anybody asks let me say I realized we were married and he didn't and that's all I care to say about it - I had friends at church. In fact I went on to teach a single parents class from church. I don't know where any groups are around here but if you'd like to bring your kids to church PM me and I'll be glad to let you know where mine is if you don't have one already.

btw....who was your sympathy boo........





I still get sympathy booty.

I tell them that my wife took the kids and my paycheck then left with the black sheriff and all I have left is this POP UP CAMPER.
It gets so lonely and cold at night there now that all the campers have left for the summer. Heavens what will I do when it starts snowing. I only have my internet friends left and that how I found this dating site. :popcorn:

datehookup.com.

BTW they have some fun forums overthere. :whistle:

I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty comments. After what the ex did to me I really am not looking for anything. Was just looking for some coping skills. Looks like some of you need more help then me.Go to a real therapist :peace:

I don't take kindly for the sympathy booty Looks like some of you need more help then me.

SO SHE TURNED YOU GAY???:bigwhoop:

Looks like some of you need more help then me.


I do not need help I just need a little strange:shrug

I don't know of any real support groups except parents without partners. Maybe Walden can direct you.

my mom went here after 28 years of marriage went out the door,if its anything like it used to be they have meetings for different things (they have different meeting for the groups that seperate or divorce) and do alot of social things that dont cost an arm and leg and most include the children also. Parents Without Partners Home Page (http://www.parentswithoutpartners.org/) This is the capter she belongs to Parents Without Partners: Chapter 60 (http://www.pwp60.org/)

:killingmeSorry you are having a rough time :huggy:

Just an FYI, a jock strap is a lot more supportive than this forum.

Boil / Broil the steak still got cooked :howdy:

I love your avatar! I almost got a belgian tveruen or how ever the h*ll you spell.

Plus you can drown all your sorrows.

Sorrow floats. You'll learn that one day.

Looks like some of you need more help then me.

Very observant.

My advice is to stay busy. Don't give yourself a lot of time to dwell and get depressed. It takes time to heal after a split, and you'll be hurt and angry for a long time. But that doesn't mean you have to give in to it.

Think of something you've always wanted to do, but couldn't because of the wife. And then go do it.

And good luck!

Very observant.

My advice is to stay busy. Don't give yourself a lot of time to dwell and get depressed. It takes time to heal after a split, and you'll be hurt and angry for a long time. But that doesn't mean you have to give in to it.

Think of something you've always wanted to do, but couldn't because of the wife. And then go do it.

And good luck!:yeahthat: But then, with 2 kids left to take care of, I didn't really have to look for things to do. :lol:

Agree with Vrai. Keep busy with your interests. Finding lasting friendships, not relationships will get you through those tough times.

If I had killed my ex when I wanted to, I'd be out by now :cheers:

Best advise, time. Things will get easier to deal with as time goes on. Do something you've been putting off for a long time. Do something with your kids. Keep busy and your mind won't wonder to "her" as often wondering what she's doing etc.

so I guess he is gona talk you outa your panties first.

OH I am soo lonely :blahblah:

What the hell is wrong with you?

What the hell is wrong with you?

Nothin wrong here.

MPDs come and go

They don't call me MissPerky for nothing...:jet:



:lmao:

It would help if we knew what she did?

:tap:

I do not need help I just need a little strange:shrug

Trying switching hands. :shrug:

Rockeye: take up a sport; find activities to be involved in; go to church; etc. Of course, with three kids, odds are your free time will be taken up with a second job to pay the child support. :ohwell:

Good luck! :yay:

It would help if we knew what she did?

:tap:

I told my story and nobody believes it.

But I still get the occasional sympathy booty with that story.

I forget to mention my ex got nmarried to someone else before she ran away with the sheriff:killingme

Trying switching hands. :shrug:

Rockeye: take up a sport; find activities to be involved in; go to church; etc. Of course, with three kids, odds are your free time will be taken up with a second job to pay the child support. :ohwell:

Good luck! :yay:

And I forgot to mention -- most importantly: love your kids, and don't let them forget that through it all. Make sure they know it's not their fault, and no matter how bad or how big a biatch the ex is, NEVER let them hear you bad mouth her. If she's a skank, it'll be obvious to them over time.

And I forgot to mention -- most importantly: love your kids, and don't let them forget that through it all. Make sure they know it's not their fault, and no matter how bad or how big a biatch the ex is, NEVER let them hear you bad mouth her. If she's a skank, it'll be obvious to them over time.

:yeahthat:

And I forgot to mention -- most importantly: love your kids, and don't let them forget that through it all. Make sure they know it's not their fault, and no matter how bad or how big a biatch the ex is, NEVER let them hear you bad mouth her. If she's a skank, it'll be obvious to them over time.



:yeahthat:

Look there is actually good advice here:shrug:

still not buyin his story but, the kids need lots of love:yay:

Hey Rockeye!,
Have you made any confirmed booty kills off this thread yet?

Hey Rockeye!,
Have you made any confirmed booty kills off this thread yet?

:pete: :yeahthat:

:howdy:Ok I realize that this might not be the best place to ask this so I am just going come on out and ask. I am just recently separated from my wife of ten years and I am looking for a little support. I am having a hard time of it and thought maybe there was some sort of group out there that could give some advice. I know I am not the only person out there going through this. Any help or advice is much appreciated.
thank you


Hello Rockeye...sorry you are going through this. I've been there, done that.

DivorceCare is a great support group...here is their website:

DivorceCare: Divorce Recovery Support Groups (http://www.divorcecare.com/)

You can go on there and look for a group closest to you if you are interested.

I went to the one sponsored by Southpoint Church. We met at the Higher Educational Building off of Airport Road in Califorina, Maryland.

Good luck to you!

And for those of you are curious: no, I am not chubby! :howdy: