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mdgirlie
04-04-2008, 08:32 AM
Does anyone know of where I could find a good priest to marry me and my fiance?
I am a catholic and was
wondering if there are any priests out there that would offer their services.
rbyslpprs
04-04-2008, 08:45 AM
Does anyone know of where I could find a good priest to marry me and my fiance?
I am a catholic and was wondering if there are any priests out there that would offer their services.
uuhhh, how about the Priest who serves Mass at the church you attend as a good Catholic?:whistle::sarcasm:
mdgirlie
04-04-2008, 08:52 AM
uuhhh, how about the Priest who serves Mass at the church you attend as a good Catholic?:whistle::sarcasm:
Thanks for answering my question with another question.
Forget the priest, those services are long and boring. Use the Reverend Slotted.
camily
04-04-2008, 08:58 AM
uuhhh, how about the Priest who serves Mass at the church you attend as a good Catholic?:whistle::sarcasm:
I was thinking the same thing.
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 09:00 AM
Does anyone know of where I could find a good priest to marry me and my fiance?
I am a catholic and was
wondering if there are any priests out there that would offer their services.
Marrying people is part of their job. Just call your local parish or the church you want to get married in and make an appointment to talk the priest. Simple.
mdgirlie
04-04-2008, 09:03 AM
I was thinking the same thing.
Could it ever occurred to you guys that the priest of my church may have prior engagements on the day of my wedding? Thank you!
mdgirlie
04-04-2008, 09:04 AM
Marrying people is part of their job. Just call your local parish or the church you want to get married in and make an appointment to talk the priest. Simple.
Thank you. I have to get in touch with another church, because the pastor of my church has something else scheduled on my date.
camily
04-04-2008, 09:04 AM
Could it ever occurred to you guys that the priest of my church may have prior engagements on the day of my wedding? Thank you!
Don't most catholic churches have more than one priest? When I was catholic they sure did.
Don't most catholic churches have more than one priest? When I was catholic they sure did.
Maybe she's getting married on a Sunday and the church is booked up too :shrug:
camily
04-04-2008, 09:11 AM
Maybe she's getting married on a Sunday and the church is booked up too :shrug:
Who gets married on a Sunday?
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 09:12 AM
Don't most catholic churches have more than one priest? When I was catholic they sure did.
Not anymore, priests are becoming a rarity. Some even work two parishes to take up the slack.
Who gets married on a Sunday?
Beats me, I was just taking that excuse out of her back pocket
libby
04-04-2008, 09:15 AM
What part of SoMd? There are some good ones around the Lexington Park area, and some with smaller churches that may not be booked up. For a good priest, you'll probably need a letter, though, telling him you are, indeed, practicing.
If Lex Park is the area you're looking in, I can list some of the smaller parishes.
camily
04-04-2008, 09:16 AM
Beats me, I was just taking that excuse out of her back pocket
Ah, shootin' from the hip. I like your style.
camily
04-04-2008, 09:16 AM
Not anymore, priests are becoming a rarity. Some even work two parishes to take up the slack.
Really? How odd. These times, they are a changin'.
beachcat
04-04-2008, 09:17 AM
Not anymore, priests are becoming a rarity. Some even work two parishes to take up the slack.
when i went to St. Mary's catholic school we had two priests and about a half dozen nuns. I think the priest that does the services there is a visiting priest, and i believe there aren't any nuns there anymore.
Vince
04-04-2008, 09:33 AM
Could it ever occurred to you guys that the priest of my church may have prior engagements on the day of my wedding? Thank you!The priest at your church should be able to help you out. I know when our priest goes on vacation, etc. there is always another that comes in for Mass. :shrug:
mizteresa1965
04-04-2008, 09:37 AM
Don't most catholic churches have more than one priest? When I was catholic they sure did.
Most only have one now..........the rest of the catholic priests are :gossip:
wishes26
04-04-2008, 09:48 AM
Does anyone know of where I could find a good priest to marry me and my fiance?
I am a catholic and was
wondering if there are any priests out there that would offer their services.
Father Karl at St. Georges Catholic Church is great and Father O'Connell at St. Michaels in ridge is also good.
hope this helps
What about getting a Justice of the Peace?
itsbob
04-04-2008, 10:13 AM
Not anymore, priests are becoming a rarity. Some even work two parishes to take up the slack.
OOOOH, two parishes.. twice the number of altar boys!!!
kom526
04-04-2008, 10:13 AM
What about getting a Justice of the Peace?
JOP are not allowed to do church weddings.
It's your parish priest's job to find a replacement priest if you are being married in your parish. Maybe this guy is available...
True.. but if the preist at the church they go to already has something going on, maybe the church is tied up as well? so if they were going somewhere else, they could get the JOP.. which is what I did.. my priest was busy so we ended up getting a JOP..
baileydog
04-04-2008, 10:30 AM
Thank you. I have to get in touch with another church, because the pastor of my church has something else scheduled on my date.
Cant your priest recommend one?
toppick08
04-04-2008, 10:32 AM
OOOOH, two parishes.. twice the number of altar boys!!!
sick, but, :killingme
toppick08
04-04-2008, 10:32 AM
Does anyone know of where I could find a good priest to marry me and my fiance?
I am a catholic and was
wondering if there are any priests out there that would offer their services.
PM libby..........:yay:
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 10:59 AM
OOOOH, two parishes.. twice the number of altar boys!!!
I realize you have a chip on your shoulder and perhaps with good reason, or perhaps not. Either way, that comment is similar to saying that anyone named Bob likes to blow boys. After all, there are some Bob's who have molested little boys so obviously all of them do. :duh:
itsbob
04-04-2008, 11:10 AM
I realize you have a chip on your shoulder and perhaps with good reason, or perhaps not. Either way, that comment is similar to saying that anyone named Bob likes to blow boys. After all, there are some Bob's who have molested little boys so obviously all of them do. :duh:
But when a Bob molests a little boy, he doesn't have ten levels of upper management trying to cover it up for him. The molestation (being unforgivable by itself) wasn't the worst part.
If I was affiliated with ANY organization that was that crooked and dirty, I'd burn my membership card and ask for my last ten years of dues be refunded.
By remaining a member in such a club, I would take it as a tacit approval of everything that was done. Especially since your "dues" money was being used to defend and support the guilty parties.
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 11:32 AM
But when a Bob molests a little boy, he doesn't have ten levels of upper management trying to cover it up for him. The molestation (being unforgivable by itself) wasn't the worst part.
If I was affiliated with ANY organization that was that crooked and dirty, I'd burn my membership card and ask for my last ten years of dues be refunded.
By remaining a member in such a club, I would take it as a tacit approval of everything that was done. Especially since your "dues" money was being used to defend and support the guilty parties.
So that's the chip on your shoulder, fair enough; however, Bob often has family members/friends who attempt to cover up his crimes. So, do you molest little boys because you're a BOB and family members/friends try to cover for other BOBs?
You seem to be a smart man, I'm sure you get my point but in case you don't, my point is that your comment was intellectually dishonest and a gross misstatement. I realize it was off the cuff and you were trying to be funny; it worked for toppick I guess. :duh:
itsbob
04-04-2008, 11:35 AM
So that's the chip on your shoulder, fair enough; however, Bob often has family members/friends who attempt to cover up his crimes. So, do you molest little boys because you're a BOB and family members/friends try to cover for other BOBs?
You seem to be a smart man, I'm sure you get my point but in case you don't, my point is that your comment was intellectually dishonest and a gross misstatement. I realize it was off the cuff and you were trying to be funny; it worked for toppick I guess. :duh:
Keep trying to defend them it's ok...
If BOB's family, or employer tried to cover up his molestations, they'd all be sharing a cell.. name one person other than the molester themselves that has been sentenced to ANY jail time or found guilty of ANY crime, hell even arrested.
I'm sure there are victim's families still attending and defending the church too.
The brainwashing is complete.
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 11:39 AM
Keep trying to defend them it's ok...
I'm sure there are victim's families still attending and defending the church too.
The brainwashing is complete.
Keep assuming. I think anyone priest, bishop, or Bob should be hanged and quartered for child molestation or covering it up; however, there are some good and decent priests, just as there are some good and decent Bobs.
I see you miss my point even though I spelled it out for you. I guess you're not so smart after all. :ohwell:
:whoosh:
libby
04-04-2008, 11:41 AM
Keep trying to defend them it's ok...
If BOB's family, or employer tried to cover up his molestations, they'd all be sharing a cell.. name one person other than the molester themselves that has been sentenced to ANY jail time or found guilty of ANY crime, hell even arrested.
I'm sure there are victim's families still attending and defending the church too.
The brainwashing is complete.
Well, congratulate yourself on not being a member of the Catholic Church. Ignore the millions who have done great works, and displayed heroic virtue. You are arguing the exception and not the rule, a favorite tactic of someone with no real case to make.
camily
04-04-2008, 11:44 AM
Pssst.....Bob just doesn't like religion. Don't take it personally.
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 11:46 AM
Pssst.....Bob just doesn't like religion. Don't take it personally.
I know. He's free to hate it as much as he wants, that's not my issue. Intellectual dishonesty is.
camily
04-04-2008, 11:48 AM
I know. He's free to hate it as much as he wants, that's not my issue. Intellectual dishonesty is.
In that case, carry on. :yay:
itsbob
04-04-2008, 11:56 AM
Keep assuming. I think anyone priest, bishop, or Bob should be hanged and quartered for child molestation or covering it up; however, there are some good and decent priests, just as there are some good and decent Bobs.
I see you miss my point even though I spelled it out for you. I guess you're not so smart after all. :ohwell:
:whoosh:
You still haven't named ONE person, one bishop, one cardinal, ANYBODY that was responsible for the cover up in this GREAT establishment famous for it's great works.. that has taken responsibility, been arrested, or come forward and pointed out everyone involved.
The cover up continues, it's just they hope everyone will forget about it and move on.
We aren't talking a person, we aren't talking an individual, you are talking about an enitre organization that had to be complicit in these crimes, but because it was a church (accepted church, not one of the cults) nobody else went to jail. Paid off the victims families, paid for the legal defense of the guilty parties, (with everyone else's money, even the victims) and life goes on..
mdgirlie
04-04-2008, 11:57 AM
Who gets married on a Sunday?
Not I!
itsbob
04-04-2008, 11:57 AM
Well, congratulate yourself on not being a member of the Catholic Church. .
I do every day!
mdgirlie
04-04-2008, 11:59 AM
JOP are not allowed to do church weddings.
It's your parish priest's job to find a replacement priest if you are being married in your parish. Maybe this guy is available...
I'm having an outdoor wedding. So will a JOP be OK for this?
itsbob
04-04-2008, 12:00 PM
Shame Karma is turned off, this would have been a good day!
Nanny Pam
04-04-2008, 12:00 PM
JOP are not allowed to do church weddings.
It's your parish priest's job to find a replacement priest if you are being married in your parish. Maybe this guy is available...
I love Father Guido Sarducci!
itsbob
04-04-2008, 12:01 PM
I know. He's free to hate it as much as he wants, that's not my issue. Intellectual dishonesty is.
And just think, if you kept your mouth shut the one liner would have died on the vine.
Carry on.
libby
04-04-2008, 12:03 PM
I'm having an outdoor wedding. So will a JOP be OK for this?
If you are having an outdoor wedding, I don't think a priest can officiate. Catholic weddings, I think, must take place in the church, in front of the Blessed Sacrament.
If you are a practicing Catholic, why would you consider a JOP? Your marriage would not be valid as a Catholic.
libby
04-04-2008, 12:04 PM
Shame Karma is turned off, this would have been a good day!
Not for you...
Bird Dog
04-04-2008, 12:12 PM
Pssst.....Bob just doesn't like religion. Don't take it personally.
Then he should stay out of the religion thread.
I stay out of the horsey thread for the same reason.
He is an azz that just likes to show it.
thebird
04-04-2008, 02:03 PM
Does anyone know of where I could find a good priest to marry me and my fiance?
I am a catholic and was
wondering if there are any priests out there that would offer their services.
Oh dear Lord, I'm sorry you're getting so much grief just asking a question! My answer would be to shop around various Catholic churches in your area. I've always gone to St. Ignatius Chapel Point and was married there but the wonderful priest, Fr. Sal, has moved on-otherwise I'd recommend him! Find a priest whos message you can actually listen and relate to. It doesn't mean you have to switch churches forever, but you have to listen to the priest before using him...you'd hate to glaze over during the entire ceremony. Good Luck!
BadGirl
04-04-2008, 02:07 PM
Then he should stay out of the religion thread.
I stay out of the horsey thread for the same reason.
He is an azz that just likes to show it.
He's not an azz. He simply has a differing opinion and isn't afraid to discuss it.
Do I agree with everything that he says? Absolutely not. But he does make valid points.
It's a discussion, people. :jameo:
camily
04-04-2008, 02:08 PM
Then he should stay out of the religion thread.
I stay out of the horsey thread for the same reason.
He is an azz that just likes to show it.
I asked to be banned from the horsey thread. I love it!
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 02:24 PM
He's not an azz. He simply has a differing opinion and isn't afraid to discuss it.
Making inappropriate and erroneous jokes isn't expressing an opinion it's being an ass.
It's a discussion, people. :jameo:
Deliberately overlooking a point well made just to spout one's vitriol isn't what I'd call a discussion, but if you do so be it. You're the one who has to live with him. :poorbaby:
BadGirl
04-04-2008, 02:28 PM
Making inappropriate and erroneous jokes isn't expressing an opinion it's being an ass.
Deliberately overlooking a point well made just to spout one's vitriol isn't what I'd call a discussion, but if you do so be it. You're the one who has to live with him. :poorbaby:To paraphrase Elaine:
You may have the last word.
.
kom526
04-04-2008, 02:38 PM
I'm having an outdoor wedding. So will a JOP be OK for this?
Yep. A priest (as far as I know) cannot perform an outdoor wedding. The sacrament has to received in the church.
thebird
04-04-2008, 02:53 PM
Yep. A priest (as far as I know) cannot perform an outdoor wedding. The sacrament has to received in the church.
That is incorrect. I was married outside by a priest of the Catholic Church.
kom526
04-04-2008, 02:54 PM
That is incorrect. I was married outside by a priest of the Catholic Church.
I guess it depends on that particular priest's interpretation on Canon Law. Unless it was a deacon?
Radiant1
04-04-2008, 03:17 PM
I guess it depends on that particular priest's interpretation on Canon Law. Unless it was a deacon?
Couldn't the Blessed Sacrament be brought outside for the ceremony? Priests/deacons/lay ministers often carry Eucharist outside the sanctuary to the homebound so they can receive the Sacrament. :shrug:
kom526
04-04-2008, 03:50 PM
Couldn't the Blessed Sacrament be brought outside for the ceremony? Priests/deacons/lay ministers often carry Eucharist outside the sanctuary to the homebound so they can receive the Sacrament. :shrug:
It is my understanding from my current priest the sacrament of marriage (ceremony) cannot be performed outside of the church.
Giantone
04-04-2008, 04:53 PM
That is incorrect. I was married outside by a priest of the Catholic Church.
true,also they can perform the ceramony and add just a blessing if you like.
Giantone
04-04-2008, 04:56 PM
Couldn't the Blessed Sacrament be brought outside for the ceremony? Priests/deacons/lay ministers often carry Eucharist outside the sanctuary to the homebound so they can receive the Sacrament. :shrug:
yes ,as you will see the Pope will say Mass outside often.My Mother has had a Mass for my Dad in our backyard with friends .I've seen Mass performed on the rear end of a pick up truck on a mountain for kids on campouts.
Giantone
04-04-2008, 04:58 PM
It is my understanding from my current priest the sacrament of marriage (ceremony) cannot be performed outside of the church.
He's incorrect.
kom526
04-04-2008, 05:45 PM
He's incorrect.
I'll be sure to pass that along.
libby
04-04-2008, 05:57 PM
Couldn't the Blessed Sacrament be brought outside for the ceremony? Priests/deacons/lay ministers often carry Eucharist outside the sanctuary to the homebound so they can receive the Sacrament. :shrug:
Good point. As long as the Blessed Sacrament is there, perhaps any venue will do.
Giantone
04-05-2008, 03:12 AM
I'll be sure to pass that along.
Cool,make sure you ask him where he was when the Pope did Mass in Yankee stadium,or any other venue when a Pope comes to the U.S.?:whistle:
Go G-Men
04-05-2008, 04:37 PM
Could it ever occurred to you guys that the priest of my church may have prior engagements on the day of my wedding? Thank you!
SNAP
Go G-Men
04-05-2008, 04:41 PM
Keep assuming. I think anyone priest, bishop, or Bob should be hanged and quartered for child molestation or covering it up; however, there are some good and decent priests, just as there are some good and decent Bobs.
I see you miss my point even though I spelled it out for you. I guess you're not so smart after all. :ohwell:
:whoosh:
Now I think all BOB's are child molesters...
kris31280
04-05-2008, 07:57 PM
Now I think all BOB's are child molesters...
But don't you have to be at least 18 to legally buy a BOB? Wouldn't that, therefore, imply that the BOB cannot be a child molester by definition?
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