A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)

She says she knows single folks in all three groups that complain that the dating pool is pretty shallow.

How can we integrate these groups better? I'm in the first group. Obviously I know lots of folks from the base and have plenty of friends to socialize with, but I don't know where the teachers and medical folks hang out. I know they're out there and have seen some of my friend's teacher buddies out now and then, but where are they the rest of the time?

Thoughts?

What is the group I belong in then :shrug: :confused:

I live down there and work in DC. I know I'm not the only one doing that

When I was single, I was in none of those categories and never had a problem finding a guy to date.

A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)

She says she knows single folks in all three groups that complain that the dating pool is pretty shallow.

How can we integrate these groups better? I'm in the first group. Obviously I know lots of folks from the base and have plenty of friends to socialize with, but I don't know where the teachers and medical folks hang out. I know they're out there and have seen some of my friend's teacher buddies out now and then, but where are they the rest of the time?

Thoughts?
The main problem I find (and I'm not in any of those 3 categories), is meeting women. I ask: "where are they ALL of the time"? Most of my friends don't know an single ladies to set me up with and, as active in the community as I am, it's still hard to meet available and eligible ladies. It's time to set up a meeting site on this forum but no mpd's allowed:razz:

A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)

She says she knows single folks in all three groups that complain that the dating pool is pretty shallow.

How can we integrate these groups better? I'm in the first group. Obviously I know lots of folks from the base and have plenty of friends to socialize with, but I don't know where the teachers and medical folks hang out. I know they're out there and have seen some of my friend's teacher buddies out now and then, but where are they the rest of the time?

Thoughts?


my guess is the medical folks are at the hospital
the teachers are at school

and the base retards are out fishing or something.


its just better to come here and ask"Who wants to get laid?" :jerry:

The main problem I find (and I'm not in any of those 3 categories), is meeting women. I ask: "where are they ALL of the time"?
Probably leaving the gay bar would help you in that.

A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)

She says she knows single folks in all three groups that complain that the dating pool is pretty shallow.

How can we integrate these groups better? I'm in the first group. Obviously I know lots of folks from the base and have plenty of friends to socialize with, but I don't know where the teachers and medical folks hang out. I know they're out there and have seen some of my friend's teacher buddies out now and then, but where are they the rest of the time?

Thoughts?I think Category 1 is not as male dominated as the other two are female dominated. And probably not too many singles in any of those groups in the 30 - 40 range. Just bitter divorcees.

What is the group I belong in then :shrug: :confused:

I live down there and work in DC. I know I'm not the only one doing that

You are in your 20's and have no problem in the dating pool. All the wimmens love you. :lol:

I think Category 1 is not as male dominated as the other two are female dominated. And probably not too many singles in any of those groups in the 30 - 40 range. Just bitter divorcees.

I'm not bitter. :shrug:




:razz:

I'm in the first category and I am a divorcee. I have found that the techies are a lot younger than me (not that is a problem for me...their story is wanting a woman that is on the cover of Cosmitpolitan). I have also discovered that no matter what or how you categorize a person, there's not very many single intelligent men who want to date divorced woman. Just my personal observation and opinion.

What is the group I belong in then :shrug: :confused:

I live down there and work in DC. I know I'm not the only one doing that

^+1 but I am also in my 20's

I'm not bitter. :shrug:




:razz:True, you're pretty sweet. There are always exceptions :flowers:

I'm in the first category and I am a divorcee. I have found that the techies are a lot younger than me (not that is a problem for me...their story is wanting a woman that is on the cover of Cosmitpolitan). I have also discovered that no matter what or how you categorize a person, there's not very many single intelligent men who want to date divorced woman. Just my personal observation and opinion.I date divorced women exclusively :yay:

I date divorced women exclusively :yay:

You're one in a few...

You're one in a few...Don't really have any choice! Not too many women make it to my age without being married or divorced. Or widowed.

Don't really have any choice! Not too many women make it to my age without being married or divorced. Or widowed.

:lol: :huggy:

True, you're pretty sweet. There are always exceptions :flowers:

:huggy:

Maybe someone could set up a mandatory first aid training for people who work on base. They could have the trainings at the local schools, and the docs/nurses could teach the classes. Problem solved. :yay:

I'm in the first category and I am a divorcee. I have found that the techies are a lot younger than me (not that is a problem for me...their story is wanting a woman that is on the cover of Cosmitpolitan). I have also discovered that no matter what or how you categorize a person, there's not very many single intelligent men who want to date divorced woman. Just my personal observation and opinion.
Don't really have any choice! Not too many women make it to my age without being married or divorced. Or widowed.

Again, with guys, it is mostly a physical thing, so Cosmo girls work for us but it depends what they're after too. I'm not after marriage right now so I go out with anyone who I feel an attraction towards. I go out for fun and companionship. If it gets serious, fine but, lately, I find myself going out with younger gals because they are so much fun and they're not coming in with the hangups (issues) of the older ones. But, as jetmonkey said, we really don't have much choice. I can count, on one hand, the women I've dated who have never been married and are without kids (as I am). I can't count the number that I've been with that have been divorced.

Again, with guys, it is mostly a physical thing, so Cosmo girls work for us but it depends what they're after too. I'm not after marriage right now so I go out with anyone who I feel an attraction towards. I go out for fun and companionship. If it gets serious, fine but, lately, I find myself going out with younger gals because they are so much fun and they're not coming in with the hangups (issues) of the older ones. But, as jetmonkey said, we really don't have much choice. I can count, on one hand, the women I've dated who have never been married and are without kids (as I am). I can't count the number that I've been with that have been divorced.

You're absolutely right about the people having hangups or excess baggage...but that applies to both younger and older. I've seen it both ways. The younger ones are a lot of fun, but not always responsible. The older ones I have dated are usually set in their ways and pretty much home bodies...LOL

I generally find a lot of single men in Northern VA....hell of a drive to meet someone, but all worth the time...young and old!

You're absolutely right about the people having hangups or excess baggage...but that applies to both younger and older. I've seen it both ways. The younger ones are a lot of fun, but not always responsible. The older ones I have dated are usually set in their ways and pretty much home bodies...LOL
I generally find a lot of single men in Northern VA....hell of a drive to meet someone, but all worth the time...young and old!
Absolutely! I worked for the phone company in northern Va for 24 years. Talk about striking gold! I had boatloads of women's names, addresses and phone numbers and the right to go into their homes or work places just because I was the "phone man".:lmao: Life was good back then!
As far as "baggage" goes, I meant "head" issues, not kids. Many of the ladies I dated with kids were cool but too reserved and family oriented for me. I guess they had to be though.
I look for the ones who are really outgoing and fun but not reckless and I really don't want to date "homebodies" either.
I got phone numbers from 3 younger gals at 2 restaurants in the last 3 weeks but they each work 2 jobs so our time is very limited. So I'm still looking because, I've found that they're not ready for a stable longterm relationship but are looking for some fun (Harley fun):yay: Sadly, I find that many gals have NO personality at all but once in a great while I find ones that really know how to hold up their side of the conversation AND are available too! Y'all need to come out and advertize yourselves more!!!:razz:

Absolutely! I worked for the phone company in northern Va for 24 years. Talk about striking gold! I had boatloads of women's names, addresses and phone numbers and the right to go into their homes or work places just because I was the "phone man".:lmao: Life was good back then!
As far as "baggage" goes, I meant "head" issues, not kids. Many of the ladies I dated with kids were cool but too reserved and family oriented for me. I guess they had to be though.
I look for the ones who are really outgoing and fun but not reckless and I really don't want to date "homebodies" either.
I got phone numbers from 3 younger gals at 2 restaurants in the last 3 weeks but they each work 2 jobs so our time is very limited. So I'm still looking because, I've found that they're not ready for a stable longterm relationship but are looking for some fun (Harley fun):yay: Sadly, I find that many gals have NO personality at all but once in a great while I find ones that really know how to hold up their side of the conversation AND are available too! Y'all need to come out and advertize yourselves more!!!:razz:

Sound like a stalker!

u hit it on the head. the other issue is that if you dont work on base, live in the area, and younger your screwed in meeting people (male or female) all together.

Sound like a stalker!
Sounds like, NOT! Just still looking:whistle::lmao:
u hit it on the head. the other issue is that if you dont work on base, live in the area, and younger your screwed in meeting people (male or female) all together.
Younger is the key word here for sure! The older ones hide really well.

I came here as a divorcee completely not looking for anyone. I met my new husband when I went to get insurance! I'm glad I don't have the whole "Dating Game" scenario to deal with because it can be hard to meet people for sure! Don't give up - you never know where you might find somebody.

my guess is the medical folks are at the hospital
the teachers are at school

and the base retards are out fishing or something.


its just better to come here and ask"Who wants to get laid?" :jerry:



Now... that was funny! :lol:

A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)



4) folks who work for the county & state

4) "townies"
ficksed

A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)

She says she knows single folks in all three groups that complain that the dating pool is pretty shallow.

How can we integrate these groups better? I'm in the first group. Obviously I know lots of folks from the base and have plenty of friends to socialize with, but I don't know where the teachers and medical folks hang out. I know they're out there and have seen some of my friend's teacher buddies out now and then, but where are they the rest of the time?

Thoughts?

The problem is putting people into "groups", basing thoughts on what they perceive are traits of each, and not getting to know the actual person.(s).............

The problem is putting people into "groups", basing thoughts on what they perceive are traits of each, and not getting to know the actual person.(s).............

OMFG, Did you just say something that made sense?????

It's the big one Elizbeth.........................

I'm in the first category and I am a divorcee. I have found that the techies are a lot younger than me (not that is a problem for me...their story is wanting a woman that is on the cover of Cosmitpolitan). I have also discovered that no matter what or how you categorize a person, there's not very many single intelligent men who want to date divorced woman with bratty kids. Just my personal observation and opinion.
:fixed:

I date divorced women exclusively :yay:

funny cause I only date married women. Then you do not have to worry about all the commitment crap:whistle:

OMFG, Did you just say something that made sence?????It's the big one Elizbeth.........................



Tigger is that you???:popcorn:

A female friend (married) suggested that the problem with the singles situation down here in SoMd is that there effectively three distinct groups of 30s and 40s professional singles.

1) Technical folks on base (majority men)
2) Teachers and staff in the schools (majority women)
3) medical folks at the hospitals (majority women)

She says she knows single folks in all three groups that complain that the dating pool is pretty shallow.

How can we integrate these groups better? I'm in the first group. Obviously I know lots of folks from the base and have plenty of friends to socialize with, but I don't know where the teachers and medical folks hang out. I know they're out there and have seen some of my friend's teacher buddies out now and then, but where are they the rest of the time?


Thoughts?



There is a million dollar question. I'm single, very few people to date. I work uptown. Do what everyone tells me "Go online". I haven't, but that is what people tell me. Join one of those dating sites like MATCH.com or E-Harmony. The idea of having to pay to meet someone just doesn't do it for me.

Again, with guys, it is mostly a physical thing, so Cosmo girls work for us but it depends what they're after too. I'm not after marriage right now so I go out with anyone who I feel an attraction towards. I go out for fun and companionship. If it gets serious, fine but, lately, I find myself going out with younger gals because they are so much fun and they're not coming in with the hangups (issues) of the older ones. But, as jetmonkey said, we really don't have much choice. I can count, on one hand, the women I've dated who have never been married and are without kids (as I am). I can't count the number that I've been with that have been divorced.

I'm married w/o kids. If I meet a guy, he's generally too young for me (Think Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher), too old for me (15+ years) or has serious issues.

I've come to the realization that it will either happen when it's supposed to or I'm destined to be alone the rest of my life. I'm starting to think the latter.

There is a million dollar question. I'm single, very few people to date. I work uptown. Do what everyone tells me "Go online". I haven't, but that is what people tell me. Join one of those dating sites like MATCH.com or E-Harmony. The idea of having to pay to meet someone just doesn't do it for me.

I agree with that. It doesn't make sense. I am lost on where I should be hanging out to meet someone. I am not big into the bar scene and not sure where else to go.

my guess is the medical folks are at the hospital the teachers are at school and the base retards are out fishing or something. its just better to come here and ask"Who wants to get laid?" :jerry:

:roflmao:

funny cause I only date married women. Then you do not have to worry about all the commitment crap:whistle:

:smack: Butthead!!

I'm married w/o kids. If I meet a guy, he's generally too young for me (Think Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher), too old for me (15+ years) or has serious issues. I've come to the realization that it will either happen when it's supposed to or I'm destined to be alone the rest of my life. I'm starting to think the latter.

:huggy: I know it seems like it will never work out, but just let life take care of itself!!!

I have the best of both worlds. Desertrat and 1bdz. :lol:

I'm married w/o kids. If I meet a guy, he's generally too young for me (Think Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher), too old for me (15+ years) or has serious issues.
I've come to the realization that it will either happen when it's supposed to or I'm destined to be alone the rest of my life. I'm starting to think the latter.
Did you say you're married w/o kids and yet looking???? Typo I hope....
I heard that the best way to meet someone is by having a mutual friend set you up. When I ask my friends if they know any single ladies, they say NO. (Sounds like a Rodney Dangerfield joke).
I am lost on where I should be hanging out to meet someone. I am not big into the bar scene and not sure where else to go.
I gave up the bar scene many years ago but once in a while I hang out at Gilligans because I know the owner and a few of the waitresses. It seems that 90% are couples and the rest are the typical "bar flies".
The problem is what there is to choose from down here (and I mean both genders). Just my observation and not to degrade anyone but the way some dress, carry themselves and talk really speaks volumes about the attitude of many people in this country.
Online dating isn't much different. The faces are all different but the bio's read like they were cut & pasted from each other. As I've said before, you available people need to get out and advertise yourselves more!:evil:

I think there are way more categories of people than the OP listed. But, maybe that's what he is only looking for. IMO the list goes at least something like this.

1) Base employees
2) Educators
3) Health field
4) Local govt.
5) Bar & Restaurant
6) Retail
7) Self-employed
8) Commuters
9) College students
10) Retired or Unemployed

Those are the ones I can come up with. You have singles of all reasons in all of those categories down here. Where you fit in has nothing to do with who you can meet if you have an open mind.

What has affected my dating life when looking to meet men locally is that I only run into the same categories of men. Married, shacking, in a relationship, have their own circle of friends that they have no problem finding someone to be involved in. So, excluding these here are the top killers as to why I'm single.

A lot of the black men down here are not interested in only black women which poses and imbalance (Ex. 10 black men, 10 black women, 5 any other race women). This goes for the 20-30y/o and the ones on base. Fine, they know what they like.

Most of the white men are not interested in dating black women for whatever reason. I have seen dating profiles where every race/ethnicity category will be checked except black as a preference of white men. Whatever, at least they know what they don't like.

The other ethnicities (non-black) tend to be phantoms and you only see them in their place of business or maybe shopping with their families. And, usually there is a culture/language barrier that has to be broken through.

For what it's worth, I'm not bitter about the imbalance because my preference is black men so why shouldn't someone else prefer their own. And, I think there are enough white women down here for all the white men down here so white men really have no need to date outside of their race.

I have befriended a lot of black women down here via online sites and have asked them where do they go to meet men, it's always up the road (Waldorf, PG, DC). No clue why they don't meet men locally (too recycled?). It's at least a plan but I wonder how the gas prices will affect it as most men up the road don't look down the road because the women up the road are plenty.

Ok, I'm done. :flowers:

Ummmm...we're in St. Mary's and you failed to list

11. Blue colar.



:howdy:

I have the best of both worlds. Desertrat and 1bdz. :lol:

:huggy:

There is a million dollar question. I'm single, very few people to date. I work uptown. Do what everyone tells me "Go online". I haven't, but that is what people tell me. Join one of those dating sites like MATCH.com or E-Harmony. The idea of having to pay to meet someone just doesn't do it for me.

DATE HOOKUP. Com is a free site that works like any other date site plus they have a fun forum also

DATE HOOKUP. Com is a free site that works like any other date site plus they have a fun forum also

looks interesting, I may have to check that out

Did you say you're married w/o kids and yet looking???? Typo I hope....I heard that the best way to meet someone is by having a mutual friend set you up. When I ask my friends if they know any single ladies, they say NO. (Sounds like a Rodney Dangerfield joke).

I gave up the bar scene many years ago but once in a while I hang out at Gilligans because I know the owner and a few of the waitresses. It seems that 90% are couples and the rest are the typical "bar flies".
The problem is what there is to choose from down here (and I mean both genders). Just my observation and not to degrade anyone but the way some dress, carry themselves and talk really speaks volumes about the attitude of many people in this country.
Online dating isn't much different. The faces are all different but the bio's read like they were cut & pasted from each other. As I've said before, you available people need to get out and advertise yourselves more!:evil:

It was a typo...sorry about that. I'm not married and no kids!!! :lmao:

There is a million dollar question. I'm single, very few people to date. I work uptown.....
I'm married w/o kids. ...:confused:

DATE HOOKUP. Com is a free site that works like any other date site plus they have a fun forum also

Yeah, someone at work also told me about one called "Plenty of fish.com". :lmao: I checked it out and looked. I still don't think on-line dating is my thing. I come from the Old School where you go out (whether it's at a bar, gym, grocery store, in a park, a party, etc) and meet someone or meet someone through mutual friends or something of that nature. It feels forced when you actually go on-line to look for someone. I guess w/most people's schedules, it's hard to meet people of opposite sex.

:confused:

It was a typo!!! :lmao: I know, I'd be confused too!!

When I ask my friends if they know any single ladies, they say NO. (Sounds like a Rodney Dangerfield joke).Werd.

None of my friends have EVER tried to set me up. I figure even though they hang out with me, there must be something seriously wrong with me.

:confused:Only one of her personalities is married.

:howdy:

I have pics of my baby I need to send to you. Cell?

What did you take them with? If it was your cell, then yeah send them to mine. If not, email them to my yahoo account.

Your baby...:killingme

Sending...

I could have walked right out of there with her. :flowers:

And BS Gal wanted to steal Katie. :lmao:

I don't know what you people are biatching about the SoMD forums worked for me a number of times. :lmao: :killingme

Sending...

Aww...thanks. :lmao:

She was not interested in that photo opt as she had other plans but she did great. :flowers:

She's not much on pictures.

I don't know what you people are biatching about the SoMD forums worked for me a number of times. :lmao: :killingme

yeah me to but yahoo personals works really great also:yahoo:

Werd.

None of my friends have EVER tried to set me up. I figure even though they hang out with me, there must be something seriously wrong with me.
Werd??? Is that Microsoft "werd"?
Ok, then have them set me up....wait, I don't know what type of friends you hang with so.....never mind
Only one of her personalities is married.
:lmao::lmao::lmao:

Werd??? Is that Microsoft "werd"?
Ok, then have them set me up....wait, I don't know what type of friends you hang with so.....never mind

:lmao::lmao::lmao:

Aren't you 50 something? Maybe 30-40 yr. old women don't want to date an older guy :shrug:

Aren't you 50 something? Maybe 30-40 yr. old women don't want to date an older guy :shrug:

Again, it's not about dating, it's about going out to have fun, so there's no chance of heartbreak for either party. In the last 2 years, I've been out with gals ranging from 23 up to 55 and we had a great time but neither extreme was the type for me to want to get serious with. (Too young and too old). For me, someone in the 30-45 year age range usually works the best for compatibility. I prefer the younger ladies who enjoy my company but I can't see a serious relationship with them because of emotional incompatibility. But I do enjoy their liveliness, spontanaiety and zest for life (which is what I have) and which is something I do not find in most of the older ladies I've been out with. Plus I do not look at all like my age would indicate. I believe we're as old as we feel BUT, I'm not one of these old folks trying to be a kid again. I have fun to the max but not in the reckless way that some do today. Sorry for the sermon DT.

Again, it's not about dating, it's about going out to have fun, so there's no chance of heartbreak for either party. In the last 2 years, I've been out with gals ranging from 23 up to 55 and we had a great time but neither extreme was the type for me to want to get serious with. (Too young and too old). For me, someone in the 30-45 year age range usually works the best for compatibility. I prefer the younger ladies who enjoy my company but I can't see a serious relationship with them because of emotional incompatibility. But I do enjoy their liveliness, spontanaiety and zest for life (which is what I have) and which is something I do not find in most of the older ladies I've been out with. Plus I do not look at all like my age would indicate. I believe we're as old as we feel BUT, I'm not one of these old folks trying to be a kid again. I have fun to the max but not in the reckless way that some do today. Sorry for the sermon DT.

Interesting....No sermon, you said what you feel. I don't look our age either and have dated from 20 years younger to 15 years older. To me, age is not a factor anymore but I prefer someone much closer to my age. I look at the total person and what I can learn, enjoy and what we have in common.
I was just interested in what you had to say about dating so much younger in years.

Interesting....No sermon, you said what you feel. I don't look our age either and have dated from 20 years younger to 15 years older. To me, age is not a factor anymore but I prefer someone much closer to my age. I look at the total person and what I can learn, enjoy and what we have in common.
I was just interested in what you had to say about dating so much younger in years.My ex wife told me two summers ago that the first thing she thought when she saw me was that I 'looked old'. Thanks, #####!

My ex wife told me two summers ago that the first thing she thought when she saw me was that I 'looked old'. Thanks, #####!

I hope you told her she was still a #### :lol:

I hope you told her she was still a #### :lol:No I'm actually polite and mindful of people's feelings :shrug:

Interesting....No sermon, you said what you feel. I don't look our age either and have dated from 20 years younger to 15 years older. To me, age is not a factor anymore but I prefer someone much closer to my age. I look at the total person and what I can learn, enjoy and what we have in common.
I was just interested in what you had to say about dating so much younger in years.

:howdy:

:howdy:

:howdy: Hey, haughty hottie!

:howdy: Hey, haughty hottie!

Backatcha babe! :yahoo:

Again, it's not about dating, it's about going out to have fun, so there's no chance of heartbreak for either party. In the last 2 years, I've been out with gals ranging from 23 up to 55 and we had a great time but neither extreme was the type for me to want to get serious with. (Too young and too old). For me, someone in the 30-45 year age range usually works the best for compatibility. I prefer the younger ladies who enjoy my company but I can't see a serious relationship with them because of emotional incompatibility. But I do enjoy their liveliness, spontanaiety and zest for life (which is what I have) and which is something I do not find in most of the older ladies I've been out with. Plus I do not look at all like my age would indicate. I believe we're as old as we feel BUT, I'm not one of these old folks trying to be a kid again. I have fun to the max but not in the reckless way that some do today. Sorry for the sermon DT.

I used to feel that way, go out and have fun w/o the heartbreak. You'd be surprised that the harder you try to keep it fairly platonic, it doesn't work. I used to tell the guys "I just want to have a good time and enjoy your company" but I don't think that is what they were wanting. I always felt a little pressure from the men and I wasn't liking that much. I'd have to straighten them out and tell them quick!!

I don't know what you people are biatching about the SoMD forums worked for me a number of times. :lmao: :killingme

:yeahthat: I had a lovely six months with a SOMD.com :nerd: :yay:


I recommend we all try at least one, or ten:lmao:


Seriously, I don't date locals, but it's not that hard to find a date around here.

Stop looking in obvious places?:shrug: I usually find the best ones by accident:lmao:

I used to feel that way, go out and have fun w/o the heartbreak. You'd be surprised that the harder you try to keep it fairly platonic, it doesn't work. I used to tell the guys "I just want to have a good time and enjoy your company" but I don't think that is what they were wanting. I always felt a little pressure from the men and I wasn't liking that much. I'd have to straighten them out and tell them quick!!
You must be "eye candy" to them?:whistle:

:yeahthat: I had a lovely six months with a SOMD.com :nerd: :yay:


I recommend we all try at least one, or ten:lmao:


Seriously, I don't date locals, but it's not that hard to find a date around here.

Stop looking in obvious places?:shrug: I usually find the best ones by accident:lmao:

You mean I have to wreck my car to meet someone? J/K.
Where are the not so obvious places?
We need to have a singles meet & greet for those on here that are interested.:whistle:

You mean I have to wreck my car to meet someone? J/K.
Where are the not so obvious places?
We need to have a singles meet & greet for those on here that are interested.:whistle:
Your comments in this thread resemble some of my gripes.

Let's just say it as it: When it comes to the dating scene - WALDORF SUCKS!

You mean I have to wreck my car to meet someone? J/K.
Where are the not so obvious places?
We need to have a singles meet & greet for those on here that are interested.:whistle:
There's always WaldorfSingles.com (http://www.waldorfsingles.com/) for you as well...:killingme

I see those signs everyway up my street...I'm ready to tear 'em all down. :killingme

Your comments in this thread resemble some of my gripes.
Let's just say it as it: When it comes to the dating scene - WALDORF SUCKS!
Couldn't agree more! I've been here since 1985 and still come up empty. Many chances but no keepers.
There's always WaldorfSingles.com (http://www.waldorfsingles.com/) for you as well...:killingme
I see those signs everyway up my street...I'm ready to tear 'em all down. :killingme
I looked at their site and it's nothing. All they have is one blank form that you are to fill out with all of your information. Is anyone that stupid to fill out a form with all your info and hit "send"? I expected to see pictures or multiple pages of information stating that they were just starting up or something but there's nothing like it there so I exited the site.

You must be "eye candy" to them?:whistle:

:roflmao: :blushing: I don't know. That was 10+ years ago. I haven't been dating much in the last several years. It's hard to meet single people in this area. Everyone is married or involved.

:roflmao: :blushing: I don't know. That was 10+ years ago. I haven't been dating much in the last several years. It's hard to meet single people in this area. Everyone is married or involved.

:shrug:..not everybody.

:roflmao: :blushing: I don't know. That was 10+ years ago. I haven't been dating much in the last several years. It's hard to meet single people in this area. Everyone is married or involved.

:shrug:..not everybody.

Okay, I'm sorry, not everybody. Just always seems the ones I meet that I'm attracted to are married or involved. So I just think :ohwell: and let it go.

:shrug:..not everybody.
Have you been to St. Charles? :roflmao:

When it comes to the dating scene, this area is the worst. I've long maintained that I would have better luck if I was in Lexington Park or Virginia. :shrug:

I'm sure ItalianScallion can say the same: Always the friend, never the boyfriend. :lol:

Everyone of interest is already taken. :boo:

Have you been to St. Charles? :roflmao:

When it comes to the dating scene, this area is the worst. I've long maintained that I would have better luck if I was in Lexington Park or Virginia. :shrug:

I'm sure ItalianScallion can say the same: Always the friend, never the boyfriend. :lol:

Everyone of interest is already taken. :boo:

Step up your game. Take her to a nice dinner (not in Waldorf), buy yourself a new shirt, get a hair cut and have fun. Girls like kisses too!:love:

Step up your game. Take her to a nice dinner (not in Waldorf), buy yourself a new shirt, get a hair cut and have fun. Girls like kisses too!:love:

So where are your hot friends at?:howdy:

So where are your hot friends at?:howdy:

I don't have any friends:coffee:

I don't have any friends:coffee:

Your a big disappointment, what good are you to me:buttkick::duel:

Your a big disappointment, what good are you to me:buttkick::duel:

Do what I told Andy to do.:yahoo:

Do what I told Andy to do.:yahoo:

Sounds like a lot of work:howdy::popcorn:

Sounds like a lot of work:howdy::popcorn:

yea...screw it

yea...screw it

exactly:killingme

exactly:killingme

when I go out with my bf I wear my best sweats and no make up. See, no work at all!

when I go out with my bf I wear my best sweats and no make up. See, no work at all!

Thats bc you already have a bf, try doing that single, you wouldn't get a second look:otter:

Thats bc you already have a bf, try doing that single, you wouldn't get a second look:otter:

i would dump my girl if she regularly did that. (she would do the same if i dressed like that.)

i would dump my girl if she regularly did that. (she would do the same if i dressed like that.)

:yeahthat:

:yeahthat:

It was a joke...I dont leave the house dressed like that. I take pride in my appearance, unlike a lot of the trash I see around here.

It was a joke...I dont leave the house dressed like that. I take pride in my appearance, unlike a lot of the trash I see around here.

LOL I know it was a joke, and there is a lot of that everywhere.

:roflmao: :blushing: I don't know. That was 10+ years ago. I haven't been dating much in the last several years. It's hard to meet single people in this area. Everyone is married or A FLAKE
fixed:

Sounds like you, me, Toppick, Andy & Gtmustang should meet and do lunch:whistle:
Darn! 4 guys and one gal, See what I mean!

You mean I have to wreck my car to meet someone? J/K.
Where are the not so obvious places?
We need to have a singles meet & greet for those on here that are interested.:whistle:

No honey, you just have to be a train wreck to catch any poon around here. I've given up trying to tell my friends that the guys around here who are from here are single for a reason!!:rolleyes:

The not so obvious places are the places that you don't go to looking for tail. Car shows, race track and local festivals that serve beer for the down home types, but dont' choose the guys and gals that stand right next to the beer truck.:lol: The professional types need to either try online dating or stop looking for local dates. If you can't date in your circle then there's a something missing in you circle of friends. I don't think professional types like hanging out with their co-workers, but I've seen plenty of cops end up married to cops and just as many nurses end up with construction workers. :shrug:

Good luck with that singles thing, I'm so done with that crap it ain't funny. :dead:

No honey, you just have to be a train wreck to catch any poon around here. I've given up trying to tell my friends that the guys around here who are from here are single for a reason!!:rolleyes:

The not so obvious places are the places that you don't go to looking for tail. Car shows, race track and local festivals that serve beer for the down home types, but dont' choose the guys and gals that stand right next to the beer truck.:lol:
Good luck with that singles thing, I'm so done with that crap it ain't funny. :dead:
:killingme:killingme I'm no train wreck but you're sooo right BB! I've been in the Waldorf since '85 and dating is the pits here. I don't even want the "poon" down here. You're right about most of the guys. Thank God I don't have to date them.
The beer truck is just a bar on wheels to me so the women are the same ones that are at a regular bar.
After being out of the work/dating loop for 6 years and, after talking to some people down here, I find that I don't even want to be their friend. How weird is that? I hate to say this but people seem to be of less quality than they were years ago. Less friendly, less in common, less sociable. Depressing isn't it? That's why I used the word "flake" earlier.

:killingme:killingme I'm no train wreck but you're sooo right BB! I've been in the Waldorf since '85 and dating is the pits here. I don't even want the "poon" down here. You're right about most of the guys. Thank God I don't have to date them.
The beer truck is just a bar on wheels to me so the women are the same ones that are at a regular bar.
After being out of the work/dating loop for 6 years and, after talking to some people down here, I find that I don't even want to be their friend. How weird is that? I hate to say this but people seem to be of less quality than they were years ago. Less friendly, less in common, less sociable. Depressing isn't it? That's why I used the word "flake" earlier.

Maybe you should expand your horizons and look outside of Waldorf.

I'm in the first category and I am a divorcee. I have found that the techies are a lot younger than me (not that is a problem for me...their story is wanting a woman that is on the cover of Cosmitpolitan). I have also discovered that no matter what or how you categorize a person, there's not very many single intelligent men who want to date divorced woman. Just my personal observation and opinion.

:howdy: but only if they're hot.

i would dump my girl if she regularly did that. (she would do the same if i dressed like that.)

Dressing to impress is overrated and make up is disguisting.

:howdy: but only if they're hot.



Dressing to impress is overrated and make up is disguisting.

So you date the typical "gray sweatpant wearing kind of girl that thinks slapping on some blistex is sexy"??

a little bit of makeup and pride in your appearance doesn't hurt!

So you date the typical "gray sweatpant wearing kind of girl that thinks slapping on some blistex is sexy"??

a little bit of makeup and pride in your appearance doesn't hurt!

I like them dressed up just as much as I do in sweat pants- though what I consider "dressed up" you probably wouldn't like.

I find make up to be disguisting. I don't like blistex either. I want to touch and see my woman's face, not the toxin's she's covered herself in because of societial BS and insecurity.

I like them dressed up just as much as I do in sweat pants- though what I consider "dressed up" you probably wouldn't like.

I find make up to be disguisting. I don't like blistex either. I want to touch and see my woman's face, not the toxin's she's covered herself in because of societial BS and insecurity.

That's a really big assumption there buddy...but if you are willing to say that then go right ahead.

That's a really big assumption there buddy...but if you are willing to say that then go right ahead.

:bigwhoop:

Maybe you should expand your horizons and look outside of Waldorf.
Believe me I do! I just happen to live, shop & eat out here so I'm basing my comments on what I see here.:howdy:

Believe me I do! I just happen to live, shop & eat out here so I'm basing my comments on what I see here.:howdy:

:yeahthat:

Waldorf's like a black hole. No matter how hard you try to get out, it sucks you back in primarily by washing out any plans you may have.

:yeahthat:

Waldorf's like a black hole. No matter how hard you try to get out, it sucks you back in primarily by washing out any plans you may have.

Seems like it is your fault for letting it ruin your plans/life

Seems like it is your fault for letting it ruin your plans/life
:smack::smack::smack:Kind of hard to go to a race when they keep getting cancelled due to weather :smack::smack::smack:

:smack::smack::smack:Kind of hard to go to a race when they keep getting cancelled due to weather :smack::smack::smack:
Wow... it's gettin' violent now... one smack I can understand, but 6?

my guess is the medical folks are at the hospital
the teachers are at school

and the base retards are out fishing or something.


its just better to come here and ask"Who wants to get laid?" :jerry:

That to me is extremely offensive....

i'm out playing golf thank you very much:killingme

Wow... it's gettin' violent now... one smack I can understand, but 6?
:jet:

:love: ... :lmao:

Yes, I hate clueless people.

Races get canceled when it rains and I don't go to the movies because I hate Waldorf theaters.

What else is there? :yawn:

:jet:

:love: ... :lmao:

Yes, I hate clueless people.

Races get canceled when it rains and I don't go to the movies because I hate Waldorf theaters.

What else is there? :yawn:
:gossip: :yay: :lmao:

:jet:

:love: ... :lmao:

Yes, I hate clueless people.

Races get canceled when it rains and I don't go to the movies because I hate Waldorf theaters.

What else is there? :yawn:

That's why you actually have to leave Waldorf. You are only 20 minutes to D.C. Open your eyes little bird and spread those wings!!! Fly Andy Fly!

That's why you actually have to leave Waldorf. You are only 20 minutes to D.C. Open your eyes little bird and spread those wings!!! Fly Andy Fly!

yes! I'm sure you're G5 will leave Waldorf..I'm beginning to think it's you that doesn't want to leave...then complain how much it sucks. Look around, there is the Chesapeake Bay, Patuxent River, Mts. not far away. Take a vacation, and leave the county!

yes! I'm sure you're G5 will leave Waldorf..I'm beginning to think it's you that doesn't want to leave...then complain how much it sucks. Look around, there is the Chesapeake Bay, Patuxent River, Mts. not far away. Take a vacation, and leave the county!

if you are single and staying in waldorf no wonder you are bored...there are two major cities to go out and meet people in..and OC is just a three hour drive...get some peeps together get a hotel and party for the weekend.

if you are single and staying in waldorf no wonder you are bored...there are two major cities to go out and meet people in..and OC is just a three hour drive...get some peeps together get a hotel and party for the weekend.
:nomoney:

:nomoney:

I like when people complain and then sit back and do nothing to change it. You deserve your life.

:smack: Come on now... that's pretty damn harsh.

He didn't say he's not doing anything to change it, he's telling you that he's a broke single guy and therefore cannot jaunt off to the big city to meet chicks.

Are you sure you're not wearing a defective VS thong that's made you a little cranky?

:smack: Come on now... that's pretty damn harsh.

He didn't say he's not doing anything to change it, he's telling you that he's a broke single guy and therefore cannot jaunt off to the big city to meet chicks.

Are you sure you're not wearing a defective VS thong that's made you a little cranky?

He lives with Mommy. That should help to save money. How about a credit card? Kris, why don't you take him out and show him a good time. You may have to pay but I am sure he is worth it!

He lives with Mommy. That should help to save money. How about a credit card? Kris, why don't you take him out and show him a good time. You may have to pay but I am sure he is worth it!

yea and where a thong too! *shutters*

He lives with Mommy. That should help to save money. How about a credit card? Kris, why don't you take him out and show him a good time. You may have to pay but I am sure he is worth it!

... not again.... :rolleyes:

yea and where a thong too! *shutters*

Please translate... are you telling me to wear a thong, or are you asking me where a thong is?

Also, are you shuddering or are you talking about window shutters?

... not again.... :rolleyes:



Please translate... are you telling me to wear a thong, or are you asking me where a thong is?

Also, are you shuddering or are you talking about window shutters?

you should wear the thong on the date with Andy and wear your Steve Maddens. Get all dolled up!

Oh and sorry for the spelling mishaps. Glad you got an A in 13th grade at CSM in English.

you should wear the thong on the date with Andy and wear your Steve Maddens. Get all dolled up!

Oh and sorry for the spelling mishaps. Glad you got an A in 13th grade at CSM in English.

#1: :nono: There is no date with Andy... I think I've been over this publicly, but if not then publically we'd never work because I don't like NASCAR :yay:

#2: I'm pretty sure you wouldn't know a Steve Madden shoe if it hit you upside the head, so don't go throwing his name around like it's household.

#3: Those weren't spelling mishaps... those were completely different words, and would not have been picked up by spell check. In the future, if you are going to attempt to harass or insult me, please take the time to make sure you do it with the right words lest your message become confused and the joke falls back on you. TIA :kiss:

#1: :nono: There is no date with Andy... I think I've been over this publicly, but if not then publically we'd never work because I don't like NASCAR :yay:

#2: I'm pretty sure you wouldn't know a Steve Madden shoe if it hit you upside the head, so don't go throwing his name around like it's household.

#3: Those weren't spelling mishaps... those were completely different words, and would not have been picked up by spell check. In the future, if you are going to attempt to harass or insult me, please take the time to make sure you do it with the right words lest your message become confused and the joke falls back on you. TIA :kiss:

#1: Opposites attract

#2: Just got a new pair of Steve Madden's two days ago in the mail

#3: I was not "attempting". This is the internet. It is all a joke.

oh yea.....#4 Andy thinks you're purdy:smoochy:

oh yea.....#4 Andy thinks you're purdy:smoochy:

I think she's purtie too. :kiss: But you know beauty is inside a person as much as it is reflected in appearance. You knew that right? So there can be some really hot body types that are absolutely ugly because of who they are and how they act. And there can be some average looking people who are so beautiful inside that you just get amazed by their beauty each and every time.

You know what I find hilarous, is that a lot of you pick on Kris, because of what you "presume" about her, acting is if you are better than her. However, none of you seem to want to take the time to get to know her. And what's really funny, is you all are hiding behind a computer pretending you are cool while you are nothing but attempting to be cruel. Meanwhile Kris takes it all in stride and laughs and is never intentionally cruel to anybody and remains pretty positive and upbeat. That right there shows me who the ugly people are, without ever having to see a picture.

I think she's purtie too. :kiss: But you know beauty is inside a person as much as it is reflected in appearance. You knew that right? So there can be some really hot body types that are absolutely ugly because of who they are and how they act. And there can be some average looking people who are so beautiful inside that you just get amazed by their beauty each and every time.

You know what I find hilarous, is that a lot of you pick on Kris, because of what you "presume" about her, acting is if you are better than her. However, none of you seem to want to take the time to get to know her. And what's really funny, is you all are hiding behind a computer pretending you are cool while you are nothing but attempting to be cruel. Meanwhile Kris takes it all in stride and laughs and is never intentionally cruel to anybody and remains pretty positive and upbeat. That right there shows me who the ugly people are, without ever having to see a picture.

I know Kris, and like her alot...........plus, she makes some mean 'skettie..:yay:

I think she's purtie too. :kiss: But you know beauty is inside a person as much as it is reflected in appearance. You knew that right? So there can be some really hot body types that are absolutely ugly because of who they are and how they act. And there can be some average looking people who are so beautiful inside that you just get amazed by their beauty each and every time.

You know what I find hilarous, is that a lot of you pick on Kris, because of what you "presume" about her, acting is if you are better than her. However, none of you seem to want to take the time to get to know her. And what's really funny, is you all are hiding behind a computer pretending you are cool while you are nothing but attempting to be cruel. Meanwhile Kris takes it all in stride and laughs and is never intentionally cruel to anybody and remains pretty positive and upbeat. That right there shows me who the ugly people are, without ever having to see a picture.

Be careful on that high horse judging others and what you presume to be happening. You might get a nose bleed.

Be careful on that high horse judging others and what you presume to be happening. You might get a nose bleed.

No nose bleed, only a headache. I don't like heights, so no high horses for me. :ohwell: I'm glad to leave the high and mighty opinion making to yourself.

I think she's purtie too. :kiss: But you know beauty is inside a person as much as it is reflected in appearance. You knew that right? So there can be some really hot body types that are absolutely ugly because of who they are and how they act. And there can be some average looking people who are so beautiful inside that you just get amazed by their beauty each and every time.

You know what I find hilarous, is that a lot of you pick on Kris, because of what you "presume" about her, acting is if you are better than her. However, none of you seem to want to take the time to get to know her. And what's really funny, is you all are hiding behind a computer pretending you are cool while you are nothing but attempting to be cruel. Meanwhile Kris takes it all in stride and laughs and is never intentionally cruel to anybody and remains pretty positive and upbeat. That right there shows me who the ugly people are, without ever having to see a picture.
Awww... I think you're pretty amazing yourself Mig.

I don't know what you people are biatching about the SoMD forums worked for me a number of times. :lmao: :killingme

:yay:

I don't know what you people are biatching about the SoMD forums worked for me a number of times. :lmao: :killingme

ewwww gross!!!!

ewwww gross!!!!

:yeahthat: :lol:

I imagine some, if not most, of the people on here are :crazy:.

:yeahthat: :lol:

I imagine some, if not most, of the people on here are :crazy:.


Huh?! Did someone call me?:crazy::jameo:

Huh?! Did someone call me?:crazy::jameo:

Certifiably. Whatcha gonna do about it? :snacks:

I think she's purtie too. :kiss: But you know beauty is inside a person as much as it is reflected in appearance. You knew that right? So there can be some really hot body types that are absolutely ugly because of who they are and how they act. And there can be some average looking people who are so beautiful inside that you just get amazed by their beauty each and every time.

You know what I find hilarous, is that a lot of you pick on Kris, because of what you "presume" about her, acting is if you are better than her. However, none of you seem to want to take the time to get to know her. And what's really funny, is you all are hiding behind a computer pretending you are cool while you are nothing but attempting to be cruel. Meanwhile Kris takes it all in stride and laughs and is never intentionally cruel to anybody and remains pretty positive and upbeat. That right there shows me who the ugly people are, without ever having to see a picture.

Very nice post. I personnally do not know Kris. I can't tell you what kind of person she is or isn't. I can tell you that I've joked with Kris numerous times all in fun, and she's had enough of a humorous side to play back. The only thing I've really disagreed heavily with regarding Kris was the thread she started about the runaway boy that died in the car accident and I did agree with her that she was being an insenitive biatch, her words not mine. Many folks on here are out right vicious when it comes to personal attacks on others, soley based upon their looks alone. If she was some hotty, she'd be bombed with IMs from those wanting to bangbangbang her. Lots of shallow Hals on here IMO.

Very nice post. I personnally do not know Kris. I can't tell you what kind of person she is or isn't. I can tell you that I've joked with Kris numerous times all in fun, and she's had enough of a humorous side to play back. The only thing I've really disagreed heavily with regarding Kris was the thread she started about the runaway boy that died in the car accident and I did agree with her that she was being an insenitive biatch, her words not mine. Many folks on here are out right vicious when it comes to personal attacks on others, soley based upon their looks alone. If she was some hotty, she'd be bombed with IMs from those wanting to bangbangbang her. Lots of shallow Hals on here IMO.

Mob rules. This is the only forum I've ever been on that hazes its new members. :shrug: Sometimes it's contagious too:doh:

The thing about looks is, eventually we all get old and wrinkled. Some of us just have further to fall and those who fall farthest, fall hardest. :yay:

Kris seems pretty nice, and possibly a lot of fun, IMO. I could care less what she looks like.

Mob rules. This is the only forum I've ever been on that hazes its new members. :shrug: Sometimes it's contagious too:doh:

The thing about looks is, eventually we all get old and wrinkled. Some of us just have further to fall and those who fall farthest, fall hardest. :yay:

Kris seems pretty nice, and possibly a lot of fun, IMO. I could care less what she looks like.

Yeah I have to agree that the third grade antics of " OooHhhh, Your fat and ugly" doesn't really allow be to believe the person I am interacting with has any real intelligence. If the best card youv'e got is a fat/ugly/single mom stab, I know right away that I'm dealing with a real rocket scientist.:rolleyes:

Very nice post. I personnally do not know Kris. I can't tell you what kind of person she is or isn't. I can tell you that I've joked with Kris numerous times all in fun, and she's had enough of a humorous side to play back. The only thing I've really disagreed heavily with regarding Kris was the thread she started about the runaway boy that died in the car accident and I did agree with her that she was being an insenitive biatch, her words not mine. Many folks on here are out right vicious when it comes to personal attacks on others, soley based upon their looks alone. If she was some hotty, she'd be bombed with IMs from those wanting to bangbangbang her. Lots of shallow Hals on here IMO.

Heh... ya gotta go with the flow :yay:

Mob rules. This is the only forum I've ever been on that hazes its new members. :shrug: Sometimes it's contagious too:doh:

The thing about looks is, eventually we all get old and wrinkled. Some of us just have further to fall and those who fall farthest, fall hardest. :yay:

Kris seems pretty nice, and possibly a lot of fun, IMO. I could care less what she looks like.

This is the first forum I've been in that has a hazing period... before this I was in a chat room that had a hazing period (and I was in that chat room for 13 years...) I am pretty nice, most of the time... and I can be lots of fun if the moment calls for it :lmao:

Yeah I have to agree that the third grade antics of " OooHhhh, Your fat and ugly" doesn't really allow be to believe the person I am interacting with has any real intelligence. If the best card youv'e got is a fat/ugly/single mom stab, I know right away that I'm dealing with a real rocket scientist.:rolleyes:

Many people are sensitive about their weight and their looks, or insecure about their own, so that's the first thing they attack in others. I'm happy with who I am and that's all that matters in the end, because I'm my own worst enemy and harshest critic.

Kris seems pretty nice, and possibly a lot of fun, IMO. I could care less what she looks like.
:yeahthat: :yay:

:yeahthat: :yay:

get her andy:love:

:yeahthat: :yay:

coochie coochie coo!!!!

:yeahthat: :yay:
Awww... thanks :smoochy:

Pssst... I watched NASCAR for like... 10 minutes today and didn't hate it.

Heh... ya gotta go with the flow :yay:



This is the first forum I've been in that has a hazing period... before this I was in a chat room that had a hazing period (and I was in that chat room for 13 years...) I am pretty nice, most of the time... and I can be lots of fun if the moment calls for it :lmao:



Many people are sensitive about their weight and their looks, or insecure about their own, so that's the first thing they attack in others. I'm happy with who I am and that's all that matters in the end, because I'm my own worst enemy and harshest critic.

That's because it's easier to poke fun at other people than it is to put the brownie down, stop buying ice cream by the truck load, or do something that requires some form of physical excertion.

Heh... ya gotta go with the flow :yay:

Many people are sensitive about their weight and their looks, or insecure about their own, so that's the first thing they attack in others. I'm happy with who I am and that's all that matters in the end, because I'm my own worst enemy and harshest critic.

How did this get twisted to people hazed you on your looks? That's total:bs: So stop the "poor me" phony whining.

Think back....people didn't like your attitude. It wasn't Kris's looks that made her not well received. It was her attitude and posts that said people here were all hicks, uneducated and knew nothing about anything while she was smarter, more cosmopolitan and knew about just everything under the sun. We have no clubs, we don't read and music? Ha, we're all dumber than a box o' rox in that dept. Then after all the insults and pats on her own back she told us how cool she was because she was bi and so different :duh: and to go look at her Myspace.
How it morphed into we all dislike her because of her appearance was twisted that way so she could cry her "poor me, I'm getting picked on" crap.
Even last week you stated were a paralegal in a large law firm.... until you got called on it.:bigwhoop:

Even last week you stated were a paralegal in a large law firm.... until you got called on it.:bigwhoop:

... I am a paralegal in a large law firm... you don't need a degree to be one.

From the Bureau of Labor and Statistics (www.bls.gov):
In fact, paralegals—also called legal assistants—are continuing to assume a growing range of tasks in legal offices and perform many of the same tasks as lawyers.

My OFFICIAL job title is "Legal Assistant". I send out letters every single day that have that job title on them.

From Legal Careers Online (www.legalcareersonline.org):
Put simply, legal assistants or paralegals (the terms are interchangeable) are individuals who assist lawyers in the delivery of legal services.

People are so hung up on their job titles! Get over it! I'm not a janitor, I'm a building service worker.....or I'm not a secretary...I'm an assistant! Big deal. Funny how people who have 10 words in their title can barely pull in a 5 figure income.

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People are so hung up on their job titles! Get over it! I'm not a janitor, I'm a building service worker.....or I'm not a secretary...I'm an assistant! Big deal. Funny how people who have 10 words in their title can barely pull in a 5 figure income.
It's not so much the job title as it is the claim that I am not what I professed to be.

I worked hard to get my job. I created the job opening for myself in the law firm precisely because I am going to school with aspirations to become an attorney. Because I was able to create my job opening, I was also able to dictate the hours I work, and it works around my schooling schedule.

Forgive me for being sensitive about the subject when it's one of the accomplishments in my life I am most proud of.

How did this get twisted to people hazed you on your looks? That's total:bs: So stop the "poor me" phony whining.

Think back....people didn't like your attitude. It wasn't Kris's looks that made her not well received. It was her attitude and posts that said people here were all hicks, uneducated and knew nothing about anything while she was smarter, more cosmopolitan and knew about just everything under the sun. We have no clubs, we don't read and music? Ha, we're all dumber than a box o' rox in that dept. Then after all the insults and pats on her own back she told us how cool she was because she was bi and so different :duh: and to go look at her Myspace.
How it morphed into we all dislike her because of her appearance was twisted that way so she could cry her "poor me, I'm getting picked on" crap.
Even last week you stated were a paralegal in a large law firm.... until you got called on it.:bigwhoop:

I said "Damn"......and I fully agree! Maybe her and Andy would make a great couple......they could sit side by side on their computers and whine at each other. Match made in hell.

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I love your new little picture responses...... You are so avant garde!!

How did this get twisted to people hazed you on your looks? That's total:bs: So stop the "poor me" phony whining.


NOT ONCE have I called to anyone to jump in and defend me from the attacks. Anyone who has given their opinion of me, in this thread or any other, has done so of their free will without prompting from me. I don't need a crew of "yes men" to tell me something I feel or think is a valid thought process. People who are there to do nothing but :buttkiss: aren't worth the time to invest in a friendship with.

I can say with all honesty there are really only 3 people on this entire forum that I just absolutely cannot stand and I've met each one of them in real life and have had real life experiences with them enough to know that it wasn't just an off day...

I didn't twist anything in to a "poor me" and that I was "hazed" by my looks... quit being such a damn :drama: in regards to me... it's getting old, sad, and pathetic.

NOT ONCE have I called to anyone to jump in and defend me from the attacks. Anyone who has given their opinion of me, in this thread or any other, has done so of their free will without prompting from me. I don't need a crew of "yes men" to tell me something I feel or think is a valid thought process. People who are there to do nothing but :buttkiss: aren't worth the time to invest in a friendship with.

I can say with all honesty there are really only 3 people on this entire forum that I just absolutely cannot stand and I've met each one of them in real life and have had real life experiences with them enough to know that it wasn't just an off day...

I didn't twist anything in to a "poor me" and that I was "hazed" by my looks... quit being such a damn :drama: in regards to me... it's getting old, sad, and pathetic.

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NOT ONCE have I called to anyone to jump in and defend me from the attacks. Anyone who has given their opinion of me, in this thread or any other, has done so of their free will without prompting from me. I don't need a crew of "yes men" to tell me something I feel or think is a valid thought process. People who are there to do nothing but :buttkiss: aren't worth the time to invest in a friendship with.

I can say with all honesty there are really only 3 people on this entire forum that I just absolutely cannot stand and I've met each one of them in real life and have had real life experiences with them enough to know that it wasn't just an off day...

I didn't twist anything in to a "poor me" and that I was "hazed" by my looks... quit being such a damn :drama: in regards to me... it's getting old, sad, and pathetic.


Are you stuck on stupid? :duh: :smack:

I didn't twist anything in to a "poor me" and that I was "hazed" by my looks... quit being such a damn :drama: in regards to me... it's getting old, sad, and pathetic.
In Dye Tied's little world, everyone loves her and everyone agrees with her. Nobody can defend Kris on their own, because in DT's :crazy: little planet, nobody likes Kris.

WGAF what someone looks like? Oh, that's right, that's how we judge people in America, by their looks. :rolleyes:

Way to go Dye Tied, you came into this fread to attack Kris and you failed again.

In Dye Tied's little world, everyone loves her and everyone agrees with her. Nobody can defend Kris on their own, because in DT's :crazy: little planet, nobody likes Kris.

WGAF what someone looks like? Oh, that's right, that's how we judge people in America, by their looks. :rolleyes:

Way to go Dye Tied, you came into this fread to attack Kris and you failed again.

:nono:, Andy.........I like both these wimmins'.

:nono:, Andy.........I like both these wimmins'.
:lmao: You like all wimmins....

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You just don't quit, do you? :crazy:

WGAF what someone looks like? Oh, that's right, that's how we judge people in America, by their looks. :rolleyes:



Exactly why you are single!

You just don't quit, do you? :crazy:

You are working overtime for a piece of Kris, aren't you? You smell blood, don't you boy?

Exactly why you are single!
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