View Full Version : Divorcing and can't afford to move out
jfrenaye
03-16-2009, 02:13 PM
This is a pretty strange tale (http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/03/16/divorce-in-these-difficult-economic-times/). A woman discussed living in her house and is essentially trapped ther by bad decisions and a jerk of a soon to be ex.
I am glad I ain't married but I have read a lot of stories about these situations. Kinda sucks!
dn0121
03-16-2009, 02:24 PM
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not too strange in todays environment.
This is a pretty strange tale (http://www.eyeonannapolis.net/2009/03/16/divorce-in-these-difficult-economic-times/). A woman discussed living in her house and is essentially trapped ther by bad decisions and a jerk of a soon to be ex.
I am glad I ain't married but I have read a lot of stories about these situations. Kinda sucks!
I think that this happens more than you realize.
Cheaper to keeper
jfrenaye
03-16-2009, 03:46 PM
I agree and I have heard of it before, but how odd. I was reading a thread about the story on a Baltimore forum and they were really trashing her for the poor decisions.
Wenchy
03-16-2009, 04:09 PM
Government should have stepped up and ordered mandatory sterilization 20 years ago for anybody claiming any government assistance.
This country sucks and we are all going to pay for the repurscussions for a long time.
It's not Obama's fault.
It is ours.
I agree and I have heard of it before, but how odd. I was reading a thread about the story on a Baltimore forum and they were really trashing her for the poor decisions.
We ALL make poor decisions. TRUST ME! :lol: but I have sooo much sympathy for this woman. I just get it and i'm sorry she was bashed. People do NOT understand how hard it is right now. Do they know how hard it to afford to live on your own and be single. Especially after she is accustomed to having some help and now.. NONE
dachsom
03-16-2009, 05:03 PM
We ALL make poor decisions. TRUST ME! :lol: but I have sooo much sympathy for this woman. I just get it and i'm sorry she was bashed. People do NOT understand how hard it is right now. Do they know how hard it to afford to live on your own and be single. Especially after she is accustomed to having some help and now.. NONE
I am in the same situation. He bought me a truck so I could go to work and I make the payments on it. I also pay rent to live here. He also pays for the cell phones. Yesterday he took it all away and I lost my job because my employment agreement required I have a car and phone and be able to get to work. I could have taken a cab to work but not allowed to use cab to take money to bank (understandable). As soon as I find a home for my puppy, (he's not getting it), I am out of here. Don't know where I'm going but I'm sure it will be a looooooong walk. Oh well, as I always say it is a self-inflicted wound and only I can heal it. Those of you who frequent San Souci Subway, treat the new GM as well as you treated me.:deadhorse
jetmonkey
03-16-2009, 08:14 PM
I am in the same situation. He bought me a truck so I could go to work and I make the payments on it. I also pay rent to live here. He also pays for the cell phones. Yesterday he took it all away and I lost my job because my employment agreement required I have a car and phone and be able to get to work. I could have taken a cab to work but not allowed to use cab to take money to bank (understandable). As soon as I find a home for my puppy, (he's not getting it), I am out of here. Don't know where I'm going but I'm sure it will be a looooooong walk. Oh well, as I always say it is a self-inflicted wound and only I can heal it. Those of you who frequent San Souci Subway, treat the new GM as well as you treated me.:deadhorse
Is it a dachshund? I like them.
dachsom
03-16-2009, 08:25 PM
Is it a dachshund? I like them.
yes. He is a double dapple coat. I love him so much. If I can find a way to keep him I will but looks like I will be living on the street and I can't do that to him.
jetmonkey
03-16-2009, 08:30 PM
yes. He is a double dapple coat. I love him so much. If I can find a way to keep him I will but looks like I will be living on the street and I can't do that to him.
Sounds like you need to find another man, quick! :yay:
Chasey_Lane
03-16-2009, 08:32 PM
Sounds like you need to find another man, quick! :yay:
I think you just found your double-dapple momma.
Wenchy
03-16-2009, 08:38 PM
I think you just found your double-dapple momma.
Another happy ending. :yay: :dye:
jetmonkey
03-16-2009, 08:38 PM
I think you just found your double-dapple momma.
Dang, lost another. My "I'm RICH" post didn't get me any PMs today, either :mad:
dachsom
03-16-2009, 08:43 PM
Sounds like you need to find another man, quick! :yay:
a man is not my problem. He is the one who cost me a good job, a nice home, blah blah blah. not going to get into what happened again. Just gonna do what I gotta do WITHOUT a man's help.:diva:
Chasey_Lane
03-16-2009, 08:43 PM
Dang, lost another. My "I'm RICH" post didn't get me any PMs today, either :mad:
Maybe you should try the "big pecker" route. :yay:
Chasey_Lane
03-16-2009, 08:43 PM
Maybe you should try the "big pecker" route. :yay:
Oh, wait - you did that one, too! :doh:
jetmonkey
03-16-2009, 08:45 PM
Oh, wait - you did that one, too! :doh:
Yeah it was a ####ing squirrel anyway. :mad:
Wenchy
03-16-2009, 08:46 PM
Dang, lost another. My "I'm RICH" post didn't get me any PMs today, either :mad:
This might have something to do with the hair.
jetmonkey
03-16-2009, 08:46 PM
a man is not my problem. He is the one who cost me a good job, a nice home, blah blah blah. not going to get into what happened again. Just gonna do what I gotta do WITHOUT a man's help.:diva:
I dunno, that kinda sounds like a man is EXACTLY your problem :confused:
jetmonkey
03-16-2009, 08:48 PM
This might have something to do with the hair.
No, I think it's because women are ####s.
dachsom
03-17-2009, 02:44 AM
I dunno, that kinda sounds like a man is EXACTLY your problem :confused:
you are right. I am just so angry at myself for letting him do this to me again....
sockgirl77
03-17-2009, 02:58 AM
We ALL make poor decisions. TRUST ME! :lol: but I have sooo much sympathy for this woman. I just get it and i'm sorry she was bashed. People do NOT understand how hard it is right now. Do they know how hard it to afford to live on your own and be single. Especially after she is accustomed to having some help and now.. NONE
I have NO sympathy for her. He was most likely a POS when she married him and never had a connection with the kids. I'll be damned if I'm going to marry someone that makes minimum wage and can't carry his own. She's an awful mother for marrying someone who could not even connect with her kids. Idiot.
I have NO sympathy for her. He was most likely a POS when she married him and never had a connection with the kids. I'll be damned if I'm going to marry someone that makes minimum wage and can't carry his own. She's an awful mother for marrying someone who could not even connect with her kids. Idiot.
Crap,,, I had the ring and everything.
women.
yankee44
03-17-2009, 08:26 AM
Crap,,, I had the ring and everything.
women.
And you make .03 cents more an hour than I do, so I guess that leaves me out too.:cds:
PrepH4U
03-17-2009, 09:00 AM
I have NO sympathy for her. He was most likely a POS when she married him and never had a connection with the kids. I'll be damned if I'm going to marry someone that makes minimum wage and can't carry his own. She's an awful mother for marrying someone who could not even connect with her kids. Idiot.
Hindsight is always easier right?
you are right. I am just so angry at myself for letting him do this to me again....
Just move on. Really. Go home and live with your folks or a friend. get back on your feet. No use in complaining about. Hike up your pants put on your shoes and move on. :biggrin:
sockgirl77
03-17-2009, 10:56 AM
Hindsight is always easier right?
Sure is.
yes. He is a double dapple coat. I love him so much. If I can find a way to keep him I will but looks like I will be living on the street and I can't do that to him.
Is your hotdog a male of female? How old? Temperment? I know someone looking for one.
BiteMeBaby
03-17-2009, 11:38 AM
I have NO sympathy for her. He was most likely a POS when she married him and never had a connection with the kids. I'll be damned if I'm going to marry someone that makes minimum wage and can't carry his own. She's an awful mother for marrying someone who could not even connect with her kids. Idiot.
:kettle: You have kiddoes with 2 POS that have never connected with their kids. ya even went back to one for a second go round. Someone making minimum wage and connecting with the kiddoes is better than spewing out spawn with a no show bebe daddy who doesn't support them
toppick08
03-17-2009, 11:40 AM
:popcorn:
SoMDGirl42
03-17-2009, 11:51 AM
:kettle: You have kiddoes with 2 POS that have never connected with their kids. ya even went back to one for a second go round. Someone making minimum wage and connecting with the kiddoes is better than spewing out spawn with a no show bebe daddy who doesn't support them
:deadhorse:
It's her life, let her live it how she chooses. At least (as far as I know) she does have two jobs and supports her own spawn.
BiteMeBaby
03-17-2009, 12:22 PM
:deadhorse:
It's her life, let her live it how she chooses. At least (as far as I know) she does have two jobs and supports her own spawn.
You know only what you are told. She must have a nosebleed from being on that high horse.
SoMDGirl42
03-17-2009, 12:24 PM
You know only what you are told. She must have a nosebleed from being on that high horse.
I can't argue that point.
sockgirl77
03-17-2009, 12:41 PM
:kettle: You have kiddoes with 2 POS that have never connected with their kids. ya even went back to one for a second go round. Someone making minimum wage and connecting with the kiddoes is better than spewing out spawn with a no show bebe daddy who doesn't support them
I am really beginning to hate pussy MPDs. Grow a set. Only 1/2 of what you said is true. Both have connected with their children. AND if you bothered to read the OP you'll see that this dude did not connect with those children and wasn't making crap for money. Also, I didn't marry the jackasses.
:deadhorse:
It's her life, let her live it how she chooses. At least (as far as I know) she does have two jobs and supports her own spawn.
Exactly.
You know only what you are told. She must have a nosebleed from being on that high horse.
Quite a few people in here know me IRL and know full well that I have 2 jobs and do take care of my kids. Must be easy being an azzhole when you're sitting behind a monitor. Come out from behind your MPD and talk.
jetmonkey
03-17-2009, 12:50 PM
I am really beginning to hate pussy MPDs. Grow a set. Only 1/2 of what you said is true. Both have connected with their children. AND if you bothered to read the OP you'll see that this dude did not connect with those children and wasn't making crap for money. Also, I didn't marry the jackasses.
Exactly.
Quite a few people in here know me IRL and know full well that I have 2 jobs and do take care of my kids. Must be easy being an azzhole when you're sitting behind a monitor. Come out from behind your MPD and talk.
So much massive internet penis today! :golfclap:
vraiblonde
03-17-2009, 01:00 PM
It's her life, let her live it how she chooses.
She can live it how she chooses. But she can't criticize someone else for doing the exact same thing she does without getting her hypocrite ass handed to her.
Too bad.
sockgirl77
03-17-2009, 01:03 PM
She can live it how she chooses. But she can't criticize someone else for doing the exact same thing she does without getting her hypocrite ass handed to her.
Too bad.
Not the exact same thing. I'm not wasting my fingers on this thread anymore. Fact is, I do not feel sorry for myself because I chose this life. So, I certainly do not feel sorry for this chick who chose this life.
BiteMeBaby
03-17-2009, 01:03 PM
She can live it how she chooses. But she can't criticize someone else for doing the exact same thing she does without getting her hypocrite ass handed to her.
Too bad.
zactly. Hypocrisy is what it it. How do we know they didn't run from her and not marry her? Me and my big internet penis would have ran far far far.
:tap: Ok, seriously, about the dog?
sockgirl77
03-17-2009, 01:04 PM
zactly. Hypocrisy is what it it. How do we know they didn't run from her and not marry her? Me and my big internet penis would have ran far far far.
You don't know shiat. Those who do know me do.
Not the exact same thing. I'm not wasting my fingers on this thread anymore. Fact is, I do not feel sorry for myself because I chose this life. So, I certainly do not feel sorry for this chick who chose this life.
You don't know shiat. Those who do know me do.
:nono:
jetmonkey
03-17-2009, 01:09 PM
:tap: Ok, seriously, about the dog?
Dapples are pretty cute but frequently have serious health issues. Occasionally they are born without eyes.
vraiblonde
03-17-2009, 01:10 PM
You don't know shiat. Those who do know me do.
Yeah yeah. Because everyone's so different IRL than they are on the forums. :rolleyes:
Yeah yeah. Because everyone's so different IRL than they are on the forums. :rolleyes:
Not me, I'm as much a B!tch and annoying IRL as I am on here. :yahoo:
jetmonkey
03-17-2009, 01:14 PM
Dapples are pretty cute but frequently have serious health issues. Occasionally they are born without eyes.
BORN WITHOUT EYES, people!
BORN WITHOUT EYES, people!
Ooops, sorry. Here is your :killingme:
Gwydion
03-17-2009, 01:17 PM
The guy makes 20k a year. Thats like $8 or $9 an hour. I can't believe the marriage didn't work.
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