Are you a "cougar"? As in, do you like younger men?

And if so, how young? Like, you're a 40 year old woman, would you date, say, a 21 year old?

Personally, I'm not interested in young guys. We have nothing in common and they're hard to talk to.

Someone correct me if I have it wrong but, I'm not sure 'cougars' are much interested in talking to them?

Are you a "cougar"? As in, do you like younger men?



Sure! But...
According to Wiki, a cougar is a woman who dates much younger men - more than 8 years.

Age disparity in sexual relationships - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships)

Then there's the "half your age + 7" rule. :lol:


And if so, how young? Like, you're a 40 year old woman, would you date, say, a 21 year old? NO, I don't think so! :lmao:

Personally, I'm not interested in young guys. We have nothing in common and they're hard to talk to.
I agree. Nor would I be interested in a much older guy, or even one my own age who acts like he's ready for the home. :jet:

Someone correct me if I have it wrong but, I'm not sure 'cougars' are much interested in talking to them?

:confused:

Why are you answering - you're not a lady! :twitch:


:lmao:

:confused:

Why are you answering - you're not a lady! :twitch:


:lmao:

Drive by... :evil:

Then there's the "half your age + 7" rule. :lol:

That's still too young - for me, it would be a 30 year old.

And I can remember when 30 was a sophisticated older man to me :hot: but now it's just another punk kid. :lol:

Personally, I'm not interested in young guys. We have nothing in common and they're hard to talk to.

:killingme

Don't think conversation is the point

Don't think conversation is the point

Okay, but at some point you have to take a break, right?

That's still too young - for me, it would be a 30 year old.And I can remember when 30 was a sophisticated older man to me :hot: but now it's just another punk kid. :lol:

Me, too! (32yo) That's why I was laughing!

Okay, but at some point you have to take a break, right?

You keep thinking in terms of meaningful relationships.
The cougar thing is the female version of Wham, Bam, Thank you mam.

Okay, but at some point you have to take a break, right?

:buddies:

But not if that's what they're looking for. :lol: Which is why they replied the same way.

You keep thinking in terms of meaningful relationships.
The cougar thing is the female version of Wham, Bam, Thank you mam.

:lol: :yeahthat:

We have nothing in common and they're hard to talk to.

You ever seen Cougar Town? "It's not time to talk now." :lol:

You ever seen Cougar Town? "It's not time to talk now." :lol:

I've never seen it, but aren't they 40+ women and much younger guys? Like Demi Moore, and Ashton Whatshisname?

You keep thinking in terms of meaningful relationships.
The cougar thing is the female version of Wham, Bam, Thank you mam.

OIC. I had this idea that there was dating and other interaction between cougar and cougee.

So let me clarify:

I am talking about relationships, not random sex with someone you hope to never see again.

For relationship purposes - dating, companionship, possible marriage, whatever - how many of you ladies would accept a younger man? And how young would you go?

I've never seen it, but aren't they 40+ women and much younger guys? Like Demi Moore, and Ashton Whatshisname?

It's pretty funny. I don't like Courtney Cox so much but the other characters, etc. are hilarious. It's on right after Modern Family, which is too funny and the show before that, The Middle, is great as well. Starts at 8:30 on Wednesdays.

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Are you a "cougar"? As in, do you like younger men?

And if so, how young? Like, you're a 40 year old woman, would you date, say, a 21 year old?

Personally, I'm not interested in young guys. We have nothing in common and they're hard to talk to.

Been there done that and have several t-shirts :lol: Now I like a smaller age difference.

OMG :lmao:

I like to use the "tortoise" method when judging age.

I am talking about relationships, not random sex with someone you hope to never see again.



I'd think this would be the best way. What else do you need a man for?

For relationship purposes - dating, companionship, possible marriage, whatever - how many of you ladies would accept a younger man? And how young would you go?


IF...and that's a big IF...

35 or so.

You want me to have my saber-tooth tiger log on and explain it to you from her persepective? :shrug:

I'd think this would be the best way. What else do you need a man for?




IF...and that's a big IF...

35 or so.


:yay:

I like to use the "tortoise" method when judging age.

I'm afraid to ask what that is.

I am talking about relationships, not random sex with someone you hope to never see again.


Then you're not talking about cougars.
The term implies an aggressive, carnivorous pussy.
Stalks, attacks, feeds and moves on to the next meal

Then you're not talking about cougars.
The term implies an aggressive, carnivorous pussy.
Stalks, attacks, feeds and moves on to the next meal

Okay, but Demi Moore gets promoted as the UberCougar, and she married her toy boy.

OIC. I had this idea that there was dating and other interaction between cougar and cougee.

So let me clarify:

I am talking about relationships, not random sex with someone you hope to never see again.

For relationship purposes - dating, companionship, possible marriage, whatever - how many of you ladies would accept a younger man? And how young would you go?

I dated younger guys 15 years ago and don't see what the big deal is. One relationship was 18 months and he was 19 years younger. We are still friends to this day.
Another relationship lasted almost 18 months and he was 10 years younger.
Dead Jack was 5 years older and he lasted 5 years until he croaked.
Limp Jack was 3 years older and well...The name says it all :roflmao:

If I connect with a guy on several levels, age is not a consideration :shrug:

OIC. I had this idea that there was dating and other interaction between cougar and cougee.

So let me clarify:

I am talking about relationships, not random sex with someone you hope to never see again.

For relationship purposes - dating, companionship, possible marriage, whatever - how many of you ladies would accept a younger man? And how young would you go?


No way 20 years or even 15 years younger.

OIC. I had this idea that there was dating and other interaction between cougar and cougee.

So let me clarify:

I am talking about relationships, not random sex with someone you hope to never see again.

For relationship purposes - dating, companionship, possible marriage, whatever - how many of you ladies would accept a younger man? And how young would you go?

Since I'm seeing someone 15-1/2 years my junior, I guess I'll weigh in on this...

I'm a nondiscriminatory dater. I like men of all ages. Although people tease me for being such, I don't consider myself a cougar. I don't specifically go for younger men, they just happen to go for me. :shrug:

Some men have maturity and some don't whether they be younger or older. If the younger have it, then I don't have a problem with finding things in common, i.e. politics, ethics, work, music, etc.

Of course, then there's the whole sexual compatability issue. I do find that I prefer a man who doesn't need Viagra to get it up and who can keep up with my appetites. That's not to say that my current relationship is sexually based because it's not, but it happens to be a bonus.

The two downsides I've found so far is that younger men usually want to start a family and settle down and I can't/won't give them that. There's also the issue of aging long before them in the future (health issues, wrinkles, etc). Some can handle that reality, and some can't. If they can, then there's no problem.

Basically, I judge people for who they are, not their birthdate.

Maybe you should ask the same question of men who date older women. :smile:



If I connect with a guy on several levels, age is not a consideration :shrug:

:yay:

Are you a "cougar"? As in, do you like younger men?

And if so, how young? Like, you're a 40 year old woman, would you date, say, a 21 year old?

Personally, I'm not interested in young guys. We have nothing in common and they're hard to talk to.

I am a reverse cougar...:killingme I like much older men... :cds:

The man I am dating is 14 years older than me :jameo:

I am a reverse cougar...:killingme I like much older men... :cds:

The man I am dating is 14 years older than me :jameo:


How old are you?

How old are you?

24...

24...

Let us know how that works for you when you're 40. :lol:

Let us know how that works for you when you're 40. :lol:

agreed... withrespect is an idiot. :coffee:

:wallflower:

I'm not old enough to be considered a cougar, but I hate younger men (with the exception of my hubby, who's only a couple years younger). Heck, when I was in college I even hated college aged guys. :lmao: I've always been attracted to older men. Dated a man 20 yrs older than me for a bit (I was 21-22), and though it was fun while it lasted, I knew that it would never be a long term thing. AND, hubby and I both agree that had he not had kids, he and I would probably have never gotten along. He had to mature when he became a dad.

:wallflower:

:yay:

Maybe you should ask the same question of men who date older women. :smile:



:yay:

I'll answer for them because they are going to lie about it and claim it to be for deep, meaningful, soul mate reasons which it may be, MAY be, on occasion; being with an older woman means experienced sex, experienced world view, maturity, experienced sex, less 'kid' stuff immaturity, inflates his ego and self esteem big time, she has money, knows where and what to do and go and what she likes (less thinking for him) and, to some extent, experienced sex.

I'll answer for them because they are going to lie about it and claim it to be for deep, meaningful, soul mate reasons which it may be, MAY be, on occasion; being with an older woman means experienced sex, experienced world view, maturity, experienced sex, less 'kid' stuff immaturity, inflates his ego and self esteem big time, she has money, knows where and what to do and go and what she likes (less thinking for him) and, to some extent, experienced sex.

:high5:

:yay:

:blushing:

I'll answer for them because they are going to lie about it and claim it to be for deep, meaningful, soul mate reasons which it may be, MAY be, on occasion; being with an older woman means experienced sex, experienced world view, maturity, experienced sex, less 'kid' stuff immaturity, inflates his ego and self esteem big time, she has money, knows where and what to do and go and what she likes (less thinking for him) and, to some extent, experienced sex.

:lmao:

agreed... withrespect is an idiot. :coffee:

Why do you say that? I think Catt raises a valid point.

A lot of times - not always, but a lot - a significant age difference is based on power. The older person being in the power position, and the younger person being the submissive. While this works with a 20 year old girl looking for Big Daddy, once that 20 year old gets to be 30 or 35, she no longer wants to play Little Girl and an adjustment must be made in the relationship.

Why do you say that? I think Catt raises a valid point.

A lot of times - not always, but a lot - a significant age difference is based on power. The older person being in the power position, and the younger person being the submissive. While this works with a 20 year old girl looking for Big Daddy, once that 20 year old gets to be 30 or 35, she no longer wants to play Little Girl and an adjustment must be made in the relationship.

True 'nuff; however, I'm glad you put the caveat "not always" because Lord knows I am NOT the dominant partner in my relationship. :lol:

I think I've reached a point in my life that if I found myself in the dating arena again, age wouldn't be a factor, because I just wouldn't date.

Why do you say that? I think Catt raises a valid point.

A lot of times - not always, but a lot - a significant age difference is based on power. The older person being in the power position, and the younger person being the submissive. While this works with a 20 year old girl looking for Big Daddy, once that 20 year old gets to be 30 or 35, she no longer wants to play Little Girl and an adjustment must be made in the relationship.

I was agreeing with her. I know my relationship choice is probably not the smartest... especially considering where we both are in our lives in terms of retirement, children, family, etc. It probably won't last. :dance:

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I was agreeing with her. I know my relationship choice is probably not the smartest... especially considering where we both are in our lives in terms of retirement, children, family, etc. It probably won't last. :dance:

Then why put in the time now? Just run while you still have a chance.

Then why put in the time now? Just run while you still have a chance.

I'm attached to the 3 kids. :ohwell: and for some reason mentally attached to him.

fml.

Then why put in the time now? Just run while you still have a chance.

My motto:

Have fun while you're having fun. Stop when you're not having fun anymore.

Not every relationship has to be forever.

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Cubs :lmao:

My ex is 11 years older. I won't do that again.

I'll answer for them because they are going to lie about it and claim it to be for deep, meaningful, soul mate reasons which it may be, MAY be, on occasion; being with an older woman means experienced sex, experienced world view, maturity, experienced sex, less 'kid' stuff immaturity, inflates his ego and self esteem big time, she has money, knows where and what to do and go and what she likes (less thinking for him) and, to some extent, experienced sex.

Which one of those is your reason? Or is it all of them?

I've played both parts, and my opinion is: it all depends on the man. When I was 33 I dated a guy that was 55. This man could run circles around most 21 year old men, literally. My youngest daughters father is 8 years younger than me. I am 43 and he is 35. Age is just a number. It's not how old the person is, it's how well you connect in my opinion and at those ages we connect just fine. At 43 would I be happy with a man 20+ years older, probably not :killingme I'll stick with the younger ones now :dye:

Which one of those is your reason? Or is it all of them?

When I dated some older chicks, it was about 90% great sex and 10% friendship/conversation.

I have no age considerations to my courtin. I have courted women who were younger and older. Momma don't approve of me courtin any woman who is more than a year or two older than me. She got that way when I courted Brenda the truck driver for a few weeks. she was 5 years older than me and momma said she was an old slut tryin to relive her youth, and since she knew her back then she said her youth was all ready all lived up and there weren't no need to relive that mess.

She was experienced and I was warned by momma. I would ride in the truck with her and it was fun blowin the air horns and stuff but I would never go into the sleeper part of the cab. She had real leapord skin on the walls, radio speakers and candles and stuff. She used to try to coax me back there but I wouldn't go. She always seemed to look at me like a peice of meat and not for the big brain I got. All the other truckers talked nice to her though. They all were real formal and caled her "Mistress Brenda"

:lol:

I'm attached to the 3 kids. :ohwell: and for some reason mentally attached to him.

fml.

Do they have a mom? THe longer you stay the more it will hurt when you leave.

Do they have a mom? THe longer you stay the more it will hurt when you leave.

The kids moved here in May because their Mom was arrested for beating her boyfriend... the woman is 40 years old... she should know better.

The kids moved here in May because their Mom was arrested for beating her boyfriend... the woman is 40 years old... she should know better.

Awesome :roflmao:

I got me a Geezer. :yay:

I got me a Geezer. :yay:

Is this Bob?

The kids moved here in May because their Mom was arrested for beating her boyfriend... the woman is 40 years old... she should know better.

Some men just need a good beating. :yay:

Some men just need a good beating. :yay:

you pervert :lol:

you pervert :lol:

Innocent :angel:

Some men just need a good beating. :yay:

Maybe next time he'll listen, eh?

Maybe next time he'll listen, eh?

One can only hope.

Is this Bob?Yep, I love my grey-haired Geezer. :smoochy: :love:

Yep, I love my grey-haired Geezer. :smoochy: :love:

Bob, stop using her account. She's going to be pissed when she sees that you called her a grey-haired old geezer.

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:roflmao:

Some men just need a good beating. :yay:

:jet:


:lol:

I am partial to older women. I've found they generally are more mature and easier to have intellectually stimulating conversations with. Their outlook on life generally aligns better with my own than the mentality that women in their early 20s often exhibit.

It seems that the negative social stigma surrounding older woman dating a much younger man is really more a concern amongst other women than it is amongst other men. Most men aren't going to care or would even high-five another guy for dating a 'cougar'. In the case of a younger woman dating a much older man, the same reaction would be applied. With women, it's probably more socially acceptable for a much younger woman to date an older man, but then there's still the chance of being labeled a 'gold digger' or what not. Women are harsh on each other in this sense.

Not a cougar. The age range of +/- 5 years is all that I can handle. I’m just not physically attracted to much younger/older men. Not to mention that we would very probably be in different places in life and have nothing in common.

I am in my thirties.....In my case, would a cougar be considered a saber-toothed tiger? (55+)

I got me a Geezer. :yay:

I'd go geezer before I'd go for a young guy. Geezer would have to have a big fat wallet though. :yay:

Some men just need a good beating. :yay:

Boy ain't that the truth! :lol:

I'd go geezer before I'd go for a young guy. Geezer would have to have a big fat wallet though. :yay:

Don't tell me you would be the next Anna Nicole. :lol:

I'd go geezer before I'd go for a young guy. Geezer would have to have a big fat wallet though. :yay:

:lmao:

Don't tell me you would be the next Anna Nicole. :lol:

Of course not. :drama: I'm not in to drugs, just big wallets. :jet:

:lmao:

You don't agree? :lol:

Of course not. :drama: I'm not in to drugs, just big wallets. :jet:

What does drugs got to do with it... :dance:






:lol:

You don't agree? :lol:

No, no - I thought it was funny!

No, no - I thought it was funny!

I know. :lol:

I know. :lol:



This "older" lady who is a customer of ours at work passed on a refrigerator magnet to me. She said someone gave it to her and she thought it was time for her to pass it on.

It says "Wanted: Young Man With Old Money". :lol:

This "older" lady who is a customer of ours at work passed on a refrigerator magnet to me. She said someone gave it to her and she thought it was time for her to pass it on.

It says "Wanted: Young Man With Old Money". :lol:

:lmao:

I want one of those! :lol:

What does drugs got to do with it...

Police are warning all men who frequent clubs, parties & local pubs to be alert and stay cautious when offered a drink by any woman. Many females use a date-drug on the market called 'Beer ' .
The drug is found in liquid form and is available anywhere. It comes in bottles, cans, or from taps and in large kegs. Beer is used by female sexual predators at parties and bars to persuade their male victims to go home and sleep with them. A woman needs only to get a guy to consume a few units of Beer and then simply ask him home for no-strings-attached sex.
Men are rendered helpless against this approach. After several Beers, men will often succumb to the desires to sleep with horrific looking women to whom they would never normally be attracted.
After drinking Beer , men often awaken with only hazy memories of exactly what happened to them the night before, often with just a vague feeling that 'something bad' occurred. At other times these unfortunate men are swindled out of their life's savings, in a familiar scam known as 'a relationship' . In extreme cases, the female may even be shrewd enough to entrap the unsuspecting male into a longer-term form of servitude and punishment referred to as 'marriage'. Men are much more susceptible to this scam after Beer is administered and sex is offered by the predatory females.

Please forward this warning to every male you know.

If you fall victim to this 'Beer ' scam and the women administering it, there are male support groups where you can discuss the details of your shocking encounter with similarly victimized men. For the support group nearest you, just look up 'Golf Courses' in the phone book.

For a video to see how Beer works click here: Beer Demo (http://www.brackenspub.com/beer.swf)

I'm a cougar :howdy:

I'm a cougar :howdy:

I wouldn't brag about that.

I'm a future cougar :howdy:

:fixed:

:fixed:
:jet::huggy: you understand me

I prefer the pumas over the cougars :whistle:

Police are warning all men who frequent clubs, parties & local pubs to be alert and stay cautious when offered a drink by any woman. Many females use a date-drug on the market called 'Beer ' .
The drug is found in liquid form and is available anywhere. It comes in bottles, cans, or from taps and in large kegs. Beer is used by female sexual predators at parties and bars to persuade their male victims to go home and sleep with them. A woman needs only to get a guy to consume a few units of Beer and then simply ask him home for no-strings-attached sex.
Men are rendered helpless against this approach. After several Beers, men will often succumb to the desires to sleep with horrific looking women to whom they would never normally be attracted.
After drinking Beer , men often awaken with only hazy memories of exactly what happened to them the night before, often with just a vague feeling that 'something bad' occurred. At other times these unfortunate men are swindled out of their life's savings, in a familiar scam known as 'a relationship' . In extreme cases, the female may even be shrewd enough to entrap the unsuspecting male into a longer-term form of servitude and punishment referred to as 'marriage'. Men are much more susceptible to this scam after Beer is administered and sex is offered by the predatory females.

Please forward this warning to every male you know.

If you fall victim to this 'Beer ' scam and the women administering it, there are male support groups where you can discuss the details of your shocking encounter with similarly victimized men. For the support group nearest you, just look up 'Golf Courses' in the phone book.

For a video to see how Beer works click here: Beer Demo (http://www.brackenspub.com/beer.swf)

I have been the victim of this many times. :bawl:

Cougars rock and it all started with MILFs!