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Pete
09-19-2011, 01:34 PM
I know of at least 1 of your gender who ranks near the top.

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 01:37 PM
:popcorn:

beachcat
09-19-2011, 01:54 PM
I know of at least 1 of your gender who ranks near the top.

now don't go starting a thread like that and keep us hanging. we're here to help

:jerry:


want me to kick her a*s with my new l.l. bean boots? :coffee:

Hank
09-19-2011, 02:15 PM
:yawn:

somdwatch
09-19-2011, 02:35 PM
Do I see a female version of JP coming in here?

:whistle:

cattitude
09-19-2011, 02:48 PM
I know of at least 1 of your gender who ranks near the top.

Two :huggy:

Vince
09-19-2011, 02:59 PM
:tap:

SoMDGirl42
09-19-2011, 03:55 PM
I know of at least 1 of your gender who ranks near the top.

Shoot, I probably know of a dozen.

Roberta
09-19-2011, 04:17 PM
:tap:

He is probably talking about "the boy's" mother.

Hank
09-19-2011, 04:19 PM
He is probably talking about "the boy's" mother.

ya think? :crazy:

vraiblonde
09-19-2011, 05:47 PM
want me to kick her a*s with my new l.l. bean boots? :coffee:

Ooh, I love boots and I love LL. Bean - post a pic of the boots!

Wenchy
09-19-2011, 05:58 PM
Ooh, I love boots and I love LL. Bean - post a pic of the boots!

Croc's have some really nice ones out this year.

Crocs™ Women's Cobbler High Boot | Comfortable Women's Winter Boots | Crocs Official Site (http://www.crocs.com/crocs-womens-cobbler-high-boot/11553,default,pd.html?cid=211&cgid=women-footwear-boots)

I like LLBean as well (old) :lmao:

Remember the rugby shirts?

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 06:24 PM
I'm sure you are a competent, fair, and loving parent despite what SHE says about ya' . I think you're the one who also does laundry and cooks too right?

jazz lady
09-19-2011, 07:04 PM
I stopped reading as soon as I saw "Dear women who think men suck".... :coffee:

Bann
09-19-2011, 07:05 PM
I stopped reading as soon as I saw "Dear women who think men suck".... :coffee:

:jet:

vraiblonde
09-19-2011, 07:10 PM
Croc's have some really nice ones out this year.

I'm sorry, but an animal must have given up its skin in order for me to love footwear. Plastic makes your feet stink.

Merlin99
09-19-2011, 07:21 PM
I'm sorry, but an animal must have given up its skin in order for me to love footwear. Plastic makes your feet stink.

But if you pee on your feet in the shower the stink goes away, and no athletes foot.

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 07:29 PM
I'm sorry, but an animal must have given up its skin in order for me to love footwear. Plastic makes your feet stink.

:faint: :cds:

GWguy
09-19-2011, 07:38 PM
But if you pee on your feet in the shower the stink goes away, and no athletes foot.

:lol: Yeah... I'll be SURE to try that.......

PrepH4U
09-19-2011, 07:40 PM
But if you pee on your feet in the shower the stink goes away, and no athletes foot.

How do you know? Sniff test? :whistle:

Pete
09-19-2011, 07:42 PM
:lol:

jazz lady
09-19-2011, 07:47 PM
I'm sorry, but an animal must have given up its skin in order for me to love footwear. Plastic makes your feet stink.

So does marching around New Orleans after you break your animal skin sandals, chuck them in the trash, and parade around with naked feet. :killingme

Wenchy
09-19-2011, 07:52 PM
I'm sorry, but an animal must have given up its skin in order for me to love footwear. Plastic makes your feet stink.

You failed reading comprehension :jet:

These are leather with the springy sole and heel.

vraiblonde
09-19-2011, 07:56 PM
So does marching around New Orleans after you break your animal skin sandals, chuck them in the trash, and parade around with naked feet. :killingme

:roflmao:

Makes your feet smell like pee, vomit and fun fruity drinks.

Pete
09-19-2011, 07:56 PM
So I should pee on the ex then make a pair of shoes out of her hide, or reverse?

Wenchy
09-19-2011, 08:01 PM
So I should pee on the ex then make a pair of shoes out of her hide, or reverse?

Boy is old enough to make a decision in court. Pee or hide? Hide or pee?

Pete
09-19-2011, 08:04 PM
Boy is old enough to make a decision in court. Pee or hide? Hide or pee?

There is no court, she doesn't contact him or return his calls for weeks. He was having a moment about it and I was helpless to make it better.

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 08:09 PM
There is no court, she doesn't contact him or return his calls for weeks. He was having a moment about it and I was helpless to make it better.

There is nothing you can do about it other than be there as a good father. In the long run, you need say nothing, actions speak louder than words.

Pete
09-19-2011, 08:11 PM
There is nothing you can do about it other than be there as a good father. In the long run, you need say nothing, actions speak louder than words.

Oh I know.

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 08:14 PM
just p in the shoe & b dun with it, or get a boot. :killingme

or a 2 liter glass boot, just do the Oktoberfest thing. Ein Prosit. :-))

2 Liter Machine Pressed Glass Beer Boot - 67 oz. - Das Boot - YouTube (http://youtu.be/dIRqzJmjWAI)

I'd go one better for you, I'd pee on your shoe and your head - the bonus pee woweee .....

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 08:19 PM
Oh I know.

When I was coming up, my Mom said bad things about my Dad a few times, but instead of making us kids think she was better, it made us upset with her TOO. Dad had reasons for why he was acting badly - wife #2 was in charge and she didn't LIKE HIS kids.

Eventually he divorced Wife #2 and tried to make amends with the kids, I was the only one who forgave him. He died feeling he had failed as a Father. He knew that I forgave him though, and that's what is most important to ME.

kwillia
09-19-2011, 08:20 PM
When I was coming up, my Mom said bad things about my Dad a few times, but instead of making us kids think she was better, it made us upset with her TOO. Dad had reasons for why he was acting badly - wife #2 was in charge and she didn't LIKE HIS kids.

Eventually he divorced Wife #2 and tried to make amends with the kids, I was the only one who forgave him. He died feeling he had failed as a Father. He knew that I forgave him though, and that's what is most important to ME.He did fail as a father if he let some woman come between him and his kids...:shrug:

vraiblonde
09-19-2011, 08:22 PM
You failed reading comprehension :jet:

So I did! I saw rubber and Croc-whatever and immediately thought of high top Crocs.

kwillia
09-19-2011, 08:24 PM
So I did! I saw rubber and Croc-whatever and immediately thought of high top Crocs.
OMG... can't you just imagine the sound those would make... :roflmao:

vraiblonde
09-19-2011, 08:31 PM
OMG... can't you just imagine the sound those would make... :roflmao:

If this weren't a PG-13 board, I'd tell you exactly what I think they'd sound like.

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 08:31 PM
He did fail as a father if he let some woman come between him and his kids...:shrug:

My Rebuttal = defensive LOL

I think it took him a couple/few years to realize it though - she was being subtle at first, but when she said I had to MOVE because I was too sexy to be my age, then I knew she was cuckoo because I was only 12 years old ..... she had self-esteem issues.

He said he thought she was good for him until he realized her goal was to separate him from his kids. We saw it WAY before HE DID. She was just good at securing the next meal ticket while she stayed at home and he worked. She didn't have a job when he met her DING DING DING !!!!! She used her sex-appeal to get him, then once he was on the hook, she started taking charge ...... a long Courtship can eliminate SOME issues.

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RoseRed
09-19-2011, 08:34 PM
He did fail as a father if he let some woman come between him and his kids...:shrug:

:yeahthat:

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 08:35 PM
PS -Miss Linda who claimed to LOVE his kids so much never even tried to stay in touch with us once she got us out of HER life - yeah I see how much you care, you B. OOPS - let me stop .... :jerry:

Pete
09-19-2011, 08:36 PM
My Rebuttal = defensive LOL

I think it took him a couple/few years to realize it though

If it took him 15 minutes it was still too long.

kwillia
09-19-2011, 08:37 PM
PS -Miss Linda who claimed to LOVE his kids so much never even tried to stay in touch with us once she got us out of HER life - yeah I see how much you care, you B. OOPS - let me stop .... :jerry:

Ok... now I'm starting to think that's the infection talking...:lol:

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 08:43 PM
If it took him 15 minutes it was still too long.

Yeah I know what you mean - I think he was still growing as an individual at the time (more excuses for him) but he was genuinely sorry for the time we were apart. I am SURE my sibling was permanently affected by his behavior (never forgave him), but in MY view you are either the type to make your own way in life despite your surroundings/upbringing. or you look for excuses to be a loser. I chose to be strong.

vraiblonde
09-19-2011, 08:47 PM
in MY view you are either the type to make your own way in life despite your surroundings/upbringing. or you look for excuses to be a loser.

I completely agree with this. Stuff happens and not every life is going to be peachy keen but, as I say frequently, it's never too late to have a happy childhood. :yay:

GWguy
09-19-2011, 08:51 PM
I completely agree with this. Stuff happens and not every life is going to be peachy keen but, as I say frequently, it's never too late to have a happy childhood. :yay:

And from reading the posts on this forum, I'd have to say most are in a second childhood...

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 08:53 PM
And from reading the posts on this forum, I'd have to say most are in a second childhood...

:lmao:

Bann
09-19-2011, 09:15 PM
There is no court, she doesn't contact him or return his calls for weeks. He was having a moment about it and I was helpless to make it better.

BTDT

Your being there is the answer. He already knows it, even in the middle of his moment. (And I know you know this deep down, too.)

I can see a big change in my two this year as they have seen sides of their dad they never saw before. They compartmentalize, but once in awhile it comes out, and then I get to deal with it. But it's what I do.

Bann
09-19-2011, 09:18 PM
He did fail as a father if he let some woman come between him and his kids...:shrug:

Ditto.

Bann
09-19-2011, 09:21 PM
Yeah I know what you mean - I think he was still growing as an individual at the time (more excuses for him) but he was genuinely sorry for the time we were apart. I am SURE my sibling was permanently affected by his behavior (never forgave him), but in MY view you are either the type to make your own way in life despite your surroundings/upbringing. or you look for excuses to be a loser. I chose to be strong.


True.

Bann
09-19-2011, 09:22 PM
And from reading the posts on this forum, I'd have to say most are in a second childhood...



Am not! :getdown:

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 09:25 PM
And from reading the posts on this forum, I'd have to say most are in a second childhood...

I agree because if you can't put a period and move on, life can be miserable ......

:buddies:

Pete
09-19-2011, 09:26 PM
BTDT

Your being there is the answer. He already knows it, even in the middle of his moment. (And I know you know this deep down, too.)

I can see a big change in my two this year as they have seen sides of their dad they never saw before. They compartmentalize, but once in awhile it comes out, and then I get to deal with it. But it's what I do.

Oh I know, believe me. We have it made. My point is that men do not have the market cornered on being shiatty non custodial parents. My problem with it is I wanted to call and tell her how much she sucks so she doesn't go a minute longer not knowing. :lol:

Bann
09-19-2011, 09:32 PM
Oh I know, believe me. We have it made. My point is that men do not have the market cornered on being shiatty non custodial parents. My problem with it is I wanted to call and tell her how much she sucks so she doesn't go a minute longer not knowing. :lol:


:yay:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 09:35 PM
Oh I know, believe me. We have it made. My point is that men do not have the market cornered on being shiatty non custodial parents. My problem with it is I wanted to call and tell her how much she sucks so she doesn't go a minute longer not knowing. :lol:

What's stopping you?

Pete
09-19-2011, 09:37 PM
What's stopping you?

Knowing it wont make any difference and nothing will change.

ArkRescue
09-19-2011, 09:39 PM
Knowing it wont make any difference and nothing will change.

EXACTLY - so true ..... no one is ever REALLY right you know? They can both rip each other apart....... been there, done that.

Everyone has redeeming qualities I hear .... she must have some.

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 09:41 PM
Knowing it wont make any difference and nothing will change.

Sometimes it is better to remain stoic and be there for Boy and say nothing bad about "mother". You know my story.

GWguy
09-19-2011, 09:45 PM
Sometimes it is better to remain stoic and be there for Boy and say nothing bad about "mother". You know my story.

No, never heard it. We've got time.

:popcorn:







:lol:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 09:47 PM
No, never heard it. We've got time.

:popcorn:

:lol:

No need to share with the trolls. :lol:

Bann
09-19-2011, 09:50 PM
No need to share with the trolls. :lol:

:yeahthat:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 09:51 PM
:yeahthat:

:huggy:

GWguy
09-19-2011, 09:55 PM
No need to share with the trolls. :lol:

:kickingrocks:




Never been called a troll before. :ohwell:





I'll be going to bed now.

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 09:58 PM
:kickingrocks:

Never been called a troll before. :ohwell:

I'll be going to bed now.

I wasn't referring to you. :huggy:

kwillia
09-19-2011, 09:59 PM
:kickingrocks:




Never been called a troll before. :ohwell:





I'll be going to bed now.

Way to chase him back under the bridge, Rosie! :mad:

Bann
09-19-2011, 10:00 PM
:kickingrocks:




Never been called a troll before. :ohwell:





I'll be going to bed now.

Aww, she wasn't talkin' about you!! :huggy:

GWguy
09-19-2011, 10:00 PM
I wasn't referring to you. :huggy:

I said, "Good Day!" :drama:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 10:01 PM
I wasn't referring to you. :huggy:

Way to chase him back under the bridge, Rosie! :mad:

Aww, she wasn't talkin' about you!! :huggy:

Bann gets me. Kwillia is slacking. :razz:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 10:01 PM
I said, "Good Day!" :drama:

:baby:

Bann
09-19-2011, 10:10 PM
:baby:

:lmao:

Bann
09-19-2011, 10:11 PM
I said, "Good Day!" :drama:

Keep that up and we'll throw a bean bag atcha. :biggrin:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 10:18 PM
Keep that up and we'll throw a bean bag atcha. :biggrin:

Or spray his white tennies pink or something dastardly like that. :lol:

Bann
09-19-2011, 10:20 PM
Or spray his white tennies pink or something dastardly like that. :lol:

:yay: With purple polka dots! :dance:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 10:21 PM
:yay: With purple polka dots! :dance:

A pink tu-tu would be awesome with that! :lol:

Bann
09-19-2011, 10:32 PM
A pink tu-tu would be awesome with that! :lol:

:roflmao:

RoseRed
09-19-2011, 10:41 PM
:roflmao:

Don't forget the Sharpie, lipstick and nail polish! :jet:

ArkRescue
09-20-2011, 06:55 AM
I wasn't referring to you. :huggy:

I'm not a troll either :tantrum

Vince
09-20-2011, 06:58 AM
He is probably talking about "the boy's" mother.
I knew that, but I was waiting for the rest of the story.

pelers
09-20-2011, 07:08 AM
There is no court, she doesn't contact him or return his calls for weeks. He was having a moment about it and I was helpless to make it better.

:huggy: Maybe go do something fun this weekend? St. Mary's Fair is going on, there's Renn Fest up by Annapolis. Won't make it better but if he's still in a funk it might take his mind off it.

ArkRescue
09-20-2011, 07:24 AM
:huggy: Maybe go do something fun this weekend? St. Mary's Fair is going on, there's Renn Fest up by Annapolis. Won't make it better but if he's still in a funk it might take his mind off it.

How does the St. Mary's County Fair compare to the Charles County Fair? I managed to cruise through the Charles County fair for about 2 hours Saturday evening, late. So didn't see any of the events.

pelers
09-20-2011, 07:29 AM
How does the St. Mary's County Fair compare to the Charles County Fair? I managed to cruise through the Charles County fair for about 2 hours Saturday evening, late. So didn't see any of the events.

I actually have not been to either :faint: Last fair I went to was in Puyallup, WA about 10 years ago! I was thinking about taking Junior Sprout to the fair here this weekend. If nothing else I bet he'd love the animals!

ArkRescue
09-20-2011, 08:07 AM
I actually have not been to either :faint: Last fair I went to was in Puyallup, WA about 10 years ago! I was thinking about taking Junior Sprout to the fair here this weekend. If nothing else I bet he'd love the animals!

We had a great time petting the goats and the sheep, and a few pigs too. I took a few pictures.


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