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Too sexy, too laid back, too independent... Why some women just AREN’T wife material (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2063997/Too-sexy-laid-independent--Why-women-just-AREN-T-wife-material.html#ixzz1eLWJyRxs)


One man summed up his future bride as ‘the kind of woman you can take anywhere and be proud of’ — a sentiment echoed by many other men in the course of Molloy’s research. More than 30 per cent of the men Molloy interviewed who were about to get married said their family’s positive opinion of their future bride had helped them decide she was ‘the one’ — and most parents aren’t looking for an incredibly sexy or very attention-seeking spouse for their son.

There’s another good reason why men eschew sexiness in favour of other qualities when they look for a wife. ‘Men don’t look for very sexy wives, because — at a very basic animal level — they want to be sure the children they are raising are their own,’ explains psychologist Dr Jane McCartney, an expert in human behaviour and relationships. ‘Men are attracted to qualities such as loyalty, discretion and kindness when they look for a wife. Feisty and flirty is fine for a girlfriend. It’s just not what men want in life partners.
Frances says Pippa may well be rueing the day she allowed herself to be photographed being hoisted in the air by her ex-boyfriend Charlie Astor

Frances says Pippa may well be rueing the day she allowed herself to be photographed being hoisted in the air by her ex-boyfriend Charlie Astor

Just look at feisty, flirty, gorgeous Cameron Diaz. Men fall for her in their droves, yet she always ends up single again. If we believe Molloy’s thesis, Cameron’s just too sexy — on some deep, evolutionary level, the men she dates don’t believe she’ll stick around.

But while men apparently don’t want sexy wives, they do want women who take care of themselves. Molloy found women who are slim and well-groomed with nice hair and nails are prized, although those who wear revealing, attention-grabbing clothes are not.

Where do they come up with this crap? Sexy women get married all the time. Hell, party animals with, um, interesting pasts get married. Freaking hookers get married.

THIS is why women don't get married:

Another reason women find themselves without a ring on their finger, Molloy says, is that many simply do not push hard enough for it. He found 73 per cent of the wives-to-be he spoke to had forced the issue themselves rather than waiting for a romantic proposal.

Women don't get married because they don't want to. End of the story.

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That last part.....

Most guys don't want to always have to be OTL for other guys hitting on their wives/girlfriends.

But there IS such a thing as "unattainable" for most guys; even if they say they can get any woman they want.

Sure, lots of guys want the centerfold; but just don't think they have what it takes to get one.
Many actually don't have what it takes. I am one of those guys; and I know that.

They pick on Pippa in the story, but we'll note that her sister - who paraded half naked down a runway and is extremely sexy - not only married, but married the future King of England.

Duh.

Where do they come up with this crap? Sexy women get married all the time. Hell, party animals with, um, interesting pasts get married. Freaking hookers get married.

THIS is why women don't get married:



Women don't get married because they don't want to. End of the story.


:yeahthat: This is a poor attempt by a man to make excuses for himself because some hottie didn't want to marry him. End of story.

Where do they come up with this crap? Sexy women get married all the time. Hell, party animals with, um, interesting pasts get married. Freaking hookers get married.

THIS is why women don't get married:



Women don't get married because they don't want to. End of the story.

Amen to that mister sister.

yick....girls have cooties....

Sure, lots of guys want the centerfold;





sure wouldn't 'hit' a Centerfold, I just don't see any worth marrying .... :whistle:

Where do they come up with this crap? Sexy women get married all the time.

the article did say, men were schizio on this .....

then what is the problem with Camron Diaz

...then what is the problem with Camron Diaz

that makes more sense than the conclusion the writer is trying to make...

then what is the problem with Camron Diaz

Maybe she doesn't want to get married. Maybe she just hasn't met the right guy. Justin Timberlake isn't married, either. And it can't be that he's not sexy, because he brought sexy *back*. :snap:

i think prince harry is kinda hot. he was kinda charlie brown ugly as a kid, but now i think he's f*ckalicious.

i think prince harry is kinda hot. he was kinda charlie brown ugly as a kid, but now i think he's f*ckalicious.
That's my problem too, one day soon I'll grow into my looks, probably right around 65.

i think prince harry is kinda hot. he was kinda charlie brown ugly as a kid, but now i think he's f*ckalicious.

heck yes. And william is practically bald and looking very much like his father. blech.


but I understand what the writer is saying and have had conversations with guy friends that alluded to this..there is a girlfriend "type" and a wife "type" girlfriends are hot, they put out, they are "fun" party a lot that sort of thing..but they are cognizant of the fact that when they pick a wife, the criteria is different. It isn't that sexy women don't get married, but rather when choosing a partner thats not likely to be the biggest factor. Or that they are willing to trade a certain level of sexiness for other factors. Here, the writer does seem to confuse "sexy" and "slutty" because there are lots of sexy women who don't run around like tramps. At the same time, I am a firm believer in "there is someone for everyone" and some men love tramps :shrug: I have an uncle that loves crazy women. Like, certifiable, on several meds, crazy women.

At the same time, I am a firm believer in "there is someone for everyone" and some men love tramps :shrug:



sure every guy was a wild sex freaky girl in college ...

.... but in your 40's ..

... :whistle: hmm well maybe that would be more fun now ....


a whore in bed, a maid in the living room, and a chef in the kitchen ....

:evil:



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but I understand what the writer is saying and have had conversations with guy friends that alluded to this..there is a girlfriend "type" and a wife "type" girlfriends are hot, they put out, they are "fun" party a lot that sort of thing..but they are cognizant of the fact that when they pick a wife, the criteria is different. It isn't that sexy women don't get married, but rather when choosing a partner thats not likely to be the biggest factor. Or that they are willing to trade a certain level of sexiness for other factors. Here, the writer does seem to confuse "sexy" and "slutty" because there are lots of sexy women who don't run around like tramps. At the same time, I am a firm believer in "there is someone for everyone" and some men love tramps :shrug: I have an uncle that loves crazy women. Like, certifiable, on several meds, crazy women.

I agree with that. I would never marry some guy who puts out. If he does it for me, he's done it for any number of women, and nobody wants a slut. I mean, it's not like I could take them home to meet my family without being embarrassed. There's a boyfriend type and a husband type, know what I mean?

There's a boyTOY type and a husband type, know what I mean?

:fixed:

boytoy drives a harley

husband drives drives a mercedes

:whistle:

I have an uncle that loves crazy women. Like, certifiable, on several meds, crazy women.

:lmao: I tend to gravitate towards these... I'm a "fixer"....

:yeahthat: This is a poor attempt by a man to make excuses for himself because some hottie didn't want to marry him. End of story.

Well that would make a lot of sense but for the fact that the article was written by a woman.

I'm guessing there's a little to the article if you happen to be *British*. I hardly think that many American men place that high a value on what their family thinks of the girl he wants to marry.

i think prince harry is kinda hot. he was kinda charlie brown ugly as a kid, but now i think he's f*ckalicious.

You're making a good point. That hot, sexy man or woman in their early 20's isn't gonna look like that forever. Looks change over time (regardless of botox and cosmetic surgery). So when you marry someone, there had better be more to the package than just pretty wrapping paper and a fancy bow. You need to love what's inside the box, not just the outer shell. Now granted, the inside might change also, but the outside changes no matter what.

I agree with that. I would never marry some guy who puts out. If he does it for me, he's done it for any number of women, and nobody wants a slut. I mean, it's not like I could take them home to meet my family without being embarrassed. There's a boyfriend type and a husband type, know what I mean?

yeah, i would have never taken the 24 year old that i, um, "dated" to meet my family around the holidays.

it was more of a "girls, YOU GOTTSTA CHECK IT OUT

yeah, i would have never taken the 24 year old that i, um, "dated" to meet my family around the holidays.

it was more of a "girls, YOU GOTTSTA CHECK IT OUT

I'm talking about any guy who has sex without benefit of marriage. I'd need him to be unsullied before I could even consider getting serious with him. Who wants to be out with your beloved and wondering how many of the women at the bar have goobered him up? I'll keep a guy to have fun with, and marry a respectable virgin man. You know, husband material. :yay:

I'm talking about any guy who has sex without benefit of marriage. I'd need him to be unsullied before I could even consider getting serious with him. Who wants to be out with your beloved and wondering how many of the women at the bar have goobered him up? I'll keep a guy to have fun with, and marry a respectable virgin man. You know, husband material. :yay:

Just when you think there isn't a single "unsullied" man around.....poof. Have fun! :lol:

works the other way also Vrai. just change the gender in the txt above..

i hear ya. I'm ready to marry the guy i'm with now. he's so sweet and kind. hasn't been around the block so to speak like the rest of them, nor does he have a crapload of "ex's" he calls friends that constantly call him. I feel scared to feel this way. Hope you don't read about him breaking my heart in 6 months or so......

and i actually enjoy cooking for him, that's a huge step for me

You're one that believes an ex can't be a friend, huh? :popcorn:

I'm talking about any guy who has sex without benefit of marriage. I'd need him to be unsullied before I could even consider getting serious with him. Who wants to be out with your beloved and wondering how many of the women at the bar have goobered him up? I'll keep a guy to have fun with, and marry a respectable virgin man. You know, husband material. :yay:
You seriously want someone with no clue what they're doing? During the opening round you'll have to give him a towel, during the second round (10 seconds later) he's just as likely to take a wrong turn and you end up walking funny the next day. On top of that, how long are you going to be able to look at NHBoy's (the only male virgin of legal age in the area) face with that "I got laid" look, you'd stab him in the kidney before dinner.

Just when you think there isn't a single "unsullied" man around.....poof. Have fun! :lol:

:killingme and don't forget Lance

:killingme and don't forget Lance

and dipstick..... :coffee:

You're one that believes an ex can't be a friend, huh? :popcorn:

not really. i have ex's, but i don't call on them when they are attached to come fix crap for me or hang out with me. lunch is fine to catch up, its just lunch. but when it becomes spending an afternoon fixing her crap or mowing her grass, no, ex girlfriends are not acceptable friends.

Pete doesn`t know music, so he`s SOL. :killingme

wurd

not really. i have ex's, but i don't call on them when they are attached to come fix crap for me or hang out with me. lunch is fine to catch up, its just lunch. but when it becomes spending an afternoon fixing her crap or mowing her grass, no, ex girlfriends are not acceptable friends.

hmmmm... lunch is fine though...interesting

hmmmm... lunch is fine though...interesting

Depends on what's being served for lunch. :whistle:

:killingme

You seriously want someone with no clue what they're doing? During the opening round you'll have to give him a towel, during the second round (10 seconds later) he's just as likely to take a wrong turn and you end up walking funny the next day. On top of that, how long are you going to be able to look at NHBoy's (the only male virgin of legal age in the area) face with that "I got laid" look, you'd stab him in the kidney before dinner.

Nah, I'll teach him. That way he won't have any bad habits. Plus the husband won't need to be some sex machine - that's what my boyfriend will be for. The husband will be a good provider and all around handyman. You know...husband material.

Depends on what's being served for lunch. :whistle:

:killingme

Wifey material is not a realistic term these days and neither is hubby material. Todays world its all about who you can tolerate the most and love at the same time. Also what image you want to project to everyone else. Sex is 55% of the factor as well. Vrail wants a man that has not been tainted ha ha :killingme ,,, you have a better chance hitch hiking to the moon. Its our mission to get tainted ASAP and as much as possible. Vrail I would luv to put a mans mind in your head for a minute.

Sex is 55% of the factor as well.

Is this a scientific percentage? Like, there was a study or something?

Is this a scientific percentage? Like, there was a study or something?

Wait Vrai, are you saying you didn't take part in the survey? :killingme

the article did say, men were schizio on this .....

then what is the problem with Camron Diaz

More than likely she is a pain in the ass; as with a lot of good looking people who are not married (whether have been or not is irrelevant) is their own value is higher than their partner and others sees them at. Once time catches up to them or a bad decision here or there and it's all over, the power of their looks is over ridden by reality.

Nah, I'll teach him. That way he won't have any bad habits. Plus the husband won't need to be some sex machine - that's what my boyfriend will be for. The husband will be a good provider and all around handyman. You know...husband material.

Are you taking applications? What is the process? Help a brotha out!

Nah, I'll teach him. That way he won't have any bad habits. Plus the husband won't need to be some sex machine - that's what my boyfriend will be for. The husband will be a good provider and all around handyman. You know...husband material.

That and he won't have anybody else to compare you to :buddies: and the fact he'd be too F'n naive to know whether it's any good or not. Sounds like the perfect plan to me. :yay:

More than likely she is a pain in the ass; as with a lot of good looking people who are not married

:lmao:

George Clooney must be one raging pain in the ass too.

That and he won't have anybody else to compare you to :buddies: and the fact he'd be too F'n naive to know whether it's any good or not. Sounds like the perfect plan to me. :yay:

See? Who's thinking?
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Is this a scientific percentage? Like, there was a study or something?

That was my personal observational study over the years in several states and overseas, seeing many couples just hanging in the marriage for the sake of saying they got a marriage. Even with a husband that gets away with cheating, lady says, but I LUV him. No, she loves to let people think she is living the American dream, good marriage, white picket fence and kids so cute. Men are not looking for a WIFEY these days, they are looking for the Barbie and the women are looking for Bill Gates. If you don't find one of them you are very single. Do personal studies count? :shrug: Unfortunately we are not all Gates and Barbie’s that is when we start to make shady wifey’s and hubbies trying to hide from the truth. I am thinking about taking up psychology, or should I commit myself to a mental institution. :killingme Oh ask man, my stats are pretty realistic :1bdz:

Been there, done that married thing and it didn't work out so well. I wholeheartedly admit that I am not trying to be married again any time soon.

If it's an excuse, so be it - but I'm not interested in subjecting my two boys to a revolving door while I try out boyfriends to find a marrying type. I'm happy having friends that are interested in me for me and hanging out without the drama that comes with having a relationship.

I reserve the right to change my mind at any time, though! :diva:

Been there, done that married thing and it didn't work out so well. I wholeheartedly admit that I am not trying to be married again any time soon.

If it's an excuse, so be it - but I'm not interested in subjecting my two boys to a revolving door while I try out boyfriends to find a marrying type. I'm happy having friends that are interested in me for me and hanging out without the drama that comes with having a relationship.

I reserve the right to change my mind at any time, though! :diva:

Good on ya!:buddies:

- but I'm not interested in subjecting my two boys to a revolving door while I try out boyfriends to find a marrying type. I'm happy insert comment here :whistle:



:popcorn:

If it's an excuse, so be it - but I'm not interested in subjecting my two boys to a revolving door while I try out boyfriends to find a marrying type. I'm happy with my BoB...

:hot:

:shocking:

:popcorn:

:doh:

:1bdz: Good thing I don't care what strangers on the intrawebz think :buddies:

:1bdz: Good thing I don't care what strangers on the intrawebz think :buddies:



:flowers:


I was just poking a little fun at ya ............

:flowers:


I was just poking a little fun at ya ............

:yay:

Still didn't lose any sleep over it. I know who & what I am and I'm comfortable in my own skin. :buddies:

:1bdz: Good thing I don't care what strangers on the intrawebz think :buddies:

Nothing wrong with a BoB...:shrug:

Too this and too that..........too familiar. Too stupid. Pick and go, adjust and live.

Is this a scientific percentage? Like, there was a study or something?


94.3% of statistics are made up on the spot.

94.3% of statistics are made up on the spot.

:lmao: ok... that was funny

:lmao: ok... that was funny

:high5: Merry Christmas, dude!

That's probably why me and Bann aren't married - too sexy. :coffee:

That's probably why me and Bann aren't married - too sexy. :coffee:

Bann and I....

YW...:smoochy:

Bann and I....

YW...:smoochy:

Right, but when I thought it as "Bann and I" it sounded like we'd be married to each other. Which wouldn't be a good idea.

Right, but when I thought it as "Bann and I" it sounded like we'd be married to each other. Which wouldn't be a good idea.


It still doesn't read right. :killingme

Want to explain, or leave us wondering?

My imagination is starting to run wild!

My imagination is starting to run wild!

And on Jesus's birthday.

For shame.

Is this a scientific percentage? Like, there was a study or something?

I figured the percentage would have been closer to 69.

And on Jesus's birthday.

For shame.

:jameo: what were you thinking? I assure you my thoughts were PURE!:angel:

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As A Christian guy, I freak whenever I see women on the Christian dating sites with their stuff on display. I really don’t want or need to see that! It looks like their looking to make a buck rather than seeking a husband.

I always wonder why they aren’t on a different site, pretty sad.

More than likely she is a pain in the ass; as with a lot of good looking people who are not married (whether have been or not is irrelevant) is their own value is higher than their partner and others sees them at. Once time catches up to them or a bad decision here or there and it's all over, the power of their looks is over ridden by reality.

You have her and ones like jennifer Anniston..

Women most men would dream of marrying (not me, I have the PERFECT wife) but they can't keep a man for more than 6 months.

And men sit back and say "Who in their right mind would leave such a georgeous creature!?"

WHO? Someone who can't put up with a psychotic ##### no matter how good looking they are.

OR.. If she's a dead fish in bed, would it matter how great looking she is? (hence Arnold's maid debacle, she may not have been hot, but she probably got his head to spin (in more ways than one)).

OR they are just a royal pain in the ass.. and meatloaf sings your anthem.. So I'm praying for end of time, so I can end my time with you!!

I think Jimmy Soul said it best.

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.


:cool:

I think Jimmy Soul said it best.

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.


:cool:I love that song!! :lmao:

I think Jimmy Soul said it best.

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.


:cool:

The same could be said about picking guys to marry! :coffee:

this is a great old song...


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If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

Well, Jimmy doesn't know chit. At some point this woman, regardless of her physical appearance, is going to annoy the hell out of you and you'll wish you'd never met her. If she's beautiful, at least you'll have something positive to fall back on when she's getting on your last nerve.

Let's see. On a good week, sex for 3 times, maybe an hour each time, (3 hours/week). A week has 7 days, 24 hours/day = 168 hours. Soooo, after 3 hours of pleasure, we still have to put up with each others crap for 163 hours a week! :-)

I think Jimmy Soul said it best.

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.


:cool:

I could have A LOT of fun with this post.... :lmao:

Well, Jimmy doesn't know chit. At some point this woman, regardless of her physical appearance, is going to annoy the hell out of you and you'll wish you'd never met her. If she's beautiful, at least you'll have something positive to fall back on when she's getting on your last nerve.

Amen to that sista....:high5:

Well, Jimmy doesn't know chit. At some point this woman, regardless of her physical appearance, is going to annoy the hell out of you and you'll wish you'd never met her. If she's beautiful, at least you'll have something positive to fall back on when she's getting on your last nerve.

:bann: