Am I the only one who couldn't care less about a "special sale" where you get $1 off a $22 box of K-cups? Or 10% off my purchase of $100 or more at Belk?

One dollar isn't going to make me go, "Wow! Gotta get some K-cups!" Nor will saving $10 make me spend $100. Unless, of course, I was going to buy the items anyway, in which case the sale is moot and just a bonus for me with no benefit for the store.

Is this type of marketing really effective?

$22 a BOX??? Holy crap, I pay 12.95 for a 24 ct box

Am I the only one who couldn't care less about a "special sale" where you get $1 off a $22 box of K-cups? Or 10% off my purchase of $100 or more at Belk?

One dollar isn't going to make me go, "Wow! Gotta get some K-cups!" Nor will saving $10 make me spend $100. Unless, of course, I was going to buy the items anyway, in which case the sale is moot and just a bonus for me with no benefit for the store.

Is this type of marketing really effective?

As a small retailers (point of view and experience) yes, giving 10% off does work (though I usually do 20% which works even better!) Most people are looking to save a buck or two wherever they can.
Unfortunately, some bigger stores inflate their product pricing during a "sale" so when you think you are getting a discount, it may not really be such a bargain. I do believe consumers are becoming smarter shoppers, though.

As a consumer, when I can: I do take advantage of sales and I do clip and use coupons for products I regularly use especially when something is on sale. I planned my grocery trip a couple days ago to BJ's and Food Lion and saved about $30 using coupons. About 10-15%. Honestly, I wish I had more time to stay on top of saving money- I could do so much better than that!

Am I the only one who couldn't care less about a "special sale" where you get $1 off a $22 box of K-cups? Or 10% off my purchase of $100 or more at Belk?

One dollar isn't going to make me go, "Wow! Gotta get some K-cups!" Nor will saving $10 make me spend $100. Unless, of course, I was going to buy the items anyway, in which case the sale is moot and just a bonus for me with no benefit for the store.

Is this type of marketing really effective?

No. I'm the same. I also refuse to use coupons that force me to buy two or three of an item in order to save a mere 10 cents.

I often think if a store can afford to give me a 20% discount this week, then they likely could offer the product/s to me at 20% less to begin with. That kind of ticks me off and sometimes I'll get an attitude and refuse to patronize the store on principle and find somewhere else that doesn't have such a huge mark-up to begin with (usually internet).

Am I the only one who couldn't care less about a "special sale" where you get $1 off a $22 box of K-cups? Or 10% off my purchase of $100 or more at Belk?

One dollar isn't going to make me go, "Wow! Gotta get some K-cups!" Nor will saving $10 make me spend $100. Unless, of course, I was going to buy the items anyway, in which case the sale is moot and just a bonus for me with no benefit for the store.

Is this type of marketing really effective?

I always laugh at the idiots that line up and wait at the gas station because it's 2 cents cheaper per gallon than the place across the street. I'm not waiting around to save 20cents.

By the time you figure in the gas it takes to go to the place that has this special sale, your time, etc., you can order it on line cheaper. I don't care about sales unless they're from an outlet I buy from on line and then only for specific items.

I always laugh at the idiots that line up and wait at the gas station because it's 2 cents cheaper per gallon than the place across the street. I'm not waiting around to save 20cents.

Thats like those idiots who check gas prices online and drive 10 minutes out of their way to get it 5 cents cheaper. Uh hey dur hard youre defeating the purpose :lol:

Thats like those idiots who check gas prices online and drive 10 minutes out of their way to get it 5 cents cheaper. Uh hey dur hard youre defeating the purpose :lol::highfive: Gas prices in the area are pretty parallel with each other, maybe differing a few pennies. I'm not about to drive over the bridge because I can save $.05 per gallon. :yawn:

:highfive: Gas prices in the area are pretty parallel with each other, maybe differing a few pennies. I'm not about to drive over the bridge because I can save $.05 per gallon. :yawn:Same here. If it's on my way to work fine. If not, I'll pay the price wherever I happen to be.

No. I'm the same. I also refuse to use coupons that force me to buy two or three of an item in order to save a mere 10 cents.

I often think if a store can afford to give me a 20% discount this week, then they likely could offer the product/s to me at 20% less to begin with. That kind of ticks me off and sometimes I'll get an attitude and refuse to patronize the store on principle and find somewhere else that doesn't have such a huge mark-up to begin with (usually internet).

Right now, I have some treats 20% off that were once great sellers and hope to at least recoop my money before they expire. The goal is to make room for new treats to replace them- and maybe even pay for them!
For a small business, it's all a balancing act. If I need more cash flow, I will mark some stuff down to bring extra sales in.
Huge markup? Used to be a retailer could "keystone" or double thier money on goods. Now, we are struggling to maintain a 40 to 50% markup; particularly on food and treats.
E-commerce businesses don't have the overhead and can afford to sell for less. But if you think small businesses such as mine are getting rich, you are way off the mark.

Right now, I have some treats 20% off that were once great sellers and hope to at least recoop my money before they expire. The goal is to make room for new treats to replace them- and maybe even pay for them!
For a small business, it's all a balancing act. If I need more cash flow, I will mark some stuff down to bring extra sales in.
Huge markup? Used to be a retailer could "keystone" or double thier money on goods. Now, we are struggling to maintain a 40 to 50% markup; particularly on food and treats.
E-commerce businesses don't have the overhead and can afford to sell for less. But if you think small businesses such as mine are getting rich, you are way off the mark.

You should start mounting and balancing motorcycle tires..

There's a HUGE mark-up there.. (worth it, but still a HUGE mark-up)

Right now, I have some treats 20% off that were once great sellers and hope to at least recoop my money before they expire. The goal is to make room for new treats to replace them- and maybe even pay for them!
For a small business, it's all a balancing act. If I need more cash flow, I will mark some stuff down to bring extra sales in.
Huge markup? Used to be a retailer could "keystone" or double thier money on goods. Now, we are struggling to maintain a 40 to 50% markup; particularly on food and treats.
E-commerce businesses don't have the overhead and can afford to sell for less. But if you think small businesses such as mine are getting rich, you are way off the mark.

I don't particularly think you're getting rich, but I suspect you're not struggling either. I didn't particularly have small business in mind when I said huge mark-up; however, if retailers can still make a decent profit with a 20% sale, then perhaps they should just keep the price that low to begin with and consumers like me would be more than happy to patronize them. Business is business and it is what it is. :shrug:

Right now, I have some treats 20% off that were once great sellers and hope to at least recoop my money before they expire. The goal is to make room for new treats to replace them- and maybe even pay for them!
For a small business, it's all a balancing act. If I need more cash flow, I will mark some stuff down to bring extra sales in.
Huge markup? Used to be a retailer could "keystone" or double thier money on goods. Now, we are struggling to maintain a 40 to 50% markup; particularly on food and treats.
E-commerce businesses don't have the overhead and can afford to sell for less. But if you think small businesses such as mine are getting rich, you are way off the mark.
And have been meaning to ask..

I believe you have acquarium supplies (fish food and the like) do you carry fish???

I'm down to the last two Cichlids and need more!

I don't particularly think you're getting rich, but I suspect you're not struggling either. I didn't particularly have small business in mind when I said huge mark-up; however, if retailers can still make a decent profit with a 20% sale, then perhaps they should just keep the price that low to begin with and consumers like me would be more than happy to patronize them. Business is business and it is what it is. :shrug:

Big box stores have the marketing resources to draw customers in and can also purchase for less because of their volume. That's why dog food is cheaper at Wal-Mart than it is at Pepper's. And also because Wal-Mart doesn't sell the premium products that Pepper's does, but even if they did they would be able to sell for less.

If Wal-Mart makes 1% profit on a bag of dog food, that's 1% times a zillion bags a year, times a zillion stores. The small retailer can't possibly make 1% profit and stay in business because they just don't have the volume or the purchasing power to make that feasible.

I don't particularly think you're getting rich, but I suspect you're not struggling either. I didn't particularly have small business in mind when I said huge mark-up; however, if retailers can still make a decent profit with a 20% sale, then perhaps they should just keep the price that low to begin with and consumers like me would be more than happy to patronize them. Business is business and it is what it is. :shrug:

Where did I say I made a decent profit with a 20% off sale? What I did say is I said I would be happy to recoop my money.

If my markup is 50% on a product I paid $4.00 wholesale; I make $2.00 for a total of $6.00. In the old days, you could make $4.00 but those days are long gone on many products esp with the big box stores carrying many products that used to only be available to small fries like me. I will put myself out of business if I try to keystone merchandise.
Now when I mark it down 20%, that means for that item I paid $4.00 for, I make a whopping $.80. Unfortunately, one of the products I am referring to is now for sale at many big box locations; which has hurt my sales. They are buying for a lot less than I can and charge a lot less as well.
After almost 5 years owning a retail store and adding a second store 1.5 years ago, I am finally paying most of my bills on time. And for what it's worth, I finally started paying myself one month ago. I am paid less than any of my 6 employees but what the hell, I'll take it!

And have been meaning to ask..

I believe you have acquarium supplies (fish food and the like) do you carry fish???

I'm down to the last two Cichlids and need more!

Sorry, we carry only dog and cat supplies.

Where did I say I made a decent profit with a 20% off sale? What I did say is I said I would be happy to recoop my money.

If my markup is 50% on a product I paid $4.00 wholesale; I make $2.00 for a total of $6.00. In the old days, you could make $4.00 but those days are long gone on many products esp with the big box stores carrying many products that used to only be available to small fries like me. I will put myself out of business if I try to keystone merchandise.
Now when I mark it down 20%, that means for that item I paid $4.00 for, I make a whopping $.80. Unfortunately, one of the products I am referring to is now for sale at many big box locations; which has hurt my sales. They are buying for a lot less than I can and charge a lot less as well.
After almost 5 years owning a retail store and adding a second store 1.5 years ago, I am finally paying most of my bills on time. And for what it's worth, I finally started paying myself one month ago. I am paid less than any of my 6 employees but what the hell, I'll take it!

So how do you get by if you only a month ago started having income(paying yourself)? And if you make less than any employees,how were you able to afford opening a second location - I'd bet they can't afford to open a business? Not being argumentative,just curious because I often hear sbo make those same statements and yet opening and running a business is very expensive....the owner must have a decent amount to have ever even started. One more question - how do you stay in business,and by that I mean you or anyone else who is competing with Amazon and big box stores. There is literally nothing that can't be had for much cheaper elsewhere - I don't understand the customers mentality to pay more. I get it that people think they should support local business but to be honest,why would I support someone else's dream at a detriment to myself? Better to have the rich corporations and keep my cash,I'd think.

So how do you get by if you only a month ago started having income(paying yourself)? And if you make less than any employees,how were you able to afford opening a second location - I'd bet they can't afford to open a business? Not being argumentative,just curious because I often hear sbo make those same statements and yet opening and running a business is very expensive....the owner must have a decent amount to have ever even started.

I don't know who SBO is but I can tell you it is all a balancing act.
As far as getting by, I am married and my husband has traditionally paid the bills. We also ran through a lot of savings that I helped contribute to from when I was civil service and made decent money.

For me,I don't give a flip about whether John Smith gets to live his dream of owning a store if it means I have to finance it....and to me that's what small business is all about. Same products,higher cost. I'm pretty much big box/warehouse/Amazon all day. I know the smaller places can't compete,and to me that is why they will eventually be obsolete.

I don't know who SBO is but I can tell you it is all a balancing act.
As far as getting by, I am married and my husband has traditionally paid the bills. We also ran through a lot of savings that I helped contribute to from when I was civil service and made decent money.

SBO=small business owners.

Big box stores have the marketing resources to draw customers in and can also purchase for less because of their volume. That's why dog food is cheaper at Wal-Mart than it is at Pepper's. And also because Wal-Mart doesn't sell the premium products that Pepper's does, but even if they did they would be able to sell for less.

If Wal-Mart makes 1% profit on a bag of dog food, that's 1% times a zillion bags a year, times a zillion stores. The small retailer can't possibly make 1% profit and stay in business because they just don't have the volume or the purchasing power to make that feasible.

I understand that, but it doesn't change anything from my consumer pov.

Where did I say I made a decent profit with a 20% off sale? What I did say is I said I would be happy to recoop my money.

So you're just breaking even on a 20% sale?

So how do you get by if you only a month ago started having income(paying yourself)? And if you make less than any employees,how were you able to afford opening a second location - I'd bet they can't afford to open a business? Not being argumentative,just curious because I often hear sbo make those same statements and yet opening and running a business is very expensive....the owner must have a decent amount to have ever even started. One more question - how do you stay in business,and by that I mean you or anyone else who is competing with Amazon and big box stores. There is literally nothing that can't be had for much cheaper elsewhere - I don't understand the customers mentality to pay more. I get it that people think they should support local business but to be honest,why would I support someone else's dream at a detriment to myself? Better to have the rich corporations and keep my cash,I'd think.

We carry a lot of products that you can find at petco and you might be surprized to find that mine are usually less expensive. With the exception of things like kitty litter; which is likely cheaper at big box /grocery stores.
I spend a lot of time going to trade shows, comparing prices from different distributors and stocking up on sale items and keep my profit margins reasonable.
I recently raised the price of bully sticks- 1st increase in 4.5 years and mine are still cheaper than petco!
What keeps me in business is having great employees and (most of the time) exceptional customer service, friendly environment, filling a need for products not yet found at big box stores, competitive pricing, knowledge of products (ongoing training ) and some great loyal customers that know we go the extra mile for them.
I do what I do because I love it. I am not getting rich by any means but in time, my health is going to require some changes.

We carry a lot of products that you can find at petco and you might be surprized to find that mine are usually less expensive. With the exception of things like kitty litter; which is likely cheaper at big box /grocery stores.
I spend a lot of time going to trade shows, comparing prices from different distributors and stocking up on sale items and keep my profit margins reasonable.
I recently raised the price of bully sticks- 1st increase in 4.5 years and mine are still cheaper than petco!
What keeps me in business is having great employees and (most of the time) exceptional customer service, friendly environment, filling a need for products not yet found at big box stores, competitive pricing, knowledge of products (ongoing training ) and some great loyal customers that know we go the extra mile for them.
I do what I do because I love it. I am not getting rich by any means but in time, my health is going to require some changes.

I hate Petco - they have ridiculous lines,and when they don't no one at the registers,and way overinflated prices. So I can see your point about customer service.

So how do you get by if you only a month ago started having income(paying yourself)? And if you make less than any employees,how were you able to afford opening a second location - I'd bet they can't afford to open a business? Not being argumentative,just curious because I often hear sbo make those same statements and yet opening and running a business is very expensive....the owner must have a decent amount to have ever even started.

It's called sweat equity. You put in your time and effort for little or no pay with the idea that you'll make money down the road when your business becomes successful and stabilized.

One more question - how do you stay in business,and by that I mean you or anyone else who is competing with Amazon and big box stores. There is literally nothing that can't be had for much cheaper elsewhere - I don't understand the customers mentality to pay more. I get it that people think they should support local business but to be honest,why would I support someone else's dream at a detriment to myself? Better to have the rich corporations and keep my cash,I'd think.

Local retailers typically offer expertise and service over and above your average Wal-Mart stock kid. That's worth the extra couple of bucks to some people. I can say, "FF, what do you recommend?" and she'll advise me. The other day I ran into Pepper's for (yes) toothpaste and a toothbrush for Apollo (stop that laughing). Not even FF, but her part-time gal was able to give me advice on what to buy and how to use it. Try that at Target and see what happens.

They also usually offer products that you can't get at a discount store. And then there's the "fun" factor - it's just more fun to browse through Pepper's and see their neat stuff.

So it just depends on what you want.

For me,I don't give a flip about whether John Smith gets to live his dream of owning a store if it means I have to finance it....and to me that's what small business is all about. Same products,higher cost. I'm pretty much big box/warehouse/Amazon all day. I know the smaller places can't compete,and to me that is why they will eventually be obsolete.

I guess I have always felt differently because my father was self employed. This is not my first business; first retail business yes; and it has been quite a learning experience. I am happier working for myself.
Besides who would want to hire a 50 something, overweight truck driver/ equipment operator with a bad heart?!

For me,I don't give a flip about whether John Smith gets to live his dream of owning a store if it means I have to finance it....and to me that's what small business is all about. Same products,higher cost. I'm pretty much big box/warehouse/Amazon all day. I know the smaller places can't compete,and to me that is why they will eventually be obsolete.

many small businesses offer items that are not available in the big box stores, whether it's custom clothing or higher end dog food or whatever. at least that is the case with the small businesses that I visit.

FF,have you ever considering selling live reptile food? Like a little cricket box like Tackle Box has? I'd imagine it wouldn't be too expensive of a product and they breed like crazy. I ask because I know for most of us who have reptiles,you either breed your own or buy from Petco,and they are expensive and usually half dead. I know we'd definitely buy them and so would a lot of other people.

I started PPP in 2002 baking organic dog biscuits for a dog that was dumped in the high desert of CA. I created all my own recipes, had all the analysis done, bought UPC codes etc. Was online and in stores. PPP was an online presence until a few years ago; when it got to be too much to maintain the website, shipping, inventory of products and the 1st store at the same time. We were at the top rating for "Dorky Dog Purses" for several years and sold a lot of unique items as well.
Funny thing is, I was offered a medical disability in 2002 and could be collecting (I think it was about) $1500 a month for the rest of my life....refused it and here I am.

Sorry, we carry only dog and cat supplies.

Wouldn't fish be considered "cat supplies"?

FF,have you ever considering selling live reptile food? Like a little cricket box like Tackle Box has? I'd imagine it wouldn't be too expensive of a product and they breed like crazy. I ask because I know for most of us who have reptiles,you either breed your own or buy from Petco,and they are expensive and usually half dead. I know we'd definitely buy them and so would a lot of other people.

What has kept me away from carrying supplies for other critters is that if I carry reptile stuff, the rabbit people get pissed and I have to carry rabbit stuff and then the bird people demand I carry bird stuff and then wild bird feeders get mad and on and on. I DO special order some products for people if they tell me exactly what they need. Honestly, I don't think any of my distributors carry live reptile food or else I would consider setting you up on a special order delivery schedule to help you out.
More importantly, knowledge about products carried and the animals they are being carried for is lacking when we get away from dog and cat stuff. My staff and I would need to be educated on fish, reptiles, birds, rabbits etc etc before I carry products for them. I doubt it will happen anytime soon. Of course, space is also an issue.

I started PPP in 2002 baking organic dog biscuits for a dog that was dumped in the high desert of CA. I created all my own recipes, had all the analysis done, bought UPC codes etc. Was online and in stores. PPP was an online presence until a few years ago; when it got to be too much to maintain the website, shipping, inventory of products and the 1st store at the same time. We were at the top rating for "Dorky Dog Purses" for several years and sold a lot of unique items as well.
Funny thing is, I was offered a medical disability in 2002 and could be collecting (I think it was about) $1500 a month for the rest of my life....refused it and here I am.

Take the 1500,and sell me some crickets. That's what I'd do. :killingme
Off topic but I've often wondered what is considered a disability,and how is it determined? Is it offered by a doctor? I say this because I have a friend who has rental properties,and all his tenants are on section 8. Disabled. But I see these people out and about all the time with no apparent problems,so I asked him one day what are the disabilities and he said well,one is an alcoholic,one has traumatic stress and panic disorder,and one has depression. Your heart issue is a disability no doubt,but emotional problems? I don't understand first what doctor would certify these as disabilities,and second why I can't get a referral from a nice forumite. I have a delicious food addiction problem and I am in fact depressed about it.

Take the 1500,and sell me some crickets. That's what I'd do. :killingme
Off topic but I've often wondered what is considered a disability,and how is it determined? Is it offered by a doctor? I say this because I have a friend who has rental properties,and all his tenants are on section 8. Disabled. But I see these people out and about all the time with no apparent problems,so I asked him one day what are the disabilities and he said well,one is an alcoholic,one has traumatic stress and panic disorder,and one has depression. Your heart issue is a disability no doubt,but emotional problems? I don't understand first what doctor would certify these as disabilities,and second why I can't get a referral from a nice forumite. I have a delicious food addiction problem and I am in fact depressed about it.

My heart wasn't an issue; it was depression. A doctor in CA sent me to the social security office and I went through the 1st set of interviews.
After the paperwork was filed, I drove to Bakersfield and registered my business, called the SS office and told them to shred my paperwork. I knew I could get it- it wasn't right, though, and I was raised differently than some others.
Even though I was emotionally troubled- the depression did not incapacitate me- I knew I could not play the system like others do. PPP and baking was therapy for me and I have not regretted my decision. I have to admit, once in awhile I think about how nice it would be to not have to work and collect the $. But I would never be able to look in my father's eyes again.

Am I the only one who couldn't care less about a "special sale" where you get $1 off a $22 box of K-cups? Or 10% off my purchase of $100 or more at Belk?

One dollar isn't going to make me go, "Wow! Gotta get some K-cups!" Nor will saving $10 make me spend $100. Unless, of course, I was going to buy the items anyway, in which case the sale is moot and just a bonus for me with no benefit for the store.

Is this type of marketing really effective?

Wow. You aren't shopping right.

Let's see, I sign up for free memberships, free purchase clubs, clip coupons, take advantage of special offers and sales. I do not go out of my way for a sale, nor do I buy things I don't need/won't use. However, incentives do get me to consolidate my shopping in one location. Which is a win win for me, since I hate to shop.

I went to a retailer a week or so ago, and came home with over $200 worth of merchandise that we needed but had procrastinated on buying for $60.

I just placed a Keurig order, and with my discounts, coupons, and special offers, I received additional "gifts", received free shipping and got a cheaper price than the "members club price".

Now if I was just picking up stuff whenever I thought about it, maybe a sale wouldn't be worth it to me. But I'm very cost conscious and try to always wait until there is a less expensive price or incentive to purchase at a retailer.

We had to buy a new tv recently and wound up getting a top brand name 70" tv for less than the advertised price anywhere else, even online, and even less than the 60" tvs, and received free delivery.

It pays to save on items you plan on buying anyway. :shrug:

Right now, I have some treats 20% off that were once great sellers and hope to at least recoop my money before they expire. The goal is to make room for new treats to replace them- and maybe even pay for them!

Apple Bacon Fruitables by any chance? I try and stockpile them.

There is literally nothing that can't be had for much cheaper elsewhere - I don't understand the customers mentality to pay more. I get it that people think they should support local business but to be honest,why would I support someone else's dream at a detriment to myself? Better to have the rich corporations and keep my cash,I'd think.

Actually, not true. Peppers is on par / or even less, with any other business, even online and factor in no shipping costs...it's a win. Plus you get to take your dog in to pick out a toy and get ooohed and ahhhed over, which pets and pet owners enjoy. Also, I've found if I want something, they can get in with no problems and no stress, no fuss on my behalf.

I've disovered that many of the smaller local businesses in our area are the exact same way, less expensive and/or on par price wise and much friendlier and cooperative. I hate shopping, so a friendly staff and eager assistance win me over each time. Just discovered a local framer in Leonardtown who does excellent work and who is much much less than the box store (even with a coupon). Don't turn your nose up at the local businesses.

Wow. You aren't shopping right.

Let's see, I sign up for free memberships, free purchase clubs, clip coupons, take advantage of special offers and sales. I do not go out of my way for a sale, nor do I buy things I don't need/won't use. However, incentives do get me to consolidate my shopping in one location. Which is a win win for me, since I hate to shop.

I went to a retailer a week or so ago, and came home with over $200 worth of merchandise that we needed but had procrastinated on buying for $60.

I just placed a Keurig order, and with my discounts, coupons, and special offers, I received additional "gifts", received free shipping and got a cheaper price than the "members club price".

Now if I was just picking up stuff whenever I thought about it, maybe a sale wouldn't be worth it to me. But I'm very cost conscious and try to always wait until there is a less expensive price or incentive to purchase at a retailer.

We had to buy a new tv recently and wound up getting a top brand name 70" tv for less than the advertised price anywhere else, even online, and even less than the 60" tvs, and received free delivery.

It pays to save on items you plan on buying anyway. :shrug:



Apple Bacon Fruitables by any chance? I try and stockpile them.



Actually, not true. Peppers is on par / or even less, with any other business, even online and factor in no shipping costs...it's a win. Plus you get to take your dog in to pick out a toy and get ooohed and ahhhed over, which pets and pet owners enjoy. Also, I've found if I want something, they can get in with no problems and no stress, no fuss on my behalf.

I've disovered that many of the smaller local businesses in our area are the exact same way, less expensive and/or on par price wise and much friendlier and cooperative. I hate shopping, so a friendly staff and eager assistance win me over each time. Just discovered a local framer in Leonardtown who does excellent work and who is much much less than the box store (even with a coupon). Don't turn your nose up at the local businesses.

We're pretty much the opposite. Hate the ooh's and ahh's and eager help makes us head out the door. Just the initial "do you need any help" makes both of us cringe - we both feel like if we need help,we'll ask,otherwise,we aren't there to be coddled.

And as for your comment to Vrai about not shopping right - you must not be if you are still paying for shipping.

We're pretty much the opposite. Hate the ooh's and ahh's and eager help makes us head out the door. Just the initial "do you need any help" makes both of us cringe - we both feel like if we need help,we'll ask,otherwise,we aren't there to be coddled.

This attitude confuses me, although it's not uncommon. Why wouldn't you want to be greeted by someone and asked if you need help finding something? It's common courtesy and, I think, much better than walking into a store and being ignored. I have a girlfriend like that - it drives her crazy when the store clerk acknowledges her. I don't get it.

My heart wasn't an issue; it was depression. A doctor in CA sent me to the social security office and I went through the 1st set of interviews.
After the paperwork was filed, I drove to Bakersfield and registered my business, called the SS office and told them to shred my paperwork. I knew I could get it- it wasn't right, though, and I was raised differently than some others.
Even though I was emotionally troubled- the depression did not incapacitate me- I knew I could not play the system like others do. PPP and baking was therapy for me and I have not regretted my decision. I have to admit, once in awhile I think about how nice it would be to not have to work and collect the $. But I would never be able to look in my father's eyes again.

I'd have to say that any sort of emotional problems feel worse when you're isolated or staying home,so I'm sure being busy and productive is a huge help to you. I can definitely see how PPP is a great thing for you all the way around. My wife is self-employed and I know when no work is coming in her anxiety issues take off. When she's busy,totally different person.

We're pretty much the opposite. Hate the ooh's and ahh's and eager help makes us head out the door. Just the initial "do you need any help" makes both of us cringe - we both feel like if we need help,we'll ask,otherwise,we aren't there to be coddled.

And as for your comment to Vrai about not shopping right - you must not be if you are still paying for shipping.

I said I got free shipping. :smile: Perhaps you aren't reading right.

This attitude confuses me, although it's not uncommon. Why wouldn't you want to be greeted by someone and asked if you need help finding something? It's common courtesy and, I think, much better than walking into a store and being ignored. I have a girlfriend like that - it drives her crazy when the store clerk acknowledges her. I don't get it.

To me,when I drive to a business to spend money I've earned,then I'm in a way establishing a baseline of functionality as an adult. So,when I walk in and am immediately asked if I need help,part of me feels like christ....here we go again with the societal move towards hand holding and coddling. I drove here,I earned money to pay for the goods - yeah,I think I can manage knowing what I want,picking it up,and paying for it. It really irks me and makes me uncomfortable and what really will make me leave is being asked repeatedly. Also,being acknowledged really isn't that important to me - I came for goods,not a pal. The "friendliness" to me is phony.I don't need any one to do anything but be available if I needed you. I've always been a bit socially inept,though - I can turn on the charm in short bursts but I don't tolerate other people well.
My most hated thing are the business calls where they go through this whole speech before simply getting down to it. When I get a call from a person and they are obviously on a business call and ask me how my day is I lay into them and will talk about constipation,my wife's period,my kids troubles...so forth. If you ask - you better really want to know. If you are just bs'ing,I'll waste your time like you are wasting mine. I know,I'm a jerk.

We're pretty much the opposite. Hate the ooh's and ahh's and eager help makes us head out the door. Just the initial "do you need any help" makes both of us cringe - we both feel like if we need help,we'll ask,otherwise,we aren't there to be coddled.

And as for your comment to Vrai about not shopping right - you must not be if you are still paying for shipping.

OMG I am the same way. If I need help I will ask you for help. I dont need you to follow me around the store tryign to assist me in shopping.

I said I got free shipping. :smile: Perhaps you aren't reading right.

I read fine. Here is your quote:

Actually, not true. Peppers is on par / or even less, with any other business, even online and factor in no shipping costs...it's a win. Plus you get to take your dog in to pick out a toy and get ooohed and ahhhed over, which pets and pet owners enjoy. Also, I've found if I want something, they can get in with no problems and no stress, no fuss on my behalf.

If you say Pepper's is a deal"......when you factor in no shipping costs",then that tells me you must at times at least have to pay them,or it would be a non-issue in your calculations. In other words,if you consider shipping costs when comparison shopping,you obviously do pay for shipping. Anyway,I'm not going to pull a Roberta and freak out over semantics.

To me,when I drive to a business to spend money I've earned,then I'm in a way establishing a baseline of functionality as an adult. So,when I walk in and am immediately asked if I need help,part of me feels like christ....here we go again with the societal move towards hand holding and coddling. I drove here,I earned money to pay for the goods - yeah,I think I can manage knowing what I want,picking it up,and paying for it. It really irks me and makes me uncomfortable and what really will make me leave is being asked repeatedly. Also,being acknowledged really isn't that important to me - I came for goods,not a pal. The "friendliness" to me is phony.I don't need any one to do anything but be available if I needed you. I've always been a bit socially inept,though - I can turn on the charm in short bursts but I don't tolerate other people well.

Wow. :lol:

Anyway,I'm not going to pull a Roberta and freak out over semantics.

Oh come on. It's a slow day.

Oh come on. It's a slow day.

I told you.Don't speak to me. If I need a comment from you,I'll contact somd customer service and ask for it. :jameo::razz:

Wow. You aren't shopping right.

Let's see, I sign up for free memberships, free purchase clubs, clip coupons, take advantage of special offers and sales.

Apparently, I don't shop right either. I hate shopping! I'm not beyond researching on the net or making phone calls for the best deal whether online or not, but all that other hullabaloo makes me hate it even worse. Not gonna do it, bleh!

I read fine. Here is your quote:

Actually, not true. Peppers is on par / or even less, with any other business, even online and factor in no shipping costs...it's a win. Plus you get to take your dog in to pick out a toy and get ooohed and ahhhed over, which pets and pet owners enjoy. Also, I've found if I want something, they can get in with no problems and no stress, no fuss on my behalf.

If you say Pepper's is a deal"......when you factor in no shipping costs",then that tells me you must at times at least have to pay them,or it would be a non-issue in your calculations. In other words,if you consider shipping costs when comparison shopping,you obviously do pay for shipping. Anyway,I'm not going to pull a Roberta and freak out over semantics.

Ahhhh....okay what I meant was I have seen specific items at specific websites that Peppers carries for the same price while those websites charge s&h. Which is a factor and can be an issue when cost comparing. But I never order anything online if I have to pay S&H...even from ebay. :lol:

Does that help you out any or do I need to spell out the word R.O.A.D.? :eyebrow: :lol:

Apparently, I don't shop right either. I hate shopping! I'm not beyond researching on the net or making phone calls for the best deal whether online or not, but all that other hullabaloo makes me hate it even worse. Not gonna do it, bleh!

:lol: You shop more than me. :neener: I have the giant do my research pricing. He excels at the online research. :clap:

Actually, I know somebody who is one of those ultimate coupon clipper sale finder people. I don't think she pays for anything - she gets rebates and change back instead. I admire the heck out of that, but I don't have the time/energy for it.

Ahhhh....okay what I meant was I have seen specific items at specific websites that Peppers carries for the same price while those websites charge s&h. Which is a factor and can be an issue when cost comparing. But I never order anything online if I have to pay S&H...even from ebay. :lol:

Does that help you out any or do I need to spell out the word R.O.A.D.? :eyebrow: :lol:

Yes,you do. Spell it out. Because if you don't,at this point you just look kind of hard up for something to do today.

Yes,you do. Spell it out. Because if you don't,at this point you just look kind of hard up for something to do today.

:roflmao: And on that note....:drummer:

To me,when I drive to a business to spend money I've earned,then I'm in a way establishing a baseline of functionality as an adult. So,when I walk in and am immediately asked if I need help,part of me feels like christ....here we go again with the societal move towards hand holding and coddling. I drove here,I earned money to pay for the goods - yeah,I think I can manage knowing what I want,picking it up,and paying for it. It really irks me and makes me uncomfortable and what really will make me leave is being asked repeatedly. Also,being acknowledged really isn't that important to me - I came for goods,not a pal. The "friendliness" to me is phony.I don't need any one to do anything but be available if I needed you. I've always been a bit socially inept,though - I can turn on the charm in short bursts but I don't tolerate other people well.
My most hated thing are the business calls where they go through this whole speech before simply getting down to it. When I get a call from a person and they are obviously on a business call and ask me how my day is I lay into them and will talk about constipation,my wife's period,my kids troubles...so forth. If you ask - you better really want to know. If you are just bs'ing,I'll waste your time like you are wasting mine. I know,I'm a jerk.


Well, don't come in my stores because one or more people will say hello and usually will tell you to let them know if you need help.
I don't consider it coddling, it is considered GOOD CUSTOMER SERVICE.
And after a few visits, we actually may call you by your name.

:lol: You shop more than me. :neener: I have the giant do my research pricing. He excels at the online research. :clap:

Actually, I know somebody who is one of those ultimate coupon clipper sale finder people. I don't think she pays for anything - she gets rebates and change back instead. I admire the heck out of that, but I don't have the time/energy for it.

Only because I have to, I have a family of six! :jameo:

My most hated thing are the business calls where they go through this whole speech before simply getting down to it. When I get a call from a person and they are obviously on a business call and ask me how my day is I lay into them and will talk about constipation,my wife's period,my kids troubles...so forth. If you ask - you better really want to know. If you are just bs'ing,I'll waste your time like you are wasting mine. I know,I'm a jerk.

This part here I understand. Take this one step further, when you actually tell the person how you are ACTUALLY doing....THEY become uncomfortable and don't know how to respond :lol:

Well, don't come in my stores because one or more people will say hello and usually will tell you to let them know if you need help.
I don't consider it coddling, it is considered GOOD CUSTOMER SERVICE.
And after a few visits, we actually may call you by your name.

Hey, where is your store?

I hate Petco or Petsmart, or whatever. I don't spend much money on my pets, but I'd rather frequent your business if it is close by.

I know, you are going to be biased, but if I'm going to spend an extra buck or two and get used to good customer service at one location....I'm inclined to do that.

Cheers!

Am I the only one who couldn't care less about a "special sale" where you get $1 off a $22 box of K-cups? Or 10% off my purchase of $100 or more at Belk?

One dollar isn't going to make me go, "Wow! Gotta get some K-cups!" Nor will saving $10 make me spend $100. Unless, of course, I was going to buy the items anyway, in which case the sale is moot and just a bonus for me with no benefit for the store.

Is this type of marketing really effective?

It isn't effective by me.

These department stores change the verbage. I would not be "saving" any money. I'm spending $100 to receive $10 off my NEXT purchase, or at least that is how it usually is worded. So, spend $100 to spend 'a-little-less' next time around. No thanks. If a department store isn't going to offer a reasonable price for their goods, up front, then I won't be frequenting them....regardless of "sales".

Well, don't come in my stores because one or more people will say hello and usually will tell you to let them know if you need help.
I don't consider it coddling, it is considered GOOD CUSTOMER SERVICE.
And after a few visits, we actually may call you by your name.


Happens to us everytime.