I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

Those words are invariably spoken by someone who has hooked up (or is in the process of hooking up) with someone they don't really know (or like) that much.

Am I the only weirdo who doesn't mind being "alone", and in fact prefers it to having to deal with someone who grates on my nerves because we're not compatible? Seriously, I only know one other person who is happy and busy being unattached. It seems that everyone else is trying to fit square pegs in round holes so they don't have to be "alone".

And I say "alone" in quotes because my life is active and I arrange down time to spend an evening on the couch in front of the TV with my dog. Don't other people do this, or must it be a constant whirlwind of human companionship? Am I just an anti-social freak with an overabundant lack of patience?

I asked the "I don't want to be alone" people and they assure me that, yes, I'm a freak :lol: and that most people want a companion, even if it's not the love of their life. It just seems to me that you'll never find the love of your life if you're involved with Mr. He'll Do, or even Mr. Meh Whatever. Not to mention that someone with whom you have very little in common isn't really a "companion" at all.

:confused:

Hmmm....the only people I know who hop from bedmate to bedmate are dysfunctional in all aspects of their lives so I never gave their motives much thought. I take that back- my Grandma has been single since my Grandpa died 30 years ago and she lives a lifestyle quite like yours, minus the dog. She has a more active social life than I do and she's 88. :lol:

No, you are not a freak. My mother always said she liked her alone time with her best friend...herself. My daughter has some girlfriends that complain about their boyfriends constantly, and know deep down they are not the "ones", but they settle because they need to have a boyfriend at all times. They are wasting their time and need to be single and out there looking for the "one". I guess it's like women who stay in abusive relationships because even though it's horrible, they like the security and don't want to put themselves out there with the chance of being alone.

I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

Those words are invariably spoken by someone who has hooked up (or is in the process of hooking up) with someone they don't really know (or like) that much.

Am I the only weirdo who doesn't mind being "alone", and in fact prefers it to having to deal with someone who grates on my nerves because we're not compatible? Seriously, I only know one other person who is happy and busy being unattached. It seems that everyone else is trying to fit square pegs in round holes so they don't have to be "alone".

And I say "alone" in quotes because my life is active and I arrange down time to spend an evening on the couch in front of the TV with my dog. Don't other people do this, or must it be a constant whirlwind of human companionship? Am I just an anti-social freak with an overabundant lack of patience?

I asked the "I don't want to be alone" people and they assure me that, yes, I'm a freak :lol: and that most people want a companion, even if it's not the love of their life. It just seems to me that you'll never find the love of your life if you're involved with Mr. He'll Do, or even Mr. Meh Whatever. Not to mention that someone with whom you have very little in common isn't really a "companion" at all.

:confused:

no... I also enjoy being single.... Im so set in my ways I dont think I want to deal with someone else around...:lol:

remind me Friday to tell ya bout my "rules" :whistle: :popcorn:

I prefer my company to that of other people. I've been single for awhile and I like it. If I wanna date, I date. If not, I don't. I come and go as I please, eat when, what and where I want, burp, fart or run around nekkid. It's MY choosing.

Being single is great!!

I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

Those words are invariably spoken by someone who has hooked up (or is in the process of hooking up) with someone they don't really know (or like) that much.

Am I the only weirdo who doesn't mind being "alone", and in fact prefers it to having to deal with someone who grates on my nerves because we're not compatible? Seriously, I only know one other person who is happy and busy being unattached. It seems that everyone else is trying to fit square pegs in round holes so they don't have to be "alone".

And I say "alone" in quotes because my life is active and I arrange down time to spend an evening on the couch in front of the TV with my dog. Don't other people do this, or must it be a constant whirlwind of human companionship? Am I just an anti-social freak with an overabundant lack of patience?

I asked the "I don't want to be alone" people and they assure me that, yes, I'm a freak :lol: and that most people want a companion, even if it's not the love of their life. It just seems to me that you'll never find the love of your life if you're involved with Mr. He'll Do, or even Mr. Meh Whatever. Not to mention that someone with whom you have very little in common isn't really a "companion" at all.

:confused:

You're not a freak, because you're never alone.

You choose not to have a "companion" when in fact you have many.

Not in the sense that you're knocking boots with a lot of guys, but generally speaking you have a lot of friends, and you can get companionship at any time, or have enough planned gatherings to satisfy the human need for companionship.. You TRULY are not alone.

Some of these people you speak of may not have the social graces of us "everybody loves us" crowd (We ONLY drink Dos Equis!!) and may REALLY be alone. I can understand somebody in that situation truly wanting human companionship, and settling for somebody just to have someone there when they get home.

Maybe we should teach these friends how to bowl overhand, and how to speak French in five languages so they too can bask in the glory of "EVERYBODY loves ME!!"

:buddies:

I prefer my company to that of other people. I've been single for awhile and I like it. If I wanna date, I date. If not, I don't. I come and go as I please, eat when, what and where I want, burp, fart or run around nekkid. It's MY choosing.

Being single is great!!

:buddies:

amen.... when u gonna run around nekkid again....:popcorn: :whistle:

:buddies:

amen.... when u gonna run around nekkid again....:popcorn: :whistle:I know your rules! :really:

:buddies:

amen.... when u gonna run around nekkid again....:popcorn: :whistle:

I think he's waiting for warm weather..

Streaking in cold weather CAN be embarassing..

I know your rules! :really:
:killingme

they are not bad rules... :shrug:
I think he's waiting for warm weather..

Streaking in cold weather CAN be embarassing..

:jet:

Nah, you're not a freak. (Well, maybe you are, but I know nothing about what you do between the sheets) :whistle:
:lol:

But seriously, you are NOT a freak. At this point in your life, you've found what works for you. What keeps you happy. Whether or not it involves a human companion doesn't matter. If at some point you feel a need to find someone than you can but please don't feel like you have to fit into some "societal norm".

BTW, if you are a freak between the sheets my # is .....
Just kiddin.
:killingme

I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

Those words are invariably spoken by someone who has hooked up (or is in the process of hooking up) with someone they don't really know (or like) that much.

Am I the only weirdo who doesn't mind being "alone", and in fact prefers it to having to deal with someone who grates on my nerves because we're not compatible? Seriously, I only know one other person who is happy and busy being unattached. It seems that everyone else is trying to fit square pegs in round holes so they don't have to be "alone".

And I say "alone" in quotes because my life is active and I arrange down time to spend an evening on the couch in front of the TV with my dog. Don't other people do this, or must it be a constant whirlwind of human companionship? Am I just an anti-social freak with an overabundant lack of patience?

I asked the "I don't want to be alone" people and they assure me that, yes, I'm a freak :lol: and that most people want a companion, even if it's not the love of their life. It just seems to me that you'll never find the love of your life if you're involved with Mr. He'll Do, or even Mr. Meh Whatever. Not to mention that someone with whom you have very little in common isn't really a "companion" at all.

:confused:Nope. You're not the only one. :biggrin:

no... I also enjoy being single.... Im so set in my ways I dont think I want to deal with someone else around...:lol:

remind me Friday to tell ya bout my "rules" :whistle: :popcorn:And that too! :lol:

Some of these people you speak of may not have the social graces of us "everybody loves us" crowd (We ONLY drink Dos Equis!!) and may REALLY be alone. I can understand somebody in that situation truly wanting human companionship, and settling for somebody just to have someone there when they get home.
See, that's the thing - the "I don't want to be alone" types that I'm referring to have tons of friends and active social lives. They just want someone there all the time - can't go out to dinner or to a party without a date. One of my guy buds frankly told me that the only thing he really likes about his live-in girlfriend is that she's always there. He doesn't have to coordinate plans with her, or schedule time to see her. Whenever he wants to do something, he doesn't have to worry about finding someone available to go with him - other than that, she annoys the piss out of him. :lol:

Nope. You're not the only one. :biggrin:

:high5:

I have friends that are constantly trying to hook me up, which usually fail miserably. They ask, "Aren't you lonely?" My response is always, "I am alone, but I am not lonely."

Like was said, I prefer my own company. If that someone special just happens into my life, fine, but I'm content as I am.

I think he's waiting for warm weather..

Streaking in cold weather CAN be embarassing..:shrinkage:



:killingme they are not bad rules... :shrug: :jet:Nope, not bad at all.

:shrinkage:



Nope, not bad at all.

:love:

:yay:... I thought they were fair as well :yay:

I dont think you're a freak at all. I actually have a good set up I think. I work days Mon. thru Fri. Hubby works nites Mon. thru Fri. We rarely see each other during the week. Saturday and Sundays we spend together but not every Saturday or Sunday. I go to my daughters to see the grandkids or he goes to a sporting event. We get along fine, been together 19 years now, the last 4 months as husband and wife. I have few friends, only because the ones that I do have turn out to be such a PIA, I dont really associate with them much anymore. I know that sounds terrible, but honestly, I'm very happy.:yahoo: The one thing I do miss is my dog. Got to look into getting another one as soon as my granddog and daughter move.

I still have kids at home so I'm rarely alone. I'll chime in on this in 4 years or so when the last one is out the door. :lol:

I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

I honestly just need someone to do the laundry. I'm wearing only one sock right now. I have a spouse thingy but then again, only one sock on, so I must reassess.

I still have kids at home so I'm rarely alone. I'll chime in on this in 4 years or so when the last one is out the door. :lol:

It occurs to me that the people I hear this from are late-40s/early-50s. Maybe that's why they're freaking out.

Generally I like being married, but it's been over half my life so maybe I'm just used to it.

I have friends that are constantly trying to hook me up, which usually fail miserably. They ask, "Aren't you lonely?" My response is always, "I am alone, but I am not lonely."

Like was said, I prefer my own company. If that someone special just happens into my life, fine, but I'm content as I am.

Yep. I have a dog and cat and son here though, so am not totally alone. The cat is now very nice by the way. Not the mean sucker he used to be.

It occurs to me that the people I hear this from are late-40s/early-50s. Maybe that's why they're freaking out.

I can't see me ever having another companion. No one could put up with me. :lol: Plus no one would ever measure up. I like having friends I can see once in a while and thats about it. It does kind of suck not having someone to reminise with though.

There is no loneliness like two people together who simply don't like or enjoy one another.

"If you were my husband, I'd feed you poison mushrooms!"

"If you were my wife, I'd eat 'em!"


:shrug:

There is no loneliness like two people together who simply don't like or enjoy one another.

"If you were my husband, I'd feed you poison mushrooms!"

"If you were my wife, I'd eat 'em!"


:shrug:

:killingme

There is no loneliness like two people together who simply don't like or enjoy one another.

"If you were my husband, I'd feed you poison mushrooms!"

"If you were my wife, I'd eat 'em!"


:shrug:

:roflmao:

I am married, but DO love my Alone-Time. My kids are grown, and have been out of the house for years. My Husband leaves for our place in Florida in the Winter, and stays about 1 to 2 months at a time. I am OK with that. It is nice streaking through the house, and enjoying doing things MY way. When I want, and what I want!! I do enjoy the companionship with others, but I really like being alone here & there too. If that is considered weird, well then...I'm weird. I deal with people all day long.........

It occurs to me that the people I hear this from are late-40s/early-50s. Maybe that's why they're freaking out.

I think they're just worried no one will be around to call 911 or find them dead before they stink up the house. :shrug:

I don't think it's weird at all. I'm happily married now but before I met hubby I was happily single after a crappy relationship. Honestly, I didn't miss the "companionship" because I was miserable for 6 long years. After I ended things I felt happier than ever and was in no rush to get involved with anyone else. I think it's important to have alone time as well as time with friends, whether you're in a relationship or not. To settle just so you're not single is crazy imo.

I dont think you're a freak at all. I actually have a good set up I think. I work days Mon. thru Fri. Hubby works nites Mon. thru Fri. We rarely see each other during the week. Saturday and Sundays we spend together but not every Saturday or Sunday. I go to my daughters to see the grandkids or he goes to a sporting event. We get along fine, been together 19 years now, the last 4 months as husband and wife. I have few friends, only because the ones that I do have turn out to be such a PIA, I dont really associate with them much anymore. I know that sounds terrible, but honestly, I'm very happy.:yahoo: The one thing I do miss is my dog. Got to look into getting another one as soon as my granddog and daughter move.

My hubby works a ton of hours, maybe that's why we get along so well! :killingme

My hubby works a ton of hours, maybe that's why we get along so well! :killingme

BTW, Happy Birthday, Calvert Newbie!

More women today (not all) are co-dependent so it is emotionally painful for them to be w/o a guy. They haven't had good role models for relationships from their parents. Rarely does a woman come to a bar or restaurant alone, although a few do. Lately I've met more women who have boyfriends, baby daddys, live ins, etc., with whom they are not happy but who they will not leave.

On the other side, guys have a tendancy to want to be with a woman AND still act single. Sadly, many of them just want a mommy...

Personally I'm in the middle right now. Most of the time I love my "singleness" but sometimes I miss being with a lady. I find it harder to really connect with strangers and become real friends today than I used to. Does anyone else?

See, that's the thing - the "I don't want to be alone" types that I'm referring to have tons of friends and active social lives. They just want someone there all the time - can't go out to dinner or to a party without a date. One of my guy buds frankly told me that the only thing he really likes about his live-in girlfriend is that she's always there. He doesn't have to coordinate plans with her, or schedule time to see her. Whenever he wants to do something, he doesn't have to worry about finding someone available to go with him - other than that, she annoys the piss out of him. :lol:



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I know people like that too. From one relationship to another because they have to be with "someone". Not that I'm not open to the opportunity if it happens but I enjoy being by myself now. I was "lonely" in an unhappy marriage for years. I have good friends, good family and I'm comfortable with where I am now. I'm so used to doing what I want and when I want without answering to someone, I don't think I could even live with someone again (unless they swept me off my feet lol).

I find it harder to really connect with strangers and become real friends today than I used to. Does anyone else?

I'm a lot more cautious than I used to be, that's for sure. Once bitten, twice shy.

I'm a lot more cautious than I used to be, that's for sure. Once bitten, twice shy.

:yeahthat:

Same for me.

More women today (not all) are co-dependent so it is emotionally painful for them to be w/o a guy. They haven't had good role models for relationships from their parents. Rarely does a woman come to a bar or restaurant alone, although a few do. Lately I've met more women who have boyfriends, baby daddys, live ins, etc., with whom they are not happy but who they will not leave.

On the other side, guys have a tendancy to want to be with a woman AND still act single. Sadly, many of them just want a mommy...

Personally I'm in the middle right now. Most of the time I love my "singleness" but sometimes I miss being with a lady. I find it harder to really connect with strangers and become real friends today than I used to. Does anyone else?

:poorbaby:.... here, here... come to ICit... :huggy:

I'm a lot more cautious than I used to be, that's for sure. Once bitten, twice shy.

:yeahthat:

Same for me.

AMEN!!!

I like being married. I also like having my "girl time" with friends here and there. Hubby does his own thing with his buds as well. And, we're both confident enough that we can hang with the opposite sex and it not phase either of us. Pete and I have dates sometimes; he'll vouch for me!! :lol:

I'm ok with where I'm at. I have other priorities than finding a man. If/when it happens, great. If it doesn't, great. I'm ok with that. It is what it is.

I like being married. I also like having my "girl time" with friends here and there. Hubby does his own thing with his buds as well. And, we're both confident enough that we can hang with the opposite sex and it not phase either of us. Pete and I have dates sometimes; he'll vouch for me!! :lol:

Hard to find a chick like that! That's for sure! Kudos to you! :buddies:

I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

Those words are invariably spoken by someone who has hooked up (or is in the process of hooking up) with someone they don't really know (or like) that much.

Am I the only weirdo who doesn't mind being "alone", and in fact prefers it to having to deal with someone who grates on my nerves because we're not compatible?

No but there's still context. You've been married and raised a family. You've "been there, done that". Since I've known you the past 15 or so years, you always seem to have lots of friends who can make time to spend with you if need be. I have relatives who are "comfortable being alone". Not a single one isn't a parent or has never been married. They're not really ever alone.

When I was single and living on my own, I had only a few friends, and invariably when they found someone to be with or got married, my contact with them diminished. I had never been married before. I did live alone, for 12 years. So I was a little lonely - that's what led me to create that little movie-going group on here, many years ago.

Now, when I have plenty of time free and the kids are in school and the wife is working, I very much enjoy time to myself - but it's time I can choose to be alone. When I was living alone, a lot of my choices were already made for me unless I found someone to share it with.

I don't know who says this sort of thing to you. I know for me, in those many years by myself, my life was punctuated by occasional social interaction but almost all of it spent all by myself. Not to be a sad sack, but try staying home with very little human interaction and see how long you last.

My wife ran off with another man and then my cat died. I cried my eyes out over the cat.:bawl:

My wife ran off with another man and then my cat died. I cried my eyes out over the cat.:bawl:

:poorbaby:...... do you need another cat.... :whistle: know someone that will be adopting out kittens soon! :killingme :killingme

I like being married. I also like having my "girl time" with friends here and there. Hubby does his own thing with his buds as well. And, we're both confident enough that we can hang with the opposite sex and it not phase either of us. Pete and I have dates sometimes; he'll vouch for me!! :lol:

This is true. :2ndbase:

This is true. :2ndbase:
got some boob?

:poorbaby:...... do you need another cat.... :whistle: know someone that will be adopting out kittens soon! :killingme :killingme

No, I still have his sister. And kittens are like potato chips, I can't stop at just one. They are delicious.:yum:

No, I still have his sister. And kittens are like potato chips, I can't stop at just one. They are delicious.:yum:

omg... :killingme

I love Chinese food also!!!

got some boob?

All the time

omg... :killingme

i love chinese food also!!!

85743

85743

:jet:

KITTY'S (http://kittychopsuey.com/)

KITTY'S (http://kittychopsuey.com/)

Writing in engrish with accent, hilarious!:roflmao:

I swear some one in my office is eating Chinese right now! Spooky!

got some boob?I have pictorial proof his hands were elsewhere on her bod.

I have pictorial proof his hands were elsewhere on her bod.

Well.........

:worthless

I have pictorial proof his hands were elsewhere on her bod.

I still have that Polaroid :lmao:

got some boob?

His own...:lmao:

:poorbaby:.... here, here... come to ICit... :huggy:

I'm ok with where I'm at. I have other priorities than finding a man. If/when it happens, great. If it doesn't, great. I'm ok with that. It is what it is.
See y'all Friday!!!!! :really: :roflmao:

I keep hearing this phrase in various forms:

"I don't want to be alone. I need a companion."

Those words are invariably spoken by someone who has hooked up (or is in the process of hooking up) with someone they don't really know (or like) that much.

Am I the only weirdo who doesn't mind being "alone", and in fact prefers it to having to deal with someone who grates on my nerves because we're not compatible? Seriously, I only know one other person who is happy and busy being unattached. It seems that everyone else is trying to fit square pegs in round holes so they don't have to be "alone".

And I say "alone" in quotes because my life is active and I arrange down time to spend an evening on the couch in front of the TV with my dog. Don't other people do this, or must it be a constant whirlwind of human companionship? Am I just an anti-social freak with an overabundant lack of patience?

I asked the "I don't want to be alone" people and they assure me that, yes, I'm a freak :lol: and that most people want a companion, even if it's not the love of their life. It just seems to me that you'll never find the love of your life if you're involved with Mr. He'll Do, or even Mr. Meh Whatever. Not to mention that someone with whom you have very little in common isn't really a "companion" at all.

:confused:

Of course I don't think you're a freak. :bann:

Divorced since 2005 - I have never been alone, since I have my kids.

"Relationship-wise", it's been a relatively drama free 7 years and I have not regretted that at all. For me, I think I am happy with the way it's been because I am comfortable with who I am and I'm a relatively happy, positive person. I have worked for everything I have, and it wasn't given or provided to me by someone else. So I don't "need" someone to make me happy or provide for me. I can do it all myself. I also like my alone time to do whatever I want to do.

However, I also have plenty of friends and love to do things with them when I want to or have opportunity to. And now that the Things are older, they really don't care when I've gone out with friends, etc. In fact they like it! :jet:

See y'all Friday!!!!! :really: :roflmao:

:lmao:

See y'all Friday!!!!! :really: :roflmao:

Put that eyebrow down!! NOW!

Put that eyebrow down!! NOW!
Is this better? :drool:

I still have that Polaroid :lmao:

"Dad, let me see your watch..." :whistle:

See y'all Friday!!!!! :really: :roflmao:

:bann:
Put that eyebrow down!! NOW!



Is this better? :drool:

:lmao:

See y'all Friday!!!!! :really: :roflmao:

mayyybeeee :angel:

mayyybeeee :angel:

:rolleyes:... yeah.. ok!!!!

Is this better? :drool:

:wench:

I constantly fight with myself
I need a moderator around to settle disputes.

How about a "lover" or just a Friend w/ benefits.

No "companion" liabilities. :shrug:

mayyybeeee :angel:
:rolleyes:... yeah.. ok!!!!
Angel no show and point the finger no show??? Splain please! :tap:

:wench:
:cartwheel :razz:

Angel no show and point the finger no show??? Splain please! :tap:

Sorry... things to take care of at the house

How about a "lover" or just a Friend w/ benefits.

Yuck. If you like someone enough that they're your friend, and you're attracted enough to have sex with them, that's normally called a "relationship" or at least "dating".

Yuck. If you like someone enough that they're your friend, and you're attracted enough to have sex with them, that's normally called a "relationship" or at least "dating".

Or, in some parts of the country and most of New Jersey, that's called a happy family.

Yuck. If you like someone enough that they're your friend, and you're attracted enough to have sex with them, that's normally called a "relationship" or at least "dating".

but..........not companionship.


and....... "Yuck".... is sex still yucky?

Or, in some parts of the country and most of New Jersey, that's called a happy family.

:confused: Isn't that on most oriental menus?

but..........not companionship.

If they're your friend they are typically your companion in some form. Unless by "friend" you mean "acquaintance" or someone you picked up at a bar and think their name is something that starts with a B or maybe a D.

If they're your friend they are typically your companion in some form. Unless by "friend" you mean "acquaintance" or someone you picked up at a bar and think their name is something that starts with a B or maybe a D.

Yes, dear, you are a freak. Shame on you.

:confused: Isn't that on most oriental menus?

I think you mean Chinese menus, specifically. Right? There's some entree'; and a restaurant called "Happy Dragon."

:howdy:

Yuck. If you like someone enough that they're your friend, and you're attracted enough to have sex with them, that's normally called a "relationship" or at least "dating".

Sometimes its called an appendage

See... I believe thinking you could stay FWB just isn't possible... one or the other is going to get territorial...:coffee:


DEAR ABBY: I have been seeing "Larry" for six months, and from day one we both agreed that we do not want to be in a relationship. I'm 29 and he's 34. But over time we have developed feelings for each other. Larry is recently divorced after 10 years of marriage. He tells me he doesn't want to lose me, but it's hard for him to commit for fear of being hurt.


Larry talks to other women and goes out, while I have basically committed myself to him. He gets upset if I talk to another man. He says I'm his best friend and he's afraid a relationship would change that.


I don't know what to do anymore. Neither one of us would be OK if the other started dating, but I'm sick of waiting for him to make up his mind. Should I move on? -- IN LIMBO IN COLUMBUS, IND.


DEAR IN LIMBO: Yes, you should. But not before telling Larry exactly why, because the arrangement you have right now is unfair to you. If you don't, you and Larry could wind up being "best friends" forever and nothing more.

DEAR ABBY: I have been seeing "Larry" for six months, and from day one we both agreed that we do not want to be in a relationship. I'm 29 and he's 34. But over time we have developed feelings for each other. Larry is recently divorced after 10 years of marriage. He tells me he doesn't want to lose me, but it's hard for him to commit for fear of being hurt.


Larry talks to other women and goes out, while I have basically committed myself to him. He gets upset if I talk to another man. He says I'm his best friend and he's afraid a relationship would change that.


I don't know what to do anymore. Neither one of us would be OK if the other started dating, but I'm sick of waiting for him to make up his mind. Should I move on? -- IN LIMBO IN COLUMBUS, IND.
Dear Limbo,

Damn, girl, give the guy a chance. He's fresh out of a 10 year marriage and you're sick of waiting after 6 months?? So the answer is yes, you should move on. And he should run screaming from you.

Dear Limbo,

Damn, girl, give the guy a chance. He's fresh out of a 10 year marriage and you're sick of waiting after 6 months?? So the answer is yes, you should move on. And he should run screaming from you.

:lmao:

I sure wish you would start an advice column on this website...:lol:

Dear Limbo,

Damn, girl, give the guy a chance. He's fresh out of a 10 year marriage and you're sick of waiting after 6 months?? So the answer is yes, you should move on. And he should run screaming from you.

:killingme