Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month. :cds:

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:

how long was the relationship?

He didn't deserve you. :love: Since we know where he'll be on Sunday, we can go in disguise and key his car and throw poo at him from the audience. It'll help.

Nacho... You are not alone. We have all been there. Losing love is the hardest thing we ever have to do.

The hospital is a great place to start if you are having serious depression. I did a 28 day stay there myself, back in 1991 and it truly saved my life.

Even if you decide not to stay they can set you up with a great doctor and some meds to make this all a lot easier.

You will look back on this and be able to smile.

Nacho... You are not alone. We have all been there. Losing love is the hardest thing we ever have to do.

The hospital is a great place to start if you are having serious depression. I did a 28 day stay there myself, back in 1991 and it truly saved my life.

Even if you decide not to stay they can set you up with a great doctor and some meds to make this all a lot easier.

You will look back on this and be able to smile.

You think so? I'm really torn on this because I don't want my kids to see that I'm cracking up, and I especially don't want him to see me this way either. I just feel like I can't breathe anymore. I have so much to look forward to in the next couple months - yet I don't even care about it.

how long was the relationship?

Apparently, it was too long. :ohwell: A couple years I guess.

He didn't deserve you. :love: Since we know where he'll be on Sunday, we can go in disguise and key his car and throw poo at him from the audience. It'll help.

:love:

I have been through a break up like this years ago....you must just get up and go on with your life.....at first you will just be going through the motions. But your joy will come back, it will take time....
I do not even know you, but I know your pain because it happened to me and my heart is broken for you...I am a praying person and I will say a prayer for you!

He didn't deserve you. :love: Since we know where he'll be on Sunday, we can go in disguise and key his car and throw poo at him from the audience. It'll help.

Make sure you get him before he gets you, he's been holding it :ohwell:

Next time I see War I am kicking him in the balls :burning:

It was my daughter that got me up....about a week after the break-up and not getting out of bed that whole week, my daughter came to me and asked if we were still going on the day trip ( kids fishing trip ) the bus will be here soon she said. I told her NO, I don't feel good. I saw tears in her eyes.....my thoughts at that time were...I can do this to myself, but I can't do this to my kids. I got up and went on that fishing trip....I felt like crap the whole time, and I just kept going through the motions until the joy slowly starting coming back....it took weeks and it came back slow, very slow, but it did come back....it was one of the hardest periods of my life...

You think so? I'm really torn on this because I don't want my kids to see that I'm cracking up, and I especially don't want him to see me this way either. I just feel like I can't breathe anymore. I have so much to look forward to in the next couple months - yet I don't even care about it.



Apparently, it was too long. :ohwell: A couple years I guess.



:love:

As Momma we try so hard to protect our babies. In my experience I have found that sometimes its good for the kids to see Mom breakdown.

It makes us more human and the kids can connect to that.

Right now the only thing that matters is that you take care of yourself. If you don't, you will be no good to anyone darlin.

awwwww nacho. :huggy: :poorbaby:

Toppick is single, maybe he can come over and lick your face and make you feel all better!

Nacho must be feeling bad. Not at all like her to post her personal :drama: on the forums.

awwwww nacho. :huggy: :poorbaby:

Toppick is single, maybe he can come over and lick your face and make you feel all better!

I don't like you anymore. :smack:

Nacho must be feeling bad. Not at all like her to post her personal :drama: on the forums.

You get me. :huggy:

I don't like you anymore. :smack:


wanna share a few cases of wine with me? :otter:

Nacho must be feeling bad. Not at all like her to post her personal :drama: on the forums.

Tard cred build up? She's a much stronger woman that her latest post indicates. I call the :bs: flag :duh:

Tard cred build up? She's a much stronger woman that her latest post indicates. I call the :bs: flag :duh:

I'm really wishing that were the case. :ohwell:

Tard cred build up? She's a much stronger woman that her latest post indicates. I call the :bs: flag :duh:

She's an O.G, she doesn't need to build cred :smack:

I'm really wishing that were the case. :ohwell:

I'm a skeptic as you never come off as weak, stupid or controlled by any man. I'm still throwing in the :bs: flag. :shrug:

awwwww nacho. :huggy: :poorbaby:

Toppick is single, maybe he can come over and lick your face and make you feel all better!
:smack:
Really?
you should be ashamed you yourself..... she needs more :huggy:

She's an O.G, she doesn't need to build cred :smack:

I am NOT an old goat. :smack: And here I thought you were different.

It was my daughter that got me up....about a week after the break-up and not getting out of bed that whole week, my daughter came to me and asked if we were still going on the day trip ( kids fishing trip ) the bus will be here soon she said. I told her NO, I don't feel good. I saw tears in her eyes.....my thoughts at that time were...I can do this to myself, but I can't do this to my kids. I got up and went on that fishing trip....I felt like crap the whole time, and I just kept going through the motions until the joy slowly starting coming back....it took weeks and it came back slow, very slow, but it did come back....it was one of the hardest periods of my life...
:yeahthat: Like the coach in High School said, "Walk it off"
... and like Oscar Wilde said, "The best revenge is living well"

I am NOT an old goat. :smack: And here I thought you were different.

I just tried to call you

I'm a skeptic as you never come off as weak, stupid or controlled by any man. I'm still throwing in the :bs: flag. :shrug:

I understand. I really pondered posting in here, but I figured I'd get non-biased viewpoints here.

believe it or don't believe it, I really don't care.

I am NOT an old goat. :smack: And here I thought you were different.

Shush :smack: You know what I mean.

I just tried to call you

Crap. My phones in another room. :blushing:

I understand. I really pondered posting in here, but I figured I'd get non-biased viewpoints here.

believe it or don't believe it, I really don't care.

Neither do I. I have work to do.

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Did you try eating cheese.

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:

You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:

You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:

What childrens story book did you fall out of :lol:

What childrens story book did you fall out of :lol:

:lol:

You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:

Thank you. I keep telling myself this, but it doesn't seem to help much right now. :huggy:

You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:


i understand where you are coming from and that is true...not being with him has opened up new doors and quite possibly there is you match out there...the only thing is don't go looking for him...he will come to you. but in the meantime..have you ever said " I don't need a man!" if you have you lied. Look at you now. Get up, get dressed, and do something you want to do..your kids need you too..reach deep down, the strength you need is there.
the tantrums and stuff are just you refusing the change this has brought about..let it in and smile.

Nacho,
I'm sorry you are going through this pain right now but it will pass! You have a great many friends to help you through this time, let them help you!

I :heart: Nacho!

:huggy:

i understand where you are coming from and that is true...not being with him has opened up new doors and quite possibly there is you match out there...the only thing is don't go looking for him...he will come to you. but in the meantime..have you ever said " I don't need a man!" if you have you lied. Look at you now. Get up, get dressed, and do something you want to do..your kids need you too..reach deep down, the strength you need is there.
the tantrums and stuff are just you refusing the change this has brought about..let it in and smile.

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either. :ohwell:

I want *me* back too.

Somebody help me!


Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie! :really:

Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie! :really:

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

:killingme

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either. :ohwell:

I want *me* back too.

Sorry kiddo. That really sucks.:smoochy: Please let your friends help as much as they can.:peace:

Nacho,
I'm sorry you are going through this pain right now but it will pass! You have a great many friends to help you through this time, let them help you!

I :heart: Nacho!

:huggy:

:love: Give that big guy a huge old hug for me. Don't ever let him go. :huggy:

Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie! :really:

:eyebrow: First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again? :nono:

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

:roflmao:

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

I dunno...a rebound boy toy might not be a bad idea. Besides, you know Beta would appreciate her.

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

:killingme

:eyebrow: First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again? :nono:


:yikes:

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either. :ohwell:

I want *me* back too.

Are you serious about drinking a lot? I have a new bottle of Absolute. :cheesy: :alkies:

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either. :ohwell:

I want *me* back too.


you need "you" back before you can deal with any of this. I have a suggestion though. Think and really remember, evaluate the situation.
What was it about him that really annoyed you? was he never around..did he not notice your hair if you got it done? was he messy? tis the time to get angry at him for taking the time of your life that he did...this may help get you out of the funk..and into the swing again..get mad

:love: Give that big guy a huge old hug for me. Don't ever let him go. :huggy:



:yay: He's the bestest!

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:
:smack: Don't make me beat you so hard with my stick that you think it's last week. :mad:

:eyebrow: First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again? :nono:

I was just offering to help you because you were so upset and thinking about checking into a clinic. Should I not have offered? :frown:

I dunno...a rebound boy toy might not be a bad idea. Besides, you know Beta would appreciate her.
:diva:

I dunno...a rebound boy toy might not be a bad idea. Besides, you know Beta would appreciate her.

I think she would make him cry :lol:

:yay: He's the bestest!

I bet he needs 2 gallons of water by his bedside with you around :hot:

Are you serious about drinking a lot? I have a new bottle of Absolute. :cheesy: :alkies:

This is how bad it is. I walked out of the liquor store the other day with a bottle of hypnotiq, a bottle of Hennessey and a bottle of MD2020. :faint:

you need "you" back before you can deal with any of this. I have a suggestion though. Think and really remember, evaluate the situation.
What was it about him that really annoyed you? was he never around..did he not notice your hair if you got it done? was he messy? tis the time to get angry at him for taking the time of your life that he did...this may help get you out of the funk..and into the swing again..get mad

I am mad. That's when the temper tantrums started. It's not pretty. It's not me. I don't like it.

:smack: Don't make me beat you so hard with my stick that you think it's last week. :mad:




Beat me big boy :blushing:

Are you serious about drinking a lot? I have a new bottle of Absolute. :cheesy: :alkies:

:smile: Be a good friend to nacho. If you're going to get her drunk make sure you hide her phone - no drunk dialing for her!

Nacho, sorry you're heartbroken. It really sucks to feel that way, I think most of us have been there. :huggy: After I ended a long relationship, I went on a nice vacation with my friends and had a great time. It felt good just to get away for a little while. I know that's probably harder to do when you have kids but it's something to think about. Take some time for yourself and do something you've always wanted to do. Force yourself to get outta the house, sitting there thinking about this will just drive you crazy.

Dear Nacho,

I say go have your fake nervous breakdown and stop polluting the forums with being as asswipe.

Yours truly,
Dr. Dye

P.S. please hurry

I think she would make him cry :lol:
:nono:

This is how bad it is. I walked out of the liquor store the other day with a bottle of hypnotiq, a bottle of Hennessey and a bottle of MD2020. :faint:
Ooo mix the Hyp and Hen together! I love the incredible hulk!

Beat me big boy :blushing:
:really: wait I'm supposed to be cheering nacho up. Back away! (til later)

Dear Nacho,

I say go have your fake nervous breakdown and stop polluting the forums with being as asswipe.

Yours truly,
Dr. Dye

P.S. please hurry

She's genuinely upset and hurt! We are trying to lighten the mood to cheer her up and make her laugh since she's having a bad day.

Ooo mix the Hyp and Hen together! I love the incredible hulk!

No...really? :lol:

Nacho :huggy: I think it is a huge step putting this out in the open like this.... I really have no advice although I am no stranger to a real life nervous break-down, even had a lot of my hair fall out and severe acne, nothing like projecting how you’re feeling to the outside.

It seems you have a strong friend base – so let them help you “walk it off” so to speak!

Nacho :huggy: I think it is a huge step putting this out in the open like this.... I really have no advice although I am no stranger to a real life nervous break-down, even had a lot of my hair fall out and severe acne, nothing like projecting how you’re feeling to the outside.

It seems you have a strong friend base – so let them help you “walk it off” so to speak!

That was the same advice I gave her after she had sex with Juggy and she called me crying from the Hospital.

I bet he needs 2 gallons of water by his bedside with you around :hot:

:love:

This is how bad it is. I walked out of the liquor store the other day with a bottle of hypnotiq, a bottle of Hennessey and a bottle of MD2020. :faint:
Is you still white?

That was the same advice I gave her after she had sex with Juggy and she called me crying from the Hospital.

That wasn't me. That was nitwhit.

Is you still white?

I was green after I drank all that. :barf:

I was green after I drank all that. :barf:

I bet. Hypnotiq smells like sweaty socks. :barf:

I bet. Hypnotiq smells like sweaty socks. :barf:

Mix it with Hen. Shiat turns a glowing green.

No...really? :lol:

yes! :flexesliketheincrediblehulk:

you just dont know :wink:

This is how bad it is. I walked out of the liquor store the other day with a bottle of hypnotiq, a bottle of Hennessey and a bottle of MD2020. :faint:



I am mad. That's when the temper tantrums started. It's not pretty. It's not me. I don't like it.

Okay, forget the liquor. It doesn't do anything but make you more depressed and if you see someone who gives you a treatment plan you can't drink with it anyway! Paint a room - change furniture around - anything that will make at least one thing in your life new and different in a positive way. Instead of throwing a temper tantrum clean out a closet etc. You can do this! I'll even help you paint if you want!

Thank you. I keep telling myself this, but it doesn't seem to help much right now. :huggy:

:huggy:

You should just become a lesbian.

:huggy:

You should just become a lesbian.

:huggy: Wanna be my girlfriend?

:huggy:

You should just become a lesbian.

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com :yay:

:huggy: Wanna be my girlfriend?

K.:love:

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com :yay:

Hey Dye, you're being a douchebag again, settle down.

TIA,
SMDAVIS

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com :yay:

Aren't you just a sweetheart today :love:

This is how bad it is. I walked out of the liquor store the other day with a bottle of hypnotiq, a bottle of Hennessey and a bottle of MD2020. :faint:

I am mad. That's when the temper tantrums started. It's not pretty. It's not me. I don't like it.

Drinking isn't the way to get over it. Time will heal all wounds. In the mean time go see a Dr. for depression.

Is you still white?

no, she's depressed. I think she should quit her job, collect disability and stay at home and nurse herself back to health.

Drinking isn't the way to get over it. Time will heal all wounds. In the mean time go see a Dr. for depression.

Dr. Phil is rubbing off on you, isn't he?????

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com :yay:

I could be wrong, but I don't think this will make her feel better.

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Dear Nacho,

I say go have your fake nervous breakdown and stop polluting the forums with being as asswipe.

Yours truly,
Dr. Dye

P.S. please hurry

Dear Dye,

This is a great opportunity for Toppick to hook up. The release of a lifetime of pent up frustration is likely to kill him.

Don't ruin a good thing.

Atoppickally yours,

Me

Make sure you get him before he gets you, he's been holding it

omg!!!! lmao

Next time I see War I am kicking him in the balls

maybe starting an " I hate Warnutz" group would make her feel better?

Thank you. I keep telling myself this, but it doesn't seem to help much right now.

awwww come to me sugar :banana:

Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie! :really:

yeh but then....

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

crap you beat me to it!

:smack: Don't make me beat you so hard with my stick that you think it's last week. :mad:

dont worry mojo i can only imagine the only pain coming from that is similiar to when u have one of those damn annoying nats that keeps bumping into your face ;oP

:huggy:

You should just become a lesbian.

:yeahthat:

no, she's depressed. I think she should quit her job, collect disability and stay at home and nurse herself back to health.


:yeahthat: good advice!!!! :clap:

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Dear Dye,

This is a great opportunity for Toppick to hook up. The release of a lifetime of pent up frustration is likely to kill him.

Don't ruin a good thing.

Atoppickally yours,

Me

:lmao:

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

I repeat

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

I repeat

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

Then you haven't completely broken down yet, you'll be just fine!

dont worry mojo i can only imagine the only pain coming from that is similiar to when u have one of those damn annoying nats that keeps bumping into your face ;oP



:lmao:

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month. :cds:

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:
I think you need somebunny to sing to you!

Don't you want me, Baybay?? Don't you want me, OHHHH ohohoh!

:banana:

A9ol1qLyYwE

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

I repeat

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICKNever say never. You could change your mind, you know. :roflmao:

Never say never. You could change your mind, you know. :roflmao:

I could jump off the bridge too. :ohwell:

Hey Nacho - Sorry to hear this....I was once told after a devastating breakup that it wasn't the end of the world even though I thought it was just that. It literally feels like your heart is broken in two pieces, hard to take a breath, hard to not cry at the least little thing or memory. You are in the grieving process. Let it happen. It sux like hell for a while, but you will come to realize that you are a very strong person. You will always have the memories and lessons that this relationship has taught you through the years. It may seem difficult to even take a breath right now, but trust me it will get easier. Who knows what tomorrow brings? Enjoy today and be thankful for your blessings. One day at a time..... :huggy::huggy:

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com :yay:

Dye baby,
Just cause you can jump off a bridge and survive cause them gigantic tits of yours breaks your fall, them keeps you a float till help comes does not mean that everyone else can jump off the bridge. So maybe you should think of something a little nicer to say

JD

Hey Nacho - Sorry to hear this....I was once told after a devastating breakup that it wasn't the end of the world even though I thought it was just that. It literally feels like your heart is broken in two pieces, hard to take a breath, hard to not cry at the least little thing or memory. You are in the grieving process. Let it happen. It sux like hell for a while, but you will come to realize that you are a very strong person. You will always have the memories and lessons that this relationship has taught you through the years. It may seem difficult to even take a breath right now, but trust me it will get easier. Who knows what tomorrow brings? Enjoy today and be thankful for your blessings. One day at a time..... :huggy::huggy:

Thanks love. :huggy:

Dye baby,
Just cause you can jump off a bridge and survive cause them gigantic tits of yours breaks your fall, them keeps you a float till help comes does not mean that everyone else can jump off the bridge. So maybe you should think of something a little nicer to say

JD

I :heart: you, JD.

I know this post is gonna sound cold stone hard but it does work.

Love is a chemical reaction in the body between two people. Really it has been proven. When you break up with someone you actually go through a physical withdrawal. Your body does hurt, your stomach does tie up in knots, your nerves are shot and your emotions are crazy. If you can keep this thought in your head and remember that you have to go through this and know that it WILL PASS. In the meantime you have to get up and move, I know it feels like a million ton rock is on your shoulders but you have to go on. Take about a week to feel sorry for yourself and cry, cry cry. Get it out and over with and then GET MOVING AGAIN............

And when that urge comes upon you to call or see him........DON'T DO IT. This will just start the process all over again and make you more miserable.

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I know this post is gonna sound cold stone hard but it does work.

Love is a chemical reaction in the body between two people. Really it has been proven. When you break up with someone you actually go through a physical withdrawal. Your body does hurt, your stomach does tie up in knots, your nerves are shot and your emotions are crazy. If you can keep this thought in your head and remember that you have to go through this and know that it WILL PASS. In the meantime you have to get up and move, I know it feels like a million ton rock is on your shoulders but you have to go on. Take about a week to feel sorry for yourself and cry, cry cry. Get it out and over with and then GET MOVING AGAIN............

And when that urge comes upon you to call or see him........DON'T DO IT. This will just start the process all over again and make you more miserable.

You're ruthless!

I know this post is gonna sound cold stone hard but it does work.

Love is a chemical reaction in the body between two people. Really it has been proven. When you break up with someone you actually go through a physical withdrawal. Your body does hurt, your stomach does tie up in knots, your nerves are shot and your emotions are crazy. If you can keep this thought in your head and remember that you have to go through this and know that it WILL PASS. In the meantime you have to get up and move, I know it feels like a million ton rock is on your shoulders but you have to go on. Take about a week to feel sorry for yourself and cry, cry cry. Get it out and over with and then GET MOVING AGAIN............

And when that urge comes upon you to call or see him........DON'T DO IT. This will just start the process all over again and make you more miserable.

Makes complete sense. :yay:

Thanks again for all of the positive words of encouragement and the pm's. All advice will definitely be heeded. :huggy:

Look at the bright side, FOOTBALL SEASON is only a couple of months away. I'll take you to a Steelers game this year.

Look at the bright side, FOOTBALL SEASON is only a couple of months away. I'll take you to a Steelers game this year.

jesus man! We're trying to cheer up, not push her off the bridge ourselves. Steelers? STFU! :smack:

jesus man! We're trying to cheer up, not push her off the bridge ourselves. Steelers? STFU! :smack:

:nono: While the Cowboys are my favorite team, the Steelers are my 2nd fave. :biggrin:

Look at the bright side, FOOTBALL SEASON is only a couple of months away. I'll take you to a Steelers game this year.

sniff, sniff, I was feeling a little sad myself today.... :howdy:

:nono: While the Cowboys are my favorite team, the Steelers are my 2nd fave. :biggrin:

How can that be? As many times as the Steelers took the Super Bowl away from the Cowboys in the seventies....I am die hard Cowboys, so therefore hate the Steelers! Although, the Cowboys had redemption in '96 and beat them.

sniff, sniff, I was feeling a little sad myself today.... :howdy:

:killingme

Dye baby,
Just cause you can jump off a bridge and survive cause them gigantic tits of yours breaks your fall, them keeps you a float till help comes does not mean that everyone else can jump off the bridge. So maybe you should think of something a little nicer to say

JD

I went to lunch with high hopes but I still she's still at it. So J, what broke them up? Nacho's slutpuppy antics on the forums or he got some sense?:popcorn:

Hey Dye, you're being a douchebag again, settle down.

TIA,
SMDAVIS

Hey smdavis :biteme: This thread is total b.s.

I went to lunch with high hopes but I still she's still at it. So J, what broke them up? Nacho's slutpuppy antics on the forums or he got some sense?:popcorn:

Oh stop, I still remember how upset you were when you broke up with Penn :rolleyes:

Nacho Baby,
Go to MIR. Find Bunny's trailer. Pay $10 and buy yourself a pair of Bunny and Boys thongs. That'll brighten your spirits.
:yahoo:,
Socki

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Dear Dye,

This is a great opportunity for Toppick to hook up. The release of a lifetime of pent up frustration is likely to kill him.

Don't ruin a good thing.

Atoppickally yours,

Me

Let's not put Andy out of the running just yet. I'm sure he'll take sloppy seconds :yay:

Let's not put Andy out of the running just yet. I'm sure he'll take sloppy seconds :yay:

Nope.....He likes boys.....ask Beta!

Hey smdavis :biteme: This thread is total b.s.

The why don't you GTFO, seriously! If you think it is BS then why are you in it?

The why don't you GTFO, seriously! If you think it is BS then why are you in it?

Because I can. :neener:

Because I can. :neener:

bitter

Because I can. :neener:

I was about to say that. :mad: :lol:

:yay:

Hey smdavis :biteme: This thread is total b.s.

Hey Dye!

I don't think it is.

En garde!!!

:duel:

SMDAVIS65

bitter

nope, truthful. Hang around here more and get back to me on that :yay:

I was about to say that. :mad: :lol:

I love threads where people tell someone to scram. As if :drama:

:SCRAM:


Is that like :SLAM:!

I love threads where people tell someone to scram. As if :drama:
:roflmao: You even talk like you're old. :roflmao:


Kidding. :lol:

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month. :cds:

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:

:huggy: I'll buy you a drink Friday Night if you're not working. :buddies:

The why don't you GTFO, seriously! If you think it is BS then why are you in it?

She'd rather just come in with her holier-than-thou attitude and be a complete ##### and make someone else's already bad day even worse.

:huggy: I'll buy you a drink Friday Night if you're not working. :buddies:


:killingme .....she wants to feel better, you big dummy! :smack:

:killingme .....she wants to feel better, you big dummy! :smack:

:lmao:

:killingme .....she wants to feel better, you big dummy! :smack:

:lol: He's only interested in making himself feel better.

It's been one hour since her last post, you don't think she drove up to the bridge do you. :cds:

:lol: He's only interested in making himself feel better.

He will buy the drink then biatch about the price!!!

:roflmao: You even talk like you're old. :roflmao:


Kidding. :lol:

I just sounded like James Cagney :yikes:

Anyway...faking a nervous breakdown IS the latest trend and art project


http://nz.lifestyle.yahoo.com/b/famous/18881/joaquin-s-fake-nervous-breakdown/

It's been one hour since her last post, you don't think she drove up to the bridge do you. :cds:

Way to go Dye!!!!

He will buy the drink then biatch about the price!!!

Are you going to buy me a drink tonight? :howdy:

:huggy:

You should just become a lesbian.
:cds:

You are banned from giving advice! :mad:

Nope.....He likes boys.....ask Beta!
Just cuz you've had a round with him doesn't mean I have. I know you wish I was gay but it's not happening. :huggy:

I know you wish I was gay but it's not happening. :huggy:

But.......:cds: .........PLEASE!!!!!

But.......:cds: .........PLEASE!!!!!

C'mon Francis... You know Beta can't be gay, he's struck out with every available forum chick. :whistle:

Now Z06, that dude is a flamer.

jesus man! We're trying to cheer up, not push her off the bridge ourselves. Steelers? STFU! :smack:No, you STFU:smack:

:nono: While the Cowboys are my favorite team, the Steelers are my 2nd fave. :biggrin::huggy: Can I have my terrible towel back now?

sniff, sniff, I was feeling a little sad myself today.... :howdy:You can come with us too!

How can that be? As many times as the Steelers took the Super Bowl away from the Cowboys in the seventies....I am die hard Cowboys, so therefore hate the Steelers! Although, the Cowboys had redemption in '96 and beat them.And that was only because Jerry Jones got to Neil O'Donnell before the game and paid him off to lose the game.:whistle:

C'mon Francis... You know Beta can't be gay, he's struck out with every available forum chick. :whistle:

:lol: hold on now, I'm batting over .500 with forum chicks I've seriously hit on! :biggrin:

but i didn't hit on them because of the forums...well other than gg! strike 17, I think I'm out! :bawl:

:lol: hold on now, I'm batting over .500 with forum chicks I've seriously hit on! :biggrin:

Dude, you are definitely the male version of Kris!!!! Something to be proud of!! :yay:

Dude, you are definitely the male version of Kris!!!! Something to be proud of!! :yay:

:rolleyes:

I've never turned a chick into a lesbian...at least I'm pretty sure!

:lol: hold on now, I'm batting over .500 with forum chicks I've seriously hit on! :biggrin:

but i didn't hit on them because of the forums...well other than gg! strike 17, I think I'm out! :bawl:

OK, if you're batting over .500, you've "seriously" hit on more than 2 forum chicks. I have your record at 0-1. What am I missing? (the forum chick in upstate New York during camp doesn't count.)

:rolleyes:

I've never turned a chick into a lesbian...at least I'm pretty sure!
:ohwell:

OK, if you're batting over .500, you've "seriously" hit on more than 2 forum chicks. I have your record at 0-1. What am I missing? (the forum chick in upstate New York during camp doesn't count.)

that's an incomplete count!

OK, if you're batting over .500, you've "seriously" hit on more than 2 forum chicks. I have your record at 0-1. What am I missing? (the forum chick in upstate New York during camp doesn't count.)

Ha! Yeah she is from the Niagra Falls area, you wouldn't know her! :killingme ::classic::

:ohwell:

don't tell them about that! I'm pretty sure she was already a lesbian :whistle:

don't tell them about that! I'm pretty sure she was already a lesbian :whistle:

kris?

Ha! Yeah she is from the Niagra Falls area, you wouldn't know her! :killingme ::classic::

:killingme Damn, what movie was that from?!?!?

:killingme Damn, what movie was that from?!?!?

Breakfast Club

that's an incomplete count!

Then complete it! :lmao:

[QUOTE=rich70;3824528]No, you STFU:smack:

:huggy: Can I have my terrible towel back now?

You can come with us too!

:cds: OMG! YOU GAVE A TERRIBLE TOWEL TO A DALLAS FAN?????!!!!

sorry pal, no sammich for YOU!:nono:

Breakfast Club

You know what's funny? Back in the day, before that movie came out, and I was still a virgin, I used to tell people I "banged a chick who lived in upstate NY last summer". :killingme

You know what's funny? Back in the day, before that movie came out, and I was still a virgin, I used to tell people I "banged a chick who lived in upstate NY last summer". :killingme

Funny thing is, I really did! and no one believes me!! :dye:

I just sounded like James Cagney :yikes:

Anyway...faking a nervous breakdown IS the latest trend and art project


http://nz.lifestyle.yahoo.com/b/famous/18881/joaquin-s-fake-nervous-breakdown/

OMFG, what is up with that beast growing on his face? I used to love him. :faint:

Breakfast Club

How could I forget a classic like that:doh:

[QUOTE=rich70;3824528]No, you STFU:smack:

:huggy: Can I have my terrible towel back now?

You can come with us too!

:cds: OMG! YOU GAVE A TERRIBLE TOWEL TO A DALLAS FAN?????!!!!

sorry pal, no sammich for YOU!:nono:
I didn't give it to her. She beat me up and took it.

[QUOTE=steeler_chick;3824565]
I didn't give it to her. She beat me up and took it.


ahhhhh, now it makes sense... you're back on the sammich list:dye:

[QUOTE=rich70;3824593]


ahhhhh, now it makes sense... you're back on the sammich list:dye:

:yahoo:

First Jon and Kate and now this :bawl:

Real life karma?

Apparently, it was too long. :ohwell:

that's what she said :softball:

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You're ruthless!

:evil:

Real life karma?

Who's MPD is this?

Funny thing is, I really did! and no one believes me!! :dye:

Liar.

Makes complete sense. :yay:

Thanks again for all of the positive words of encouragement and the pm's. All advice will definitely be heeded. :huggy:

Since she already posted in here, and called and said it was OK to offer.

WE have a king size bed, and there's always room for one more..


Just trying to help you understand.. that's the kind of people we is!!

Hang in there it will get better, but remember there is always someone else when the heart heals:buddies:

The why don't you GTFO, seriously! If you think it is BS then why are you in it?


At first I just thought you were just fat. Now I can see you're a fat b!tch.

Who's MPD is this?

Yours big boy.

Dear Nacho,

I say go have your fake nervous breakdown and stop polluting the forums with being as asswipe.

Yours truly,
Dr. Dye

P.S. please hurry

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com :yay:

Real life karma?

At first I just thought you were just fat. Now I can see you're a fat b!tch.

Once again these forums make Southern Maryland look like America's sh*thole.

Way to go :clap:

Once again these forums make Southern Maryland look like America's sh*thole.

Way to go :clap:

Don't forget to add your comment too :yay:

Don't forget to add your comment too :yay:

In a surprise move Dems Off the top rope plants a boot up side Andi's gourd.

Since she already posted in here, and called and said it was OK to offer.

WE have a king size bed, and there's always room for one more..


Just trying to help you understand.. that's the kind of people we is!!

You, Bob, are awesome! :love: But where would you sleep? :confused:

You, Bob, are awesome! :love: But where would you sleep? :confused:

:killingme

You, Bob, are awesome! :love: But where would you sleep? :confused:

Sleep? Who's going to sleep??:yahoo:

Don't forget to add your comment too :yay:

In a surprise move Dems Off the top rope plants a boot up side Andi's gourd.

I've refrained from comment but this made me giggle.

I've turned gay.....and loving it...:coffee:

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month. :cds:

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:
:huggy:
Sorry to hear this happen to you.Please try and stop the drinking it will make you feel worse.I have seen someone turn to drink after a divorce and they aged about 20 years in a year and became very mean and bitter. I know it will be hard but try and channel your sadness and anger in something else.
Hope I do not sound patronising.
Things will feel better but I know saying that now to you sounds crappy .
Take care

At first I just thought you were just fat. Now I can see you're a fat b!tch.

:shutup:

:shutup:

:cds:

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.


As a fellow Red B Sox fan, I know you can handle this. Please do stop by a hospital ER or stay with a close friend or relative if you can't shake it.

Don't hang around the "Politics" Forum - there is no happiness there...

I have found the best way to deal with stress is a nice long walk or a good workout. It is how I unwind from a long day at the office - which might not be like ending a relationship, but it surely is depressing...

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You, Bob, are awesome! :love: But where would you sleep? :confused:

Sleep? Who's going to sleep??:yahoo:

Bob. That's what you get for marrying an old dude.

How can that be? As many times as the Steelers took the Super Bowl away from the Cowboys in the seventies....I am die hard Cowboys, so therefore hate the Steelers! Although, the Cowboys had redemption in '96 and beat them.

And just when I was beginning to think you were a smart man!!!!
Cowboys SUCK!!!!!

you need "you" back before you can deal with any of this. I have a suggestion though. Think and really remember, evaluate the situation.
What was it about him that really annoyed you? was he never around..did he not notice your hair if you got it done? was he messy? tis the time to get angry at him for taking the time of your life that he did...this may help get you out of the funk..and into the swing again..get mad

"Depression is anger with out enthusiasm".

I'm right there with you nacho. The love of my life left me for someone else a month before we were to be married. 2 months later and I'm still very much lost. But I'm slowly moving on with my life. I'm starting to find out from the bar scene that most of the people out and about are only there because they have found themselves alone and are looking for someone. Most of them really don't want to be there but what are you supposed to do. Hang in there hon. It does get easier.

I'm right there with you nacho. The love of my life left me for someone else a month before we were to be married. 2 months later and I'm still very much lost. But I'm slowly moving on with my life. I'm starting to find out from the bar scene that most of the people out and about are only there because they have found themselves alone and are looking for someone. Most of them really don't want to be there but what are you supposed to do. Hang in there hon. It does get easier.

:huggy:

I'm right there with you nacho. The love of my life left me for someone else a month before we were to be married. 2 months later and I'm still very much lost. But I'm slowly moving on with my life. I'm starting to find out from the bar scene that most of the people out and about are only there because they have found themselves alone and are looking for someone. Most of them really don't want to be there but what are you supposed to do. Hang in there hon. It does get easier.

:huggy: That really sucks but thank God this happened BEFORE the wedding. Just think of how much worse it could have been. I'm glad you're starting to find that time does make things a little easier.

It was the first time in my life that I truly loved another and was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. All was going great until a month before she told me she found another and was leaving. Literally, it all fell apart after I put the ring on her finger.

I could tell something was on her mind and when I asked what was going on she would say "nothing. everything's fine." well, the guilt finally got the best of her and she told me what happened. And just like that she was gone.

In the 5 1/2 yrs we spent together, we maybe had 3 arguments. Otherwise, everything was great. Not just good but great. Love attention romance open communication. Then I asked her to marry me and it went straight to ****

I could tell something was on her mind and when I asked what was going on she would say "nothing. everything's fine." well, the guilt finally got the best of her and she told me what happened. And just like that she was gone.

That stinks, but better now than later.

Yeah. I'm going through the motions, I put on a fake smile, I'm the happy go lucky guy I've always been, but when the day is over and I'm in that empty house....but every day gets a little better.

You people can't be serious?

So to you Nachomamma, I say go out this weekend, let people know what's going on, and you'll be surprised at how much love & support you'll get from all. And you'll be surprised at how many of us are going through it this year. And right now, you'll get shoulders to cry on and hear others experiences and feelings about our losses. But if you think you're gonna get a lot of offers for one night stands, everyone knows your not ready for that yet.

very much serious catt.

You people can't be serious?
:bigwhoop:
John is that you?

Dude, you are definitely the male version of Kris!!!! Something to be proud of!! :yay:

:rolleyes:

I've never turned a chick into a lesbian...at least I'm pretty sure!

don't tell them about that! I'm pretty sure she was already a lesbian :whistle:

kris?

Look you two yahoos... cut the crap. Seriously. It's only funny when it's in a thread I'm guarenteed to read, and I find it highly disturbing that you both find so much time to banter about me in various threads, only to have me discover it days later. Why don't you two just go become butt buddies or something? Ugh. This thread isn't even about me, so quit trying to bring me in to it.

So to you Nachomamma, I say go out this weekend, let people know what's going on, and you'll be surprised at how much love & support you'll get from all. And you'll be surprised at how many of us are going through it this year. And right now, you'll get shoulders to cry on and hear others experiences and feelings about our losses. But if you think you're gonna get a lot of offers for one night stands, everyone knows your not ready for that yet.

Then she'd become THAT GIRL... the one in the bar... who's drinking or drunk... who tells her sob story and has other girls going "That guy's such an #######!" but secretly they're judging her for being so down in the dumps and being THAT GIRL. I can only assume by your post that you're a guy, and there's a double standard there... because women are natually nuturing kind of people and when they see someone sad and upset, they naturally want to take care of them... so with you being a guy, who's been wronged by a girl, when you seemingly did nothing wrong... that's a big case for a woman to come in and give you the "Oh my god, that's so sad, here let me kiss the boo boo better" treatment. A girl walks in to a bar and does that, the guys in the bar stay FAR FAR away... because that chick's just become the crazy psycho chick who just can't seem to get over her ex, and they want no part of it.

Nacho, you know you've got tons of friends willing to lend an ear, a hand, a shoulder, or even help you lift a glass to get that last drop of liquor. Time heals all wounds, eventually.

:blahblah:
why don't you dig up more threads and cry about it some more :geek:

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month. :cds:

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:



I am so sorrry. But i kno the pain that you are going thru.. I am only 22 and i have been experiencing this heartache for much longer than i should. It has not been easy.. I know that this is different... I allowed myself to constantly fall back under him over and over. But there does come a time where you will look back and think.. he was an ass.. and did not deserve me. I just again fell for it again and am left shattered while he is out with some new chick..

I have thought NUMEROUS times about going to a shrink and talking to someone about this. It does hurt more than ever, but sometimes, all it takes is for realllyyy goood friends that you can sit down and talk too. ALot of my friends got sick of me always talking to them about it, but the ones that are always by my side always listened and gave there advice.

Weeks from now, you will look back and be ok! I promise. If you need anything just PM me.. because i am feeeeling this crazyyy rage of emotions myself. Take care!!

Yeah. I'm going through the motions, I put on a fake smile, I'm the happy go lucky guy I've always been, but when the day is over and I'm in that empty house....but every day gets a little better.

i do it every single day of my life and it does not feel like it gets better every day. Having that one love rip to to shreads is a feeling i wish to never have again... But as i have heard.. "time heals everything...."

saw this thread bumped and was hoping that you are doing a little better, nacho.

I think most people have been in this position at some point and time does heal a bit - don't worry, you'll find someone soon who will make you thank your lucky stars that it didn't work out this time. :buddies:

It may really hurt bad now girlygirl, but better to clear the air now, then to have other issues that would be around for a lifetime.

...

Before he deletes his post.