Ugh Ive been gaining wait, am super nauseated, and i havent had "my friend" visit me in months. My fiance is fixed but thats never 100% I think I'll go get a test tonight. Just wondering if anyone knows anyone that has gotten pregnant before when their bf/hubby has been fixed.

:jameo: :jameo: :jameo: :jameo:

Just wondering if anyone knows anyone that has gotten pregnant before when their bf/hubby has been fixed.
Yes. But the baby wasn't his.

:popcorn:

Yes. But the baby wasn't his.

:roflmao: I'm so glad I decided to wake up today!

Yes. But the baby wasn't his.
double :jameo: :jameo: :jameo: :jameo:

Yes. But the baby wasn't his.

:jet:

Yes. But the baby wasn't his.

:lol:

Yes. But the baby wasn't his.

:killingme :killingme

Ugh Ive been gaining wait, am super nauseated, and i havent had "my friend" visit me in months. My fiance is fixed but thats never 100% I think I'll go get a test tonight. Just wondering if anyone knows anyone that has gotten pregnant before when their bf/hubby has been fixed.

Aww, you might waddle down the aisle :giggle:

well it couldnt be anybody elses :shrug:

im not even sure if i am yet. just kinda wondering what would be the chances :shrug:

i heard its harder to get pregnant even after the guy is unfixed. wanted to hear other peoples experiences.

grandma's,,, so bitter... :bigwhoop:

grandma's,,, so bitter... :bigwhoop:

Actually, I think it's sad.

:roflmao: I'm so glad I decided to wake up today!

:smack:

Aww, you might waddle down the aisle :giggle:

:bawl: i didnt even think about that!

Ugh Ive been gaining wait, am super nauseated, and i havent had "my friend" visit me in months. My fiance is fixed but thats never 100% I think I'll go get a test tonight. Just wondering if anyone knows anyone that has gotten pregnant before when their bf/hubby has been fixed.

Yes, but each time it was when the man didn't go back in for the recommended follow-up semen analysis.

Ugh Ive been gaining wait, am super nauseated, and i havent had "my friend" visit me in months. My fiance is fixed but thats never 100% I think I'll go get a test tonight. Just wondering if anyone knows anyone that has gotten pregnant before when their bf/hubby has been fixed.

Sorry.. :whistle:

Ugh Ive been gaining wait, am super nauseated, and i havent had "my friend" visit me in months. My fiance is fixed but thats never 100% I think I'll go get a test tonight. Just wondering if anyone knows anyone that has gotten pregnant before when their bf/hubby has been fixed.
I know somebody that has 4 kids. All 4 are bio to the couple.
1 while using a diaphram
1 while useing a condom
1 while on the pill
1 after he was fixed
She then had her parts snipped.

Yes, but each time it was when the man didn't go back in for the recommended follow-up semen analysis.
so as long as he went back for that and it came out ok, i should def be fine? i mean i went from a size zero to a size 3 in just a month or two!

well it couldnt be anybody elses :shrug:

im not even sure if i am yet. just kinda wondering what would be the chances :shrug:

i heard its harder to get pregnant even after the guy is unfixed. wanted to hear other peoples experiences.

If you're being for real I think you should go take a test, I dunno...say NOW, and/or schedule an appointment with your gyn :yay:

Also, peeps are going to seriously blast you for putting your business out there...I know how much you care so I thought I should warn you :lol:

so as long as he went back for that and it came out ok, i should def be fine? i mean i went from a size zero to a size 3 in just a month or two!

- Exclusively maternity wedding dresses and maternity formal. The home of Maternity Bride by Jessica Iverson. (http://www.maternitybride.com) :huggy:

Sorry.. :whistle:

:killingme u bastage! :smack:

I know somebody that has 4 kids. All 4 are bio to the couple.
1 while using a diaphram
1 while useing a condom
1 while on the pill
1 after he was fixed
She then had her parts snipped.

did he go in for the follow up???

so as long as he went back for that and it came out ok, i should def be fine? i mean i went from a size zero to a size 3 in just a month or two!

Maybe your just getting fat. :shrug:

Maybe your just getting fat. :shrug:
you are or you're! big dummy! :lol: oh no! fat! :jameo: what abotu the missed periods? mood swings? nausea? ugh this sucks

so as long as he went back for that and it came out ok, i should def be fine? i mean i went from a size zero to a size 3 in just a month or two!
:whistle:
you are or you're! big dummy! :lol: oh no! fat! :jameo: what abotu the missed periods? mood swings? nausea? ugh this sucks
and being tired. :buddies:

:bawl: i didnt even think about that!

Uhh, you didn't?

so as long as he went back for that and it came out ok, i should def be fine? i mean i went from a size zero to a size 3 in just a month or two!

Honestly, people do tend to gain weight when they become more comfortable with each other...you guys are cooking more and probably going out to eat more just for something to do. Although, this wouldn't explain you missing your period...you just need to take a test.

so as long as he went back for that and it came out ok, i should def be fine? i mean i went from a size zero to a size 3 in just a month or two!


Are you eating more than normal or drinking high sugar beverages? that could be the weight and stress of planning a wedding could make your once a month friend dissapear for a lil while!!

:whistle:

and being tired. :buddies:

You must be so excited! :baby:

you are or you're! big dummy! :lol: oh no! fat! :jameo: what abotu the missed periods? mood swings? nausea? ugh this sucks

You sound like me right now and I'm about 10 week preggo. LOL! Look out for the new Mama! :dye:

you are or you're! big dummy! :lol: oh no! fat! :jameo: what abotu the missed periods? mood swings? nausea? ugh this sucks


did you quit taking the hormones the dr prescribed you after your operation

:whistle: and being tired. :buddies:

This is a case for House.

This is a case for House.
House kicks arse!

:whistle:

and being tired. :buddies:

i must be tired from driving too much :frown:

Uhh, you didn't?



Honestly, people do tend to gain weight when they become more comfortable with each other...you guys are cooking more and probably going out to eat more just for something to do. Although, this wouldn't explain you missing your period...you just need to take a test.

im eating the same, maybe a little more, and mainly drinknig water now, no alcohol just in case, i miss my alcohol :bawl:

Are you eating more than normal or drinking high sugar beverages? that could be the weight and stress of planning a wedding could make your once a month friend dissapear for a lil while!!

but if im puking alot why am i still getting fat? :cds:

You must be so excited! :baby:

:smack: not funny! my wedding gown is gorgeous!!!!

You sound like me right now and I'm about 10 week preggo. LOL! Look out for the new Mama! :dye:

:cds:

did you quit taking the hormones the dr prescribed you after your operation

:smack: check your pms! :smack:

[quote=kvj21075;3898648]but if im puking alot why am i still getting fat? :cds:

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stress can cause weight gain as well!!

This is a case for House.

:love:

:smakc: not funny! my wedding gown is gorgeous!!!!

I haven't gotten one yet- I mean, if you're not going to use yours...:whistle:

I haven't gotten one yet- I mean, if you're not going to use yours...:whistle:
:smack: :bawl: its gorgeous! did i send u pics of it?

:smack: :bawl: its gorgeous! did i send u pics of it?

Yeah but I don't really remember what it looks like, you can send 'em again though :biggrin:

Yeah but I don't really remember what it looks like, you can send 'em again though :biggrin:
u cant have it!!! u could borrow it but its not the mermaid style want :bawl:

u cant have it!!! u could borrow it but its not the mermaid style want :bawl:

OMG I was kidding :lol: I want my own dress but thank you...and you want your dress, you might be okay if it laces up the back (assuming you are preggers) :shrug:

:popcorn:

You may also want to have your thyroid checked. That would account for the weight gain and being tired and it will mess up your periods as well.

You may also want to have your thyroid checked. That would account for the weight gain and being tired and it will mess up your periods as well.
thankyou :yay:

You may also want to have your thyroid checked. That would account for the weight gain and being tired and it will mess up your periods as well.

Good advice and if nothing shows there, make sure they do a sonogram and consider a scrape for Endometriosis, you know, provided you are not pregnant.

I have a personal question for you and you can choose to answer it or not, but I am pretty blunt whether it be online or IRL, are you okay with the notion that you are marrying somebody who may never give you a child(ren) of your own?

When I was your age, I had a partial hysterectomy, so I figured Mother Nature was going to make sure my desire to not have children was fulfilled. Like I have said a few times on this board, I raised my two sisters and was fairly tied down young because of that. So, it was a shocker when several years later I ended up pregnant. Now, I cannot imagine life without my children and as I got in my later 20's, my attitude towards my earlier decision had changed drastically - so did my body size, bye-bye size 4. :whistle:

Good advice and if nothing shows there, make sure they do a sonogram and consider a scrape for Endometriosis, you know, provided you are not pregnant.

I have a personal question for you and you can choose to answer it or not, but I am pretty blunt whether it be online or IRL, are you okay with the notion that you are marrying somebody who may never give you a child(ren) of your own?

When I was your age, I had a partial hysterectomy, so I figured Mother Nature was going to make sure my desire to not have children was fulfilled. Like I have said a few times on this board, I raised my two sisters and was fairly tied down young because of that. So, it was a shocker when several years later I ended up pregnant. Now, I cannot imagine life without my children and as I got in my later 20's, my attitude towards my earlier decision had changed drastically - so did my body size, bye-bye size 4. :whistle:
we want to have a kid someday, just not right now. he can always get unfixed. its not a huge deal.

I had a partial hysterectomy,

What part? Hysterectomy any way you cut it is removal of the uterus.

Good advice and if nothing shows there, make sure they do a sonogram and consider a scrape for Endometriosis, you know, provided you are not pregnant.

I have a personal question for you and you can choose to answer it or not, but I am pretty blunt whether it be online or IRL, are you okay with the notion that you are marrying somebody who may never give you a child(ren) of your own?

When I was your age, I had a partial hysterectomy, so I figured Mother Nature was going to make sure my desire to not have children was fulfilled. Like I have said a few times on this board, I raised my two sisters and was fairly tied down young because of that. So, it was a shocker when several years later I ended up pregnant. Now, I cannot imagine life without my children and as I got in my later 20's, my attitude towards my earlier decision had changed drastically - so did my body size, bye-bye size 4. :whistle:

Now I have a personal question for you and you can choose to answer to not, but I'm a bit confused. Everyone I know that has ever had a "partial hysterectomy" has had their uterus removed and the ovaries left behind. How did you become pregnant without a uterus or did you have an ovary removed? If that is the case, it is not a partial hysterectomy.

Hysterectomy-Topic Overview (http://women.webmd.com/tc/hysterectomy-topic-overview)
A hysterectomy is surgery to take out a woman’s uterus, the organ in a woman's belly where a baby grows during pregnancy. After a hysterectomy, you will not be able to get pregnant.

thankyou :yay:

Will you name him/her "Black"......???

Oh and congratulations!!!

What part? Hysterectomy any way you cut it is removal of the uterus.

They removed an ovary, fallopian tube, part of my other ovary and part of my uterus. When I had my 2nd son, the area that was scar tissue tore and why I ended up at John Hopkins when I was 26 weeks along.

I was told after the surgery I may never have children or perhaps I could, there was just no research on success.

we want to have a kid someday, just not right now. he can always get unfixed. its not a huge deal.

You may want to do some investigating on this issue. It is a huge deal, and not nearly 100 % effective. It's much harder to do a reversal and the chances of success also depend on how long it's been since he had it done.

Will you name him/her "Black"......???
if its a boy we will name him "Blackie Frank Ford" nice ring ay?

You may want to do some investigating on this issue. It is a huge deal, and not nearly 100 % effective. It's much harder to do a reversal and the chances of success also depend on how long it's been since he had it done.
i think he got it done 5 years ago :confused: ford?

Now I have a personal question for you and you can choose to answer to not, but I'm a bit confused. Everyone I know that has ever had a "partial hysterectomy" has had their uterus removed and the ovaries left behind. How did you become pregnant without a uterus or did you have an ovary removed? If that is the case, it is not a partial hysterectomy.

Hysterectomy-Topic Overview (http://women.webmd.com/tc/hysterectomy-topic-overview)
A hysterectomy is surgery to take out a woman’s uterus, the organ in a woman's belly where a baby grows during pregnancy. After a hysterectomy, you will not be able to get pregnant.

:lol: Actually a partial hysterectomy takes the uterus and leaves the cervix. A total takes both. If you take all of that along with the ovaries, it's call total hysterecomy with oophorectomy..or something like that. I know...I had a total years ago...kept my ovaries.

if its a boy we will name him "Blackie Frank Ford" nice ring ay?

Wow!! I like that!! I would be honored!

You may want to do some investigating on this issue. It is a huge deal, and not nearly 100 % effective. It's much harder to do a reversal and the chances of success also depend on how long it's been since he had it done.
Her and I have talked about it A LOT.. We know what we are dealing with. :buddies:

Its not up to "us".. Anything can happen.

Hmmmm...instead of googling my symptoms or buying a 4$ pregnancy test at wally world. I shoud go on the forums and try to act stupid to start fake bickering. :yawn:

:blahblah:You didnt have to click the link to this thread :shrug:

Hmmmm...instead of googling my symptoms or buying a 4$ pregnancy test at wally world. I shoud go on the forums and try to act stupid to start fake bickering. :yawn:

Who the hell is bickering? Go away, thank you.

You didnt have to click the link to this thread :shrug:


If I hadn't of clicked it, I wouldn't have been able to come up with the great insight of how boring your lives must be :dur:

is this a mission ?????

Who the hell is bickering? Go away, thank you.


Wait for it....

Who the hell is bickering? Go away, thank you.
nomoney is duuurrrrr
If I hadn't of clicked it, I wouldn't have been able to come up with the great insight of how boring your lives must be :dur:Ohhhhhhhh ok.... Carry on then. :buddies:

(now who is bored)?

nomoney is duuurrrrr
Ohhhhhhhh ok.... Carry on then. :buddies:

(now who is bored)?


Not I, I'm multi tasking.


Trying to upload my video I made last night of my kids doing the Thriller dance I taught them ....but the sound isn't working once its uploaded. It's a Sony digital handycam and its playing on Window's Media Player.....any ideas??

Her and I have talked about it A LOT.. We know what we are dealing with. :buddies:

Its not up to "us".. Anything can happen.

There you go. Sounds like it's under control :yahoo:

In the mean time, she should have her thyroid checked if this is in fact real, and not a FC mission :killingme

is this a mission ?????

That is what I was wondering :lmao:

is this a mission ?????

:roflmao:

WAIT...maybe you're on to something...not that I know what you mean by "mission", I'm just sayin...

Not I, I'm multi tasking.


Trying to upload my video I made last night of my kids doing the Thriller dance I taught them ....but the sound isn't working once its uploaded. It's a Sony digital handycam and its playing on Window's Media Player.....any ideas??

You're going to call his life boring then ask for his advice? :rolleyes:

There you go. Sounds like it's under control :yahoo:

In the mean time, she should have her thyroid checked if this is in fact real, and not a FC mission :killingme

Are you freakin serious! :dork:

:roflmao:

WAIT...maybe you're on to something...not that I know what you mean by "mission", I'm just sayin...



You're going to call his life boring then ask for his advice? :rolleyes:

It was a general question to the masses. Why don't you go choke on a zuchinni

Not I, I'm multi tasking.


Trying to upload my video I made last night of my kids doing the Thriller dance I taught them ....but the sound isn't working once its uploaded. It's a Sony digital handycam and its playing on Window's Media Player.....any ideas??
Got nothing for ya :shrug:

It was a general question to the masses. Why don't you go choke on a zuchinni
i bet she doesnt choke :hot:

It was a general question to the masses. Why don't you go choke on a zuchinni

That lil thing ain't gonna choke nobody. :lol:

Are the kiddos covered in mud? :biggrin:

i bet she doesnt choke :hot:


maybe if you didn't choke you wouldn't have needed to started this thread. I'm just sayin

Hysterectomy-Topic Overview (http://women.webmd.com/tc/hysterectomy-topic-overview)
A hysterectomy is surgery to take out a woman’s uterus, the organ in a woman's belly where a baby grows during pregnancy. After a hysterectomy, you will not be able to get pregnant.

:lol: Actually a partial hysterectomy takes the uterus and leaves the cervix. A total takes both. If you take all of that along with the ovaries, it's call total hysterecomy with oophorectomy..or something like that. I know...I had a total years ago...kept my ovaries.

And perhaps I am calling it the wrong thing but they did remove a section of my uterus. It is very unusual to have what I had done and they never really understood what caused a mass to grow the way it did around the ovary, fallopian tube and attach itself to the uterus the way it did. The ovary they removed never developed and they believe this was cause from an old Pneumonia virus I had when I was 8. Removing a piece from the ovary they left was only for the purpose of biopsy.

I was told that they just didn't know if I was going to ever have children and after years of using no birth control method and not getting pregnant, I figured it wasn't going to happen. It took nearly 6 years. My first son was 4 weeks early; my 2nd son, almost 10 weeks early.

This past year, I had an endometrial ablation. They could clearly see the thickening of the uterus but ruled out cancer (after several test) and really weren't convinced I was menopausal, although I had all the signs and symptoms. There just isn’t a hell of a lot of research done on the surgery I had and I still think there is a link between early menopause and the procedure I had.

Even with the procedure I had, I still am not out of the wood for a total hysterectomy in the future but is it sure nice not having any periods. :yay:

It was a general question to the masses. Why don't you go choke on a zuchinni

Aww, you hurt my feelings.

we want to have a kid someday, just not right now. he can always get unfixed. its not a huge deal.

You may want to do some investigating on this issue. It is a huge deal, and not nearly 100 % effective. It's much harder to do a reversal and the chances of success also depend on how long it's been since he had it done.

I was going to say that! Did I get personal enough? I have put most of my reproductive health out here for all to see so I think I am entitled to ask any questions I want now. :lol:

i bet she doesnt choke :hot:

:lol:

maybe if you didn't choke you wouldn't have needed to started this thread. I'm just sayin
sometimes i choke :shrug: not often but he has a pretty big zuchinni :biggrin:

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Since we are all here sharing....

Has anyone ever got off depo to get prego and how long did it take??

Since we are all here sharing....

Has anyone ever got off depo to get prego and how long did it take??

It took my cousin over a year to get pregnant... but that was after she stopped the pill which she was on for 5 years or so.

Since we are all here sharing....

Has anyone ever got off depo to get prego and how long did it take??

took me a lil over 2 years...but then again I wasn't exactly watching ovulation or anything just stopped getting the shot and when it happened it happened. Now my kids are a lil over 4 years apart :cds:

It was a general question to the masses. Why don't you go choke on a zuchinni

I see that you are still as lame as ever!! Congrats!!

I see that you are still as lame as ever!! Congrats!!


I see that I still bug you enough that you feel the need to post something stupid.

It took my cousin over a year to get pregnant... but that was after she stopped the pill which she was on for 5 years or so.


I've been on the shot for 10 years :whistle:

I see that I still bug you enough so that you feel the need to post something stupid.

:howdy:

Oh great... Mood swings worse than now?!?!:cds:

Pandora, there is a link between tubal ligation and early menopause due to the blood supply to the ovaries (major hormone producers) being reduced. I'm sure after surgery like your the same concept could apply. I just turned 30 and am on a natural progesterone supplement.

Since we are all here sharing....

Has anyone ever got off depo to get prego and how long did it take??

I stopped the shots in 1995 and got pregnant in 2005. Now mind you, I was taking BC pills to prevent getting pregnant, so this doesn't really help you but I was just sharing my story like everyone else. :killingme

Well since we are sharing... I got pregnant on the pill.. :lol:

After that I got fixed :lol: If I got pregnant now :cds: I think I would die.. I keep telling hubby he needs to go get it done... just in case :lol:

Yeah, since we're sharing......

We're going to try for our first child next year (May 16th to be exact :lol:)...when should I stop taking my pills?

kvj,

I asked you my question because you have no idea the challenges you are about to embark on if one isn't able to reproduce and the other wants to have a child. Girl, I was completely prepared to leave my husband and let him go so that he could find somebody that could give him the family he always wanted and numerous hurts that you'll become acquainted with during a marriage happened during that time frame. My husband and I weren't even living in the same house when I learned I was pregnant (talk about putting your dirty laundry out there). But, I was very lucky and will never consider myself (or us) unfortunate because having children was a huge gift to us when things were really stacked against us but things don't always turn out that way.

I think you need to seriously consider and discuss the fact that you may never have a child of your own and consider and discuss other measures that can be taken because 4d might not be able to give you sperm.

I'm blunt... especially on this topic and I will not sugar coat it.

Pixie,

I know, I have read some of the 'early' studies but many doctors haven't been willing to acknowledge the preliminary research (mine was one of them) but my 2nd opinion did acknowledge it was a possibility. Thickening of the uterus is a significant sign when cancer has been ruled out and of course all the other wonderful symptoms. :cds:

On another note, I opted for the procedure I had vs. a hysterectomy at this time. However, it seems hysterectomies are no where near as invasive as they used to be. It isn't your grandmother's hysterectomy no more and that is a good thing! :yay:

Question for the ladies who are prego or not

How old are you and how old is your husband, SO, boyfriend, etc.?

same question for your last child?

Question for the ladies who are prego or not

How old are you and how old is your husband, SO, boyfriend, etc.?

same question for your last child?

I'm almost 33 he's 40... 2008 child: 31 and 38

I'm almost 33 he's 40... Last child 31 and 38
Did you feel ya'll were to old to have the last child or did he?

Did you feel ya'll were to old to have the last child or did he?


Nope never crossed our minds :lol: Took us a while to get pregnant together..... Were getting ready to have our last one on Monday...

Yeah, since we're sharing......

We're going to try for our first child next year (May 16th to be exact :lol:)...when should I stop taking my pills?

I stopped that my pill around May 20th or so and get preggo on May 31.

maybe if you didn't choke you wouldn't have needed to started this thread. I'm just sayin

Ok now that was funny. :roflmao:

Question for the ladies who are prego or not

How old are you and how old is your husband, SO, boyfriend, etc.?

same question for your last child?

I am 30 and he is 34.

Question for the ladies who are prego or not

How old are you and how old is your husband, SO, boyfriend, etc.?

same question for your last child?

I will be 29 at the end of the year and he will be 39 at the end of the year. This is his first.

I stopped that my pill around May 20th or so and get preggo on May 31.

You are an exception.... not the rule. Damn girl you MUST be fertile, because that is QUICK! :lol:

Nope never crossed our minds :lol: Took us a while to get pregnant together..... Were getting ready to have our last one on Monday...


Awesome and congratulations.

I haven't decided if I totally want another but my husband says he's to old.
I'm 32 and he's 39 :killingmeJust wanted to see if this is a normal guy reaction...
Mind you we have 3 kids (2 his and 1 mine, none together)

You are an exception.... not the rule. Damn girl you MUST be fertile, because that is QUICK! :lol:

Tell me about it. Same thing with the first one I was off BC for like 2 weeks had sex one time and was knocked up. WTF!

I'm almost 33 he's 40... 2008 child: 31 and 38

You're 33 and you're hubby/SO is 40 AND your children are 31 and 38???

:faint:

Question for the ladies who are prego or not

How old are you and how old is your husband, SO, boyfriend, etc.?

same question for your last child?

My oldest child will be 23 this month, the middle one is 20 and the youngest is 3. My youngest child's father is 8 years younger than me, the two older kids father is 3 years older. I am not pregnant and never plan to be again :yahoo:

Next..............:popcorn:

You're 33 and you're hubby/SO is 40 AND you're children are 31 and 38???

:faint:
They started young :killingme

My oldest child will be 23 this month, the middle one is 20 and the youngest is 3. My youngest child's father is 8 years younger than me, the two older kids father is 3 years older. I am not pregnant and never plan to be again :yahoo:

Next..............:popcorn:


Wow, you really started all over again... Was it planned or an oopsie?
Do you find you have less patience with the last child because of your age?

Tell me about it. Same thing with the first one I was off BC for like 2 weeks had sex one time and was knocked up. WTF!

Funny... and then there is me who would have sex and then do a handstand up against the bedroom wall and stay there for 15 minutes, still couldn't get pregnant. :lol:

Funny... and then there is me who would have sex and then do a handstand up against the bedroom wall and stay there for 15 minutes, still couldn't get pregnant. :lol:

Isn't it funny how different bodies work so differently...

Question for the ladies who are prego or not

How old are you and how old is your husband, SO, boyfriend, etc.?

same question for your last child?
I was 28 and he was 37.
Funny... and then there is me who would have sex and then do a handstand up against the bedroom wall and stay there for 15 minutes, still couldn't get pregnant. :lol:

OK...you need to stop. :tmi:

Isn't it funny how different bodies work so differently...

Yea. I have a friend who has been trying for over a year to get preggo, she even started drugs to help. Here I am didnt even try for a month and I'm knocked up.

OK...you need to stop. :tmi:

:lol: I remember a few years back listening to an interview with Gloria Estefan and she admitted doing the same thing!

I thought I broke the :tmi: barrier several post back! :faint:

Wow, you really started all over again... Was it planned or an oopsie?
Do you find you have less patience with the last child because of your age?

I did start all over, and no, I found I had MORE patience with the last. She has been a true blessing. She was not planned, but I'm sooooo glad she came along. BTW, I was 39 and her father was 32 when she was born.

When in doubt, either make an appointment with your doctor OR spend a few bucks on a home test.

I was on the pill for two years. It was about a year after going off the pill before I got pregnant with my 1st. I was 29 and hubby was 35 (almost 36). When son #2 was born, I was 32 and hubby was 39. Hubby got fixed when #2 was a few month old (and he never went back for his follow-up visit either).

I was 28 and he was 37.


OK...you need to stop. :tmi:

:lmao:

She was doing it all wrong she needs to get a turkey baster and have her husband inject that #### while she is doing the hand stand against the wall :yay:

:lol: I remember a few years back listening to an interview with Gloria Estefan and she admitted doing the same thing!

I thought I broke the :tmi: barrier several post back! :faint:

You did, believe me. :lol:

My oldest child will be 23 this month, the middle one is 20 and the youngest is 3. My youngest child's father is 8 years younger than me, the two older kids father is 3 years older. I am not pregnant and never plan to be again :yahoo:

Next..............:popcorn:

I'm 48, Hubby is 51. Our son is 26, and our daughter is 22. We decided together when she was 2 that we didn't want anymore and I had a tubal.

I did start all over, and no, I found I had MORE patience with the last. She has been a true blessing. She was not planned, but I'm sooooo glad she came along. BTW, I was 39 and her father was 32 when she was born.


See this is how I feel. We are older more calm and laid back. Of course any child is a blessing. Ours would diff have to be planned, I have been on the depo shot for 10 years, so we would have to take steps if that is what we decide.

:lalala: just here to collect a quarter :lalala:

I did start all over, and no, I found I had MORE patience with the last. She has been a true blessing. She was not planned, but I'm sooooo glad she came along. BTW, I was 39 and her father was 32 when she was born.


My husband said knowing our luck we would end up with twins or triplets :killingme I asked what would be wrong with that, I just got the look :cds:

I did start all over, and no, I found I had MORE patience with the last. She has been a true blessing. She was not planned, but I'm sooooo glad she came along. BTW, I was 39 and her father was 32 when she was born.

See a friend of mine is older and already a grandpa... his kids are in their mid-late 20's. He just had a baby... a girl this time (his others are all boys). I asked him if he was crazy and he :lol:

He said being older he has more money and doesn't struggle like he did when he was young, so now he isn't having to work so much and he has more time to enjoy being daddy. He says he has so much more patience now then he did when he had his others.

:lmao:

She was doing it all wrong she needs to get a turkey baster and have her husband inject that #### while she is doing the hand stand against the wall :yay:

is it bad i had the same exact thought?!?!?!?!??! :jet:

:lalala: just here to collect a quarter :lalala:

:killingme :huggy:

See this is how I feel. We are older more calm and laid back. Of course any child is a blessing. Ours would diff have to be planned, I have been on the depo shot for 10 years, so we would have to take steps if that is what we decide.

Good luck with your decision. It is a tough one.

See a friend of mine is older and already a grandpa... his kids are in their mid-late 20's. He just had a baby... a girl this time (his others are all boys). I asked him if he was crazy and he :lol:

He said being older he has more money and doesn't struggle like he did when he was young, so now he isn't having to work so much and he has more time to enjoy being daddy. He says he has so much more patience now then he did when he had his others.

It's very true, and I thought everyone on here already knew I am a grandma too. My oldest granddaughter is 6 months and 2 days older than my daughter. My other granddaughter is 18 months old. Both grandkids live with me now. So I have a 4 y/o, 3 1/2 y/o and 18 month old. :jameo:

Soooo Preggers or NOT????:buddies:

It's very true, and I thought everyone on here already knew I am a grandma too. My oldest granddaughter is 6 months and 2 days older than my daughter. My other granddaughter is 18 months old. Both grandkids live with me now. So I have a 4 y/o, 3 1/2 y/o and 18 month old. :jameo:


All I have to say is WOW:killingme

update?

See a friend of mine is older and already a grandpa... his kids are in their mid-late 20's. He just had a baby... a girl this time (his others are all boys). I asked him if he was crazy and he :lol:

He said being older he has more money and doesn't struggle like he did when he was young, so now he isn't having to work so much and he has more time to enjoy being daddy. He says he has so much more patience now then he did when he had his others.

It's very true, and I thought everyone on here already knew I am a grandma too. My oldest granddaughter is 6 months and 2 days older than my daughter. My other granddaughter is 18 months old. Both grandkids live with me now. So I have a 4 y/o, 3 1/2 y/o and 18 month old. :jameo:


I have two children, 11 yr old boy (I was 20 boys dad was 29) and 16 month old girl (I was 30 hubby was 35).

My dad started over as well. I was 17 moving out of the house and here comes a new little sister for me. She is 13 now, and I have two other sisters youngest will be 6 next week and the middle will be 8 in November.

Funny... and then there is me who would have sex and then do a handstand up against the bedroom wall and stay there for 15 minutes, still couldn't get pregnant. :lol:

We're not getting any younger so we decided to start trying in August of last year, we became pregnant in February. I was on the pill for about 18 months prior so I'm guessing that played a major part. We have decided to not go back on hormonal birth control after the birth of our child this November, it would be nice to have another be fore we get too old.

:lalala: kvj needs to stop throwing the quarters in here :grabsquarter: :lalala:

:lalala: kvj needs to stop throwing the quarters in here :grabsquarter: :lalala:
:killingme


MorningSweetBell, i was on BC for 4 or 5 years :ohwell: im worried that will maybe lessen my chances too, but ive been off of it since last Nov-Dec, but ive only had 2 real periods in the last 5 months :ohwell: i dont know if it will go back to normal or stay this way :ohwell:

:killingme


MorningSweetBell, i was on BC for 4 or 5 years :ohwell: im worried that will maybe lessen my chances too, but ive been off of it since last Nov-Dec, but ive only had 2 real periods in the last 5 months :ohwell: i dont know if it will go back to normal or stay this way :ohwell:

I had been on BC since I was 16 until I was 25, I became pregnant when I was 26, we used a condom, it was a big surprise but a pleasant one at that. I don't think you should have anything to worry about but you should definitely hit up the gyno if you already haven't. I was told it could take up to a year for your periods to get back to normal.

Try not to get too stressed about it until you really know what's up :huggy:

I hate this thread. I asked a question somewhere between page 1 and 14 and did anyone answer me? Noooooo...bastages :frown:

I hate this thread. I asked a question somewhere between page 1 and 14 and did anyone answer me? Noooooo...bastages :frown:

:jameo: omg, I tried to read the whole thing, sorry :huggy: What is your question?

:jameo: omg, I tried to read the whole thing, sorry :huggy: What is your question?

I'm sorry...are you talking to me? I can't tell, I can barely see the screen through all of these tears :bawl:






Hehe, we're going to start trying in May...when would be a good time to stop the pill? I'm thinking March'ish..?

I'm sorry...are you talking to me? I can't tell, I can barely see the screen through all of these tears :bawl:






Hehe, we're going to start trying in May...when would be a good time to stop the pill? I'm thinking March'ish..?

everyone is different :shrug:

Some people have a hard time getting pregnant after BC and some get pregnant right away. I would say March is good cuz if you do get pregnant it is not too much earlier than May.

I had been on BC since I was 16 until I was 25, I became pregnant when I was 26, we used a condom, it was a big surprise but a pleasant one at that. I don't think you should have anything to worry about but you should definitely hit up the gyno if you already haven't. I was told it could take up to a year for your periods to get back to normal.

Try not to get too stressed about it until you really know what's up :huggy:
:huggy: thanks that makes me feel better

everyone is different :shrug:

Some people have a hard time getting pregnant after BC and some get pregnant right away. I would say March is good cuz if you do get pregnant it is not too much earlier than May.

That's sort of what I was thinking. Obviously I'm going to talk to my doctor but I just thought I'd ask for opinions since this thread was already going.

Thanks for paying attention to me :killingme

That's sort of what I was thinking. Obviously I'm going to talk to my doctor but I just thought I'd ask for opinions since this thread was already going.

Thanks for paying attention to me :killingme

:killingme no problem

I'm sorry...are you talking to me? I can't tell, I can barely see the screen through all of these tears :bawl:






Hehe, we're going to start trying in May...when would be a good time to stop the pill? I'm thinking March'ish..?

If you're planning on having a baby at a particular time of the year...... well good luck :lmao: I would stop in January, practice the rhythm method and gradually just go for it in March. I honestly thought I would be pregnant within a month or so, boy was I wrong.
You are going to be such a beautiful pregnant woman!

If you're planning on having a baby at a particular time of the year...... well good luck :lmao: I would stop in January, practice the rhythm method and gradually just go for it in March. I honestly thought I would be pregnant within a month or so, boy was I wrong.
You are going to be such a beautiful pregnant woman!

Nah, I'm not really trying for a particular time...in a perfect world I'd deliver in late Spring/early Summer so I could bless my child with pool parties for their birthday later in life unlike ME with a December birthday. I'm still waiting for my damn pool birthday party :lol:

I'm more so just not wanting to be pregnant at the wedding, or least not showing anyway. My thing is this, anyone...I mean ANYONE can waddle down the aisle at our wedding, EXCEPT ME :biggrin:

I found my quarters :dance:

Nah, I'm not really trying for a particular time...in a perfect world I'd deliver in late Spring/early Summer so I could bless my child with pool parties for their birthday later in life unlike ME with a December birthday. I'm still waiting for my damn pool birthday party :lol:

I'm more so just not wanting to be pregnant at the wedding, or least not showing anyway. My thing is this, anyone...I mean ANYONE can waddle down the aisle at our wedding, EXCEPT ME :biggrin:

I got pregnant in Sept and had my son the first week in June, with my daughter I got pregnant in November and had her the first week in August!

Both my kids can have pool parties!

Another benefit to having the kids earlier in the year is them actually being able to start school when they are five and not have to wait till the next year because they have a late birthday

I got pregnant in Sept and had my son the first week in June, with my daughter I got pregnant in November and had her the first week in August!

Both my kids can have pool parties!

Another benefit to having the kids earlier in the year is them actually being able to start school when they are five and not have to wait till the next year because they have a late birthday

That's awesome. I'll just take a healthy baby, any time of year will do. We'll either splash around in the pool or make snow angels :smile:

Ijust had my 6th 18 days ago....she is the only summer baby we have and i am not liking being able to go swimming with the other kids lol. I know her bday parties will be fun like mine, which is august, and its only for a few weeks but still a pain. I agree about having them in the earlier part of the year though. I have one october 4th and she cant go to school until she is almost 6.

Nah, I'm not really trying for a particular time...in a perfect world I'd deliver in late Spring/early Summer so I could bless my child with pool parties for their birthday later in life unlike ME with a December birthday. I'm still waiting for my damn pool birthday party :lol:

I'm more so just not wanting to be pregnant at the wedding, or least not showing anyway. My thing is this, anyone...I mean ANYONE can waddle down the aisle at our wedding, EXCEPT ME :biggrin:

AHHH!! I know I was just trying to not be pregnant in the summer again.... so many issues with that, maybe next time.
This baby is due right around my birthday, what a great present :biggrin:

Ijust had my 6th 18 days ago....she is the only summer baby we have and i am not liking being able to go swimming with the other kids lol. I know her bday parties will be fun like mine, which is august, and its only for a few weeks but still a pain. I agree about having them in the earlier part of the year though. I have one october 4th and she cant go to school until she is almost 6.

Congratulations!

OMG 6 :jameo:

I had a friend who was married for 10+ years. Her husband was snipped 20years ago. He got a kidney stone and passed it. Next thing they knew, she was preggers. Deffinetly his kid. Looks just like him. Child is now 14 and a juvinel delinquent. Just because she did not want to "punish" him when he did bad. Let him do what he wanted--when he wanted.

Since we are all here sharing....

Has anyone ever got off depo to get prego and how long did it take??
I was off depo for 4 months and I got pregnant :shrug:

I was off depo for 4 months and I got pregnant :shrug:


Wow that was quick

Wow that was quick

So did you meet the new hubby at the door last night and greet him with the ole "Honey, we have to talk" :killingme

So did you meet the new hubby at the door last night and greet him with the ole "Honey, we have to talk" :killingme


Nah, I think I scared the bjeezus out of him when I even suggested it the first time, giving him time to take it all in.. :killingme

Wow that was quick
Heh... yeah... I'd been on Depo for 5 years before too.

The timing was the worst part... I got engaged and got pregnant a week later :jameo:

Heh... yeah... I'd been on Depo for 5 years before too.

The timing was the worst part... I got engaged and got pregnant a week later :jameo:


Holy cow, that was bad timing. But yet meant to be... :killingme

Holy cow, that was bad timing. But yet meant to be... :killingme
Yeah... my :baby: was the best thing I got out of that relationship.

Yeah... my :baby: was the best thing I got out of that relationship.


Amen to that. I say the same thing about my son.

SOOO again..are you pregnant??

SOOO again..are you pregnant??
She decided she doesn't want to find out, she just gonna wait and see what happens..