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DFSquare
10-03-2009, 11:16 AM
OK, now I am NOT looking to stir up trouble. I have a serious question and I would prefer honest, non-judgemental, inflammatory responses.

Oh, and Country, don't get too excited, it's just research! :killingme

I have begun to research rescues and reading thru contracts and fine print. I understand most of these poor animals have come from abuse or neglect and the rescuses want to be as sure as humanly possible that they have forever homes (not sold to slaughter, BYB, back in the same conditions, etc). I totally agree. HOWEVER...at what point do you say ok the horse is yours forever?

Most, tho not all, of the rescues retain control of the horses for life, to include where it's kept and how far you can move. I could understand and agree to a 1 of joint ownership but gosh, once I can prove to you that I love this horse and take care, why can't I go about my life with this new addition? :confused:

My understanding from a couple groups (no names will be posted) is that if I move farther than 4 hours from them, I must give them back the horse. Others require I notify them if I want to change vets or farriers.

My family is spread all over the US. If something happens to either of our parents and we need to move to care for them (ok, I'd rather move them here, but you never know) I wouldn't want to give up my beloved animals. Goodness, we jumped thru all kinds of hoops so we could take our dog to Germany, I'm not going to "dump" a horse because I move to another state.

I'm guessing this may be due in part to people who can "hold out" for a year of good behavior and then go bad. But really, if I put a year into this horse, am I really going to then start abusing it or sell at auction? Maybe there are people out there who would and I'm just too nieve to realize it? :shrug:

Now for those that want to tell me: if you can't abide by the terms look elsewhere, well that's a no brainer and not at all helpful to educating me and others like me with similar questions.

So someone involved with a rescue organization please help me understand the thoughts and motives behind this.

Thanks in advance,
Dawn

CountryLady
10-03-2009, 01:04 PM
OK, now I am NOT looking to stir up trouble. I have a serious question and I would prefer honest, non-judgemental, inflammatory responses.

Oh, and Country, don't get too excited, it's just research! :killingme

I have begun to research rescues and reading thru contracts and fine print. I understand most of these poor animals have come from abuse or neglect and the rescuses want to be as sure as humanly possible that they have forever homes (not sold to slaughter, BYB, back in the same conditions, etc). I totally agree. HOWEVER...at what point do you say ok the horse is yours forever?

Most, tho not all, of the rescues retain control of the horses for life, to include where it's kept and how far you can move. I could understand and agree to a 1 of joint ownership but gosh, once I can prove to you that I love this horse and take care, why can't I go about my life with this new addition? :confused:

My understanding from a couple groups (no names will be posted) is that if I move farther than 4 hours from them, I must give them back the horse. Others require I notify them if I want to change vets or farriers.

My family is spread all over the US. If something happens to either of our parents and we need to move to care for them (ok, I'd rather move them here, but you never know) I wouldn't want to give up my beloved animals. Goodness, we jumped thru all kinds of hoops so we could take our dog to Germany, I'm not going to "dump" a horse because I move to another state.

I'm guessing this may be due in part to people who can "hold out" for a year of good behavior and then go bad. But really, if I put a year into this horse, am I really going to then start abusing it or sell at auction? Maybe there are people out there who would and I'm just too nieve to realize it? :shrug:

Now for those that want to tell me: if you can't abide by the terms look elsewhere, well that's a no brainer and not at all helpful to educating me and others like me with similar questions.

So someone involved with a rescue organization please help me understand the thoughts and motives behind this.

Thanks in advance,
Dawn

:huggy:

Well, I have asked the same question.

I think you should be able to provide refrences and maybe they could link up with other organizations across the country to check in on you and sign off on the new living situations.

It is only one of the many small battles that need to be fought. I know exactly which one you speak of though. Just not sure what they are going to do when the economy hits rock bottom to only place the animals within a 4 hour drive.

Seems sinful, cause if they have to take the animal back and they can't afford to keep it and are unable to place it. DO they put it down? hmm. SEEMS A PITY! Something wasn't thought through on that decision. There has to be a way. After all the animal is being placed in its FOREVER HOME, Right?

I guess they are trying to avoid it being turned in in another state as unwanted. But they should unite the recuses country wide and have acceptable affiliates. OR SOMETHING!!:whistle:

:patriot:

vraiblonde
10-03-2009, 01:20 PM
:offtopic: but I don't understand why anyone "adopts" from a "rescue" in the first place. If you look in our classifieds, there are a bunch of dogs and cats who are free to a good home because the owner has to get rid of them them for one reason or another. Occasionally we even get a free horse in there.

People think they're doing a good deed when they hit the shelter or rescue, but there are tons of pets out there who need homes, and you won't have to go through some arduous screening process in order to take the animal home and have it become part of your family.

Sorry, "rescue" people, but you're screwing many animals out of a loving family by your desire to make sure not one single animal EVER goes out to an inappropriate home.

CountryLady
10-03-2009, 01:25 PM
Maryland Pet ~ Equine & Farm Rescue Organizations ~ Maryland Horses, Pigs & Farm Animals (http://www.marylandpet.com/horse_farm_rescue_maryland.htm)

Cowgirl
10-03-2009, 03:21 PM
I'm sorry, but I would never adopt from a group who tried to tell me where I can/can't move. That's just total BS.




And Vrai, there's lots of reasons. :shrug: You never know what kind of shape an animal will be in if Joe Blow is trying to get rid of it. At least with rescued animals they're up to date on vaccines, have been spayed/neutered (or they'll refund part of your money when you get it spayed/neutered), they have some sort of idea how the animal responds to other animals/kids/people.

DFSquare
10-03-2009, 06:25 PM
I'm glad I'm not the only one who has these concerns. I know we have a lot of horses that need new homes due to the economy and other reasons (another thread entirely) so when we are ready, I'd like to be part of rehoming or adopting suitable rescues.

I have a way to go yet. I will need to line up housing for our new family members first since I think the neighbors would frown on horses in the backyard. I've thought about telling them we just got really big doggies, but I don't think they'd buy that. Silly HOA rules! :whistle:

Then I'll need to learn about different vets and farriers in the area so we're ready for those first visits. Not to mention feed and supplements. Gosh, then I'll need tack because I certainly am NOT Stacy Westfall. :killingme:

Good heavens but this new business better get off the ground quick and bring in some money if I want to do this before I'm 50!

IntegritysDream
10-08-2009, 03:18 PM
See my question is, since i now own a rescue, that i paid almost 1000$ just to ADOPT (which means in my eyes i bascially bought that horse) and say i end up having this horse for 10 years or more, and ive trained him, shown him... whatever else i may do or what not with him, but the time comes where he is an amazingly happy and sound school master and i wanted to sell him to some very nice family that wanted a reliable fun mount, and get some of the money i put into him, back in return...

i think that i should have the right to that... even if the adoption agency checked the newer home out before i "sold" him... but most contracts say you have to GIVE them back to the rescue, no matter how long youve had them, and then your left with many great memories, but nothing for all the training you did, tack you bought, or any other money related things or anything, when most likely the rescue will turn around and jack up the adoption fees for the next owner that comes along and wants them.... i just dont get that...

I am all for the adoptions and rescues and everything, i just dont understand like when you draw the line between offically yours with all the rights of owning a horse, to yeah you paid 1000$ for him but you dont have any rights other then hes yours to ride show and love... especially if you adopt a young horse that you end up completely training and the whole thing. I think its a good rule just to make sure the horses stay away from situations in which they were in when they came to the rescue, but i think its very fuzzy as to where the line can be drawn.

Im not saying i will ever sell my rescue cause he is amazing and has a lot of potiental ahead for him, but im just saying... if i ever did decide to sell him years later when maybe i cant afford him or want a new baby to train or who knows where life will go... or what if the rescue goes out of business? then what. hah.

mAlice
10-08-2009, 03:30 PM
And Vrai, there's lots of reasons. :shrug: You never know what kind of shape an animal will be in if Joe Blow is trying to get rid of it. At least with rescued animals they're up to date on vaccines, have been spayed/neutered (or they'll refund part of your money when you get it spayed/neutered), they have some sort of idea how the animal responds to other animals/kids/people.


Yeah, kinda' like the cat that gurl adopted. Profile sez "shy, but will warm up to you and become a snuggle bug". NOT. The cat had never been socialized, and I suspect she was feral at one time. Oh, sure...she was up to date on her vaccines, had been fixed and chipped, but she wasn't a "pet".

cattitude
10-08-2009, 03:44 PM
:lol:

mAlice
10-08-2009, 03:46 PM
:lol:

:lol:

cattitude
10-08-2009, 03:50 PM
:lol:

I think the whole forum can use some midol, large pads and chocolate today. :cheesy:

mAlice
10-08-2009, 03:52 PM
I think the whole forum can use some midol, large pads and chocolate today. :cheesy:

Why do you say that?

ICit
10-08-2009, 03:52 PM
I think the whole forum can use some midol, large pads and chocolate today. :cheesy:

:killingme:buddies:
but some peep just seem to naturally have sand in their vajay-jays everyday! :shrug:

cattitude
10-08-2009, 03:53 PM
Why do you say that?

It just seems like one of those days on here where everyone is testy. It's almost cyclical. :lol:

mAlice
10-08-2009, 03:55 PM
It just seems like one of those days on here where everyone is testy. It's almost cyclical. :lol:

:shrug: Looks like business as usual to me.

cattitude
10-08-2009, 03:57 PM
:shrug: Looks like business as usual to me.

what EV ah


:lmao:

RoseRed
10-08-2009, 03:58 PM
what EV ah


:lmao:

I was waiting for that! :lol:

mAlice
10-08-2009, 03:58 PM
what EV ah


:lmao:

Wrong tread.

CountryLady
10-08-2009, 08:51 PM
I think the whole forum can use some midol, large pads and chocolate today. :cheesy:

:lmao:

it could be the change in the weather? :whistle:

fredsaid2
10-08-2009, 10:58 PM
I'd say the policies the rescues have in place are a 'lesson learned'. Someone somewhere did what the policy is now in place to prevent. It's a little like you paying for another's mistake. If you truly find a rescue you want and in a year or so find yourself having to move don't you think the organization would work with you to ensure the horse remained with you? It’s in their best interests for the horse to stay in a good home, not to have it returned. 1k is certainly a lot of money but can't cover the costs of rehabbing, vetting, farrier, ect, to get the horse ready for adoption. I don't see rescues in a money making position.

Talk frankly w/ the org that interests you, tell them your concerns, see what they may be willing to do for you.

CountryLady
10-09-2009, 09:51 AM
I'd say the policies the rescues have in place are a 'lesson learned'. Someone somewhere did what the policy is now in place to prevent. It's a little like you paying for another's mistake. If you truly find a rescue you want and in a year or so find yourself having to move don't you think the organization would work with you to ensure the horse remained with you? It’s in their best interests for the horse to stay in a good home, not to have it returned. 1k is certainly a lot of money but can't cover the costs of rehabbing, vetting, farrier, ect, to get the horse ready for adoption. I don't see rescues in a money making position.

Talk frankly w/ the org that interests you, tell them your concerns, see what they may be willing to do for you.

Seems like good advice.

covekat
10-10-2009, 04:46 PM
If you are considering "freebies", I know of two TB mares that need homes!

DFSquare
10-10-2009, 08:22 PM
If you are considering "freebies", I know of two TB mares that need homes!

Would love to, but need some place to keep them. My yard is just too small. :killingme Just starting all the research so I know what I'm looking at for the future. As we all know, it's the month to month that is expensive.

CountryLady
10-26-2009, 12:43 PM
Just starting all the research so I know what I'm looking at for the future.

This is a good book to look at if you get a chance:

Give a Horse a Second Chance: Adopting and Caring for Rescue Horses
By Author: J.R.Wise

Book overview
Every year hundreds of thousands of people adopt feral mustangs and other untrained horses as well as rescue previously abused animals. Give a Horse a Second Chance helps the reader decide which "gift horses" are within their ability to help and then describes how to go about giving the animal a happy, healthy, and useful environment and life.
The author, a longtime expert dealing with rescue horses, offers practical and sympathetic information on such subjects as:
- Why adopt a horse?: the pros and cons of adoption
- Adoption process: where to look and how to adopt
- Choosing a horse: breeds and types, conformation, age, temperament
- Homecoming: introducing the horse to its new home
- Veterinary considerations: including conformation and soundness issues
- Caring for an equine senior citizen: care and exercise for the older animal
- Training: replacing bad habits with good ones
- Selling or donating the horse: if you can no longer look after the animal
With an appendix by natural horsemanship trainer Dan Bowman and a list of equine adoption agencies, Give a Horse a Second Chance is a comprehensive and compassionate guide to this timely subject.



SEARCH it on amazon....they have the book anywhere from $6-$20.

MorganLover
10-28-2009, 12:38 PM
I adopted from horsenet horse rescue and have had my horse for 4 years now. I think they want to make sure whom ever is adopting the horse is willing to go through the hoops to keep the animal. I have not had any troubles with my rescue. i believe as long as you contact them regarding your move and you have shown you have cared for the horse through the years they will not keep you from moving or doing what you will. i think the main things they hold too are breeding the adopted horse, and re-selling or re-homing the horse. I love the fact that i adopted my mare b/c if something should happen to me, or i cannot care for her any longer she can return to the rescue i got her from, and that makes me happy b/c i know she'll be cared for until she finds a new home and i don't have to worry my family with placing her. i adopted her for 400.00. Now she is 1/2 blind and she is 34 years old now (i adopted her and the papers said 28) but this horse is the best horse i have ever known. I do feel it is wrong for a rescue to put the types adoption fees on horses that they do, 1,000 dollars for a horse that you are taking off their hands is way to much. i understand the feed, vet, farrier, hay what ever else cost money but all those things are a tax write off for those places so why the high prices. i'd never spend that, when i found my dream horse for 400.00..... JMO of coarse.

CountryLady
10-29-2009, 09:26 AM
I adopted from horsenet horse rescue and have had my horse for 4 years now. I think they want to make sure whom ever is adopting the horse is willing to go through the hoops to keep the animal. I have not had any troubles with my rescue. i believe as long as you contact them regarding your move and you have shown you have cared for the horse through the years they will not keep you from moving or doing what you will. i think the main things they hold too are breeding the adopted horse, and re-selling or re-homing the horse. I love the fact that i adopted my mare b/c if something should happen to me, or i cannot care for her any longer she can return to the rescue i got her from, and that makes me happy b/c i know she'll be cared for until she finds a new home and i don't have to worry my family with placing her. i adopted her for 400.00. Now she is 1/2 blind and she is 34 years old now (i adopted her and the papers said 28) but this horse is the best horse i have ever known. I do feel it is wrong for a rescue to put the types adoption fees on horses that they do, 1,000 dollars for a horse that you are taking off their hands is way to much. i understand the feed, vet, farrier, hay what ever else cost money but all those things are a tax write off for those places so why the high prices. i'd never spend that, when i found my dream horse for 400.00..... JMO of coarse.

I hear a lot of GOOD things about horsenet.
But one of their policies is:
ADOPTION AREA: Maryland residents or those that reside within 2.5 hours our Mt Airy Farm. No exceptions made to this policy.

While that policy is understandable (to be within reasonable driving distance for checkups), it is very limiting. I would think that in today’s economy they would have volunteers annexed in other areas of MD to allow a better spread of adoption possibilities. Maybe that is something that they will work on in the near future.

devinej
10-29-2009, 10:43 AM
lost and found horse rescue in york, pa doesn't have as much stipulation on where you live. they have quite a few horses there (more than on their website, different than on their website) and seem to always be getting new ones especially from the new holland auction. lots of tbs, qhs, and others.


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