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01-25-2003, 09:35 PM
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I realize it has been a while since I generated an article but with the recent addition of columnists to SOMD.com (a good thing) many of my selected topics (though not necessarily my thoughts or position) have been snatched up by their efforts. And Trevor, the speed demon that he is has been pumping them out at a rate and quality that I could only dream of. Some of the other topics I was settling in on I ended up shooting them down with my own critique.

I have been brought to look elsewhere for a subject. Once again stepping out of my typical mode of choosing a politically based topic I have settled on something more of a personal nature: I think of it as the innocence of love.

Yeah, I know. What does a rough and gruff anal retentive like me know about love? Well, let me tell you.

Yesterday I left work early as nothing was going on and came home about noon. My wife, my daughter (who recently moved back in at my urging), and my dog were all there. Additionally, my grand-daughter was there too. She will be nine months old at the first of the month and is getting to the point of activity that is just too damn cute to characterize in words.

My son had dropped her off that morning due to child care issues for my wife and daughter to watch. From what they had said she had been up since about 5:30 that morning and was getting somewhat cranky upon my arrival home.

As I walked in and started talking she immediately recognized my voice and started flailing her arms for me to come and pick her up. Which was no problem for me as I am so deeply in love with her (the type of love only a grand parent knows).

The wife said she had to run out and tend to some of her business errands and that I should try to get the baby to sleep. When I picked her up she proceeded to snuggle against her old Granddad and within a matter of minutes she was into a heavy sleep. It was obvious to me that she simply loves me for what I am, a big snuggly bear that makes for an excellent sleeping platform.

She slept for a couple of hours and awoke to be full of energy and playful antics. I know I would probably look and sound like an idiot to anyone else that observed me as I played with her. I was making all sorts of weird noises and funny faces, but I don’t care as she truly loves it.

While playing with her she has one of those toys that when you pull on it the toy starts playing a song for her (Itsy-Bitsy Spider) and I was getting her to orchestrate the music. Then as the day went on every time she would start the thing playing it’s song she would look at me and I would have to sing the song and swing my arms as if I was an orchestra conductor. She would mimic my antics and have this totally huge grin on her face. All I could think of was just how cute she was.

Needless to say this was one of the best five hour periods I have had in quite some time and it helped wash away much of the routine stresses that I have been under. I look forward to my next visit with her and truly hope that those visits are numerous and often as she grows into the beautiful young lady I know she will be.

Ken King
01-25-2003, 09:57 PM
The attached file is one of my latest photos of this bundle of joy and energy. She is the youngest of my three grandchildren.

Kain99
01-25-2003, 09:57 PM
Ya know something? In the midst of our hectic lives - barely making it each day through this dog eat dog world, It is a breath of fresh air to read your article and remember the important things in life! Thank you for a much needed moment. :smooch:

P.S. She is absolutely beautiful!

Penn
01-25-2003, 10:01 PM
:smile: It is kind of awesome how a nine month-old bundle of constant energy can reduce you to "ga-ga", "do-do", etc., hey, grandpa?

penn

Sharon
01-25-2003, 10:14 PM
On our drive home after fence building at Yakky's this afternoon my step-daughter calls. She lives in Florida but had driven up to MD (today) unbeknownst to us. Her and the family wanted us to go to dinner. At least I got to nap on the way home while John was driving, :wink: we were exhausted. Normally they always run an hour late so when we get to the house John hits the bed and says, "Wake me when they get here." He was sooo tired, but five minutes later the doorbell rings and he drags himself up and we went to dinner.

This was the first time I have ever seen our granddaughter (about 9mos. old) awake. She was so beautiful, happy, and smiling. Not once did she cry or get fussy thru the whole dinner. She snuggled into Grandpa's chest like she was curling up with her favorite blankie.

DJ (our grandson) was just as happy as could be after the long ride. He was content to sit on my knee and bounce, than run around and get rid of that extra energy, only a 2 year old has, stuck in a car all day.

The good new is they are moving to North Carolina soon.

Kain99
01-25-2003, 10:22 PM
Thank God for small blessings Sharon! I know you were dead tired cuz' Biscuit and I crashed as soon as we got home!

I bet you were completely rejuvinated! :smile:

vraiblonde
01-25-2003, 10:28 PM
Originally posted by Sharon
The good new is they are moving to North Carolina soon. :roflmao:

Ken, thanks for this column - it's nice to be able to read something calming and sweet in here for a change.

Ken King
01-25-2003, 10:35 PM
Originally posted by Sharon
On our drive home after fence building at Yakky's this afternoon my step-daughter calls. She lives in Florida but had driven up to MD (today) unbeknownst to us. Her and the family wanted us to go to dinner. At least I got to nap on the way home while John was driving, :wink: we were exhausted. Normally they always run an hour late so when we get to the house John hits the bed and says, "Wake me when they get here." He was sooo tired, but five minutes later the doorbell rings and he drags himself up and we went to dinner.

This was the first time I have ever seen our granddaughter (about 9mos. old) awake. She was so beautiful, happy, and smiling. Not once did she cry or get fussy thru the whole dinner. She snuggled into Grandpa's chest like she was curling up with her favorite blankie.

DJ (our grandson) was just as happy as could be after the long ride. He was content to sit on my knee and bounce, than run around and get rid of that extra energy, only a 2 year old has, stuck in a car all day.

The good new is they are moving to North Carolina soon.
It's so great to have these bundles of joy in our lives and I am so happy your family is moving closer to you.

I bet the baby loved snuggling up to that big old bundle a man you have and I bet he melted into total putty in her hands. I guess John is a king-sized sleeping platform.

Sharon
01-25-2003, 10:53 PM
Originally posted by Ken King
It's so great to have these bundles of joy in our lives
Yes it is! :smile:

And the best part...is when you look into those tiny faces, you see life renewed. Then you remember all the hard work that goes into raising little ones. But you can enjoy their company, play, love and spoil them, and send them home. :wink:

Tonio
01-25-2003, 10:54 PM
Great column, Ken. I became a father early last year, and having fun with my baby daughter has helped me endure the turmoil where I work. I'm moving to another job next month, and by then my second daughter will be born. So right now I'm both nervous and exhilarated about the future.

demsformd
01-26-2003, 01:33 PM
Great story Ken...I've been a grandfather for 4 years now and just love it. The youngest one Bobby is just the most fun little guy that one could meet. They are truly little bundles of joy.

SxyPrincess
02-27-2003, 04:27 PM
Love the story, Ken and Alexis is adorable! :biggrin: Makes me almost want to have another.


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