Can't get over him....

[slotted (Premo)]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

I can't get over him either.

[MonaLeesa]

Originally Posted by slotted

I can't get over him either.

I can completely relate to her story, good luck and remember to take care of yourself first, when one door closes another one opens...

[zeati]

Originally Posted by Beetlejuice

I still love u baby.... come back!!!

this is beetle... he's as bad as can and he knowwwwwws he's the best

[bcp (Premo)]

HOLY CRAP!!!

I know the guy you are talking about.
I just figured it out.

do you realize that after you he turned gay?

I dont think you want him back

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by huntr1

Go to the Bridge and give the divers something to do.

Oh see, that ain't no way to be!!

[unixpirate]

Originally Posted by huntr1

Go to the Bridge and give the divers something to do.

I'm looking forward to some fat crabs this year

[sweetpea]

Originally Posted by unixpirate

I'm looking forward to some fat crabs this year

That's just plain nasty.

[tshowusa]

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[unixpirate]

Originally Posted by sweetpea

That's just plain nasty.

Your invite is in the mail

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

Okay, your leaving a HUGE CHUNK out of this whole scenario. You dated 2 years BEFORE you got COLD FEET? See, I'm thinking BS here. Didn't you ever think to just explain yourself to him instead of dumping him (presuming you did dump him)? Did he ask you to marry him? Did he ask you to move in w/him? What changed in the relationship that gave you FROSTBITE?