Can't get over him....

[tshowusa]

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[BuddyLee]

This sounds like your average sappy crap romance tenny bopper love story film. I'll sum up the ending for you, that'll it make it all better.



"Go! Go to him!"

[Sula]

Don't move unless you want to. There is no easy way to get over someone and all the platitudes in the world won't help. Just keep in mind that you WILL get over this and make sure you learn from it. It won't get any better until you CHOSE to let him go and recognize that you can be happy.

[kris31280 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

1 book you simply MUST read:

"It's Called a Break Up Because It's Broken"

[PricklyGoo]

Sorry I screwed with your head like that. We can still get together for the occasional fling

[kris31280 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by PricklyGoo

Sorry I screwed with your head like that. We can still get together for the occasional fling

[Beetlejuice]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

I still love u baby.... come back!!!

[toppick08 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

You're not going to put me on iggy too, are ya'........

[donbarzini]

Originally Posted by BuddyLee

This sounds like your average sappy crap romance tenny bopper love story film. I'll sum up the ending for you, that'll it make it all better.



"Go! Go to him!"

No, no, no that's not quite right. It goes like this:

(In the voice of the gruff, but loving housekeeper) "Chile, you bettah go get that boy". (Fade to black)

[AiryT]

Originally Posted by tshowusa

It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

Maybe he feels the same way or has he moved on? It's worth talking to him if you can.