Tell Me

[tshowusa]

Tell Me

Tell me what you’ve lost to gain

Tell me who you lost to love again

Tell me who you see after you saw

Tell me who you are now, not then

Tell me what you want, not what you think I want

Tell me what you need, not what you think I need

Be real with me, no games, no drama

Tell me what you really want to gain without losing your soul.

Tell me that you care without selfish desires

Tell me that you can let go to become better

Tell me that progress is better than being stagnant

Tell me that your character can be stretched

Tell me that you trust God and not man

Tell me that you need a woman of God

Tell me that you will honor me

Tell me that you will respect my being, my body, my soul, my heart.

Tell me that you can look at me and not turn away

Tell me that you can focus on my body and not yearn for another.

Tell me when you’re ready to get real with yourself

Tell me when you can look at the past and run into your destiny

Tell me that you are tired of playing a game

Tell me you want to get off the roller coaster and join me in the peace that true love can give you.

I love you without an agenda. I’ve waited long enough

It’s time to get to the core of where we stand

I need to know that you can hold your own

I need to know that I can trust you

You need to listen to the beat of your heart.

I’ll be here when you’re ready.

[sunflower]

I cant...

[ocean733 (Premo)]

Is this a song or a poem?

[sommpd]

Originally Posted by ocean733

Is this a song or a poem?

Or perhaps the ramblings of a mad man? lol

[Kain99]

I’ll be here when you’re ready.

I love that line.

[BS Gal (Premo)]

Wth?

[kwillia (Premo)]

Originally Posted by BS Gal

Wth?

She can't get over him...

Originally Posted by tshowusa
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

[Bay_Kat]

Originally Posted by kwillia

She can't get over him...

Originally Posted by tshowusa
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

I read part of it and remembered her other whiney threads and was going to say the same thing.