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Old 04-27-2008, 09:59 AM   #31 (permalink)
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'wise as serpents'....wise as the devil ? that doesn't sound too good.
I heard that quote in a movie and it literally stopped me in my tracks! Food for thought and I love that stuff!
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:03 AM   #32 (permalink)
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No one NEEDS to get laid. Part of the reason we have kids running around without parents is because people thought they NEEDED to get 'laid' when they should have been educating themselves on how to CONTROL themselves.
You might be the smartest woman on these forums. (Next to me )
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:06 AM   #33 (permalink)
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You might be the smartest woman on these forums. (Next to me )
You're so modest.
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:07 AM   #34 (permalink)
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No one NEEDS to get laid.
...woman haters? By that statement alone, you either don't know very much about men or, perhaps, you hate what you know???

In purely technical terms, no one NEEDS to get laid. By that standard, no one needs a TV or a hug, or to hold hands or to go to the movies or read a book or to talk.

Sex is a profoundly deep part of human relationships for men. So is attention and holding hands and, believe it or not, talking. We may have a tough time talking about everything you like, but, just ask us about the Redskins draft and you'll see, when our eyes light up, that talking is simply a matter of topic, for either sex.

So, you as a woman, speak for yourself as to what matters to you, but, if you want a man who doesn't highly value a good sex life with his woman, good luck. My wife says there's someone for everyone out there.

Just asking; do you hate men?
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:10 AM   #35 (permalink)
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This is what we get for not keeping our sisters in check when they act like nutbags.
Hard to argue with you there! I've never had a problem telling someone they're acting like/an azzhole. It's getting 'em to listen and change their behavior/attitude that is the challenge.

Then again, maybe it's my approach and choice of words. I just hate to sugarcoat chit.
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:14 AM   #36 (permalink)
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Sex is a profoundly deep part of human relationships for men.
You're missing her point.

Yes, if you're in a relationship, sex is part of it and something both people typically want. But many people (men AND women) just go out to score butt and aren't looking for companionship outside of the sexual aspect. Or you get women (and it's mostly women) who entice a guy with sex, thinking he'll fall madly in love with them, and then get all depressed when he says, "Thanks for the boot!" and runs off.

So Tshow's statement is correct, and more people should think that way, in my opinion.
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:16 AM   #37 (permalink)
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...woman haters? By that statement alone, you either don't know very much about men or, perhaps, you hate what you know???

In purely technical terms, no one NEEDS to get laid. By that standard, no one needs a TV or a hug, or to hold hands or to go to the movies or read a book or to talk.

Sex is a profoundly deep part of human relationships for men. So is attention and holding hands and, believe it or not, talking. We may have a tough time talking about everything you like, but, just ask us about the Redskins draft and you'll see, when our eyes light up, that talking is simply a matter of topic, for either sex.

So, you as a woman, speak for yourself as to what matters to you, but, if you want a man who doesn't highly value a good sex life with his woman, good luck. My wife says there's someone for everyone out there.

Just asking; do you hate men?

No! I don't hate men, well...a few~ but no, not in general. I guess my dad treated me like a queen and I want that from a man now and it's hard to find that. ....I want all those things, holding hands, cuddling, talking. ..and even talking over a Redskins game. I love sports! I guess I'm just frustrated because I'm not finding what I'm looking for. I'd love to settle down and get married and start a family. I tend to spoil my men, cooking and waiting on them and I expect the same in return. I'm meeting men my age but most of them have children and can't give the time it takes to cultivate a real relationship. While I wouldn't mind being a step mother, I'm not going to hop in bed within the first few months of dating. I'm just not. I ended up moving in with the last b-friend and it turned out being unhealthy for me. long story. but no, I'm not a man hater, I'm just a very smart women! LOL
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You're missing her point.

Yes, if you're in a relationship, sex is part of it and something both people typically want. But many people (men AND women) just go out to score butt and aren't looking for companionship outside of the sexual aspect. Or you get women (and it's mostly women) who entice a guy with sex, thinking he'll fall madly in love with them, and then get all depressed when he says, "Thanks for the boot!" and runs off.

So Tshow's statement is correct, and more people should think that way, in my opinion.
Who knew Forrest Gump was so profound ... "Stupid is as stupid does."
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:17 AM   #39 (permalink)
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No! I don't hate men, well...a few~ but no, not in general. I guess my dad treated me like a queen and I want that from a man now and it's hard to find that. ....I want all those things, holding hands, cuddling, talking. ..and even talking over a Redskins game. I love sports! I guess I'm just frustrated because I'm not finding what I'm looking for. I'd love to settle down and get married and start a family. I tend to spoil my men, cooking and waiting on them and I expect the same in return. I'm meeting men my age but most of them have children and can't give the time it takes to cultivate a real relationship. While I wouldn't mind being a step mother, I'm not going to hop in bed within the first few months of dating. I'm just not. I ended up moving in with the last b-friend and it turned out being unhealthy for me. long story. but no, I'm not a man hater, I'm just a very smart women! LOL
The secret to finding a good man is to stop looking. Seriously darlin.
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Old 04-27-2008, 10:18 AM   #40 (permalink)
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No! I don't hate men, well...a few~ but no, not in general. I guess my dad treated me like a queen and I want that from a man now and it's hard to find that. ....I want all those things, holding hands, cuddling, talking. ..and even talking over a Redskins game. I love sports! I guess I'm just frustrated because I'm not finding what I'm looking for. I'd love to settle down and get married and start a family. I tend to spoil my men, cooking and waiting on them and I expect the same in return. I'm meeting men my age but most of them have children and can't give the time it takes to cultivate a real relationship. While I wouldn't mind being a step mother, I'm not going to hop in bed within the first few months of dating. I'm just not. I ended up moving in with the last b-friend and it turned out being unhealthy for me. long story. but no, I'm not a man hater, I'm just a very smart women! LOL
you had me till the redskins i dont follow sports
 
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