Women Haters

[vraiblonde]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

HOWEVER...to have to chase after it for 3+ months....aint no way in he11. a guy would be tempted to just go out and get some thus perpetuating the whole player persona

But, like Larry said, if she was everything you wanted in a woman, you wouldn't think it was worth it to wait a few months for sex?

Because, honestly, that pretty much solidifies what many women think about men - that they don't love us because we're smart, or funny, or compassionate, or any of those things. They only want sex. Hence, why so many women think men are pigs and hate them.

Originally Posted by Larry Gude

...you high? What the hell is lacking in self respect if she wants to hit it, too?

I mean, I wasn't there. I think any sane woman would want me after 30 seconds let alone a WHOLE date!

In my eyes, if she wants to "hit it" that quick after the first meeting......then who is to say that she isnt willing to "hit something else" when my back is turned

[crabcake]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

I was rolling my eyes at the "pool of choices comment"
Yes sex is important but not all is lookin to get their stinger wet on the first date...
I myself have been on about a dozen dates in the past 4+ months and pretty much all of em were ready to put out on the first meeting.
I politely declined because to me when a woman gives it up from the git go then she just has no respect for herself.
HOWEVER...to have to chase after it for 3+ months....aint no way in he11. a guy would be tempted to just go out and get some thus perpetuating the whole player persona

And I said "SOME" of the men ... not all.

[vraiblonde]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

In my eyes, if she wants to "hit it" that quick after the first meeting......then who is to say that she isnt willing to "hit something else" when my back is turned

I'd have slept with Larry the first time I ever met him, except we didn't have a place to do it.

And I haven't been unfaithful to him since that day, not even in thought.

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

But, like Larry said, if she was everything you wanted in a woman, you wouldn't think it was worth it to wait a few months for sex?

Because, honestly, that pretty much solidifies what many women think about men - that they don't love us because we're smart, or funny, or compassionate, or any of those things. They only want sex. Hence, why so many women think men are pigs and hate them.

it's a doube edged sword i agree.
It all boils down to a big gamble, do you open yourself up or keep reserved and fear that he/she will think your cold...

I vote we go back to the caveman days where we clubbed eachother and drug em back to the cave

[Larry Gude (Premo)]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

In my eyes, if she wants to "hit it" that quick after the first meeting......then who is to say that she isnt willing to "hit something else" when my back is turned

...you got me there. Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean she's not out to bang someone else.

So, what's the threshold number that means she wants you and no one else? 3 dates? A month?

[Larry Gude (Premo)]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

so many women think men are pigs and hate them.

...so, my man hater question was valid!

how in the he11 did I get in this spotlight?

[Larry Gude (Premo)]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

I'd have slept with Larry the first time I ever met him, except we didn't have a place to do it.

And I haven't been unfaithful to him since that day, not even in thought.

...did, but I have more self respect that to do it in the middle of King Street. During daylight hours. Besides, it was chilly.

[crabcake]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

it's a doube edged sword i agree.
It all boils down to a big gamble, do you open yourself up or keep reserved and fear that he/she will think your cold...

It boils down to this: If you're constantly looking over your shoulder at what's in your past, you'll never see what lies ahead of you.

Don't hold the wrongs of one/some women or men against all others. Just because one is a whore or a cheater or an ass doesn't mean the rest are.