Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men....................

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by Toxick

We'll she'd have to have one hell of a personality makeover.

Yet, in the spirit of honesty - I'll answer "probably not".

I am finding, however, as I advance in age, that looks do not mean as much to me as they once did. This is not to say that they don't mean anything, I'm just saying that putting the above question up there leaves so many variables unanswered that it's impossible to say.




And perhaps, for me, Heather Locklear is not the best example. I'm not much of a fan of the blonde, playboy bunny types. Never have been. My tastes, insofar as appearance goes, is oftentimes unorthodox.

Understood!! Since Heather Locklear was mentioned I figured I would use her as example for lack of someone else.

[Toxick]

Originally Posted by Queenofdenile1

Understood!! Since Heather Locklear was mentioned I figured I would use her as example for lack of someone else.

I understood the spirit of the question, and that "Heather Locklear" was the [Pick-A-Hottie] placeholder. Everything in the response still holds true.

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by migtig

Seriously, I think a huge part of it is evolution and what kind of genetic make-up we have as to what we find attractive. I hate to say we all grow up to marry men like our dads - but we do on some level.

Also in this day and age, it's not about survival of the fittest, but of the most intelligent. In this case, more and more non-GQ guys are considered because of what else they bring to the party in the way of intellect and skills. Or at least in my case I find the type super

Originally Posted by LateApex

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...

I've dated some extremely gorgeous girls. I've dated some girl next door types too.

Each one of them had something that I thought was sexy about them.

Physical attraction gets your foot in the door, but after that you have to close the deal and show that you have more to offer than just a pretty face.

The "Average" looking male or female may not be all that average to the person who is admiring them. And yes, physical attraction does get the foot in the door but there needs to be more than a pretty face. I was just curious to get a perspective on the "average" or "not as attractive" female and what a man would do in that instance.

[GWguy]

Originally Posted by Queenofdenile1

Understood!! Since Heather Locklear was mentioned I figured I would use her as example for lack of someone else.

Heather USED to be a hottie. She's had so many lifts and tucks and facial treatments that I'm not sure there is anything original under there. Have you recently seen her hands? Or legs? She is an old lady now.....

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by Toxick

I understood the spirit of the question, and that "Heather Locklear" was the [Pick-A-Hottie] placeholder. Everything in the response still holds true.

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by GWguy

Heather USED to be a hottie. She's had so many lifts and tucks and facial treatments that I'm not sure there is anything original under there. Have you recently seen her hands? Or legs? She is an old lady now.....

No, haven't seen her recently. Guess that split from what's his face, Ritchie Sambora, took it's toll on her?

[Nucklesack]

Originally Posted by Pete

Are you ugly and not experiencing a spike in interest from females?

Nah i think he was saying he wouldnt date ugly men

[shiki]

Originally Posted by Pete

I know many pretty people who are basket cases. They are coddled and boo-boo'd and catered after and have an easier go of it all their lives. Ugly people don't get the leg up, the extra consideration, the extra attention so they may be more resilient. Some ugly people collapse under the strain and are angry, some compensate and achieve one of the field levelers.

It's true.
Ugly people face some of the worst discrimination out there.

But what's up with the droves of ugly people in southern maryland? Is there some kind of incentive plan to attract them or is it just how we grow em down here?

I am not saying that women are gold diggers, I am saying men look for hotness, women look for a "provider".

Actually I have no clue, I just made this up.

Hot provider is good. Otherwise women can provide for themselves and have boytoys to keep them occupied.

[blondie4512]

I haven't read every post on the subject so forgive me if the question has already been asked but.... Have the table been turned yet? What's up with all the good looking men with there ugly women??? I see a lot of that in this county.... Sometimes you can say oh but they have a great personality but not in most of the cases that i'm aware of...

[blondie4512]

Originally Posted by shiki

It's true.
Ugly people face some of the worst discrimination out there.

But what's up with the droves of ugly people in southern maryland? Is there some kind of incentive plan to attract them or is it just how we grow em down here?



Hot provider is good. Otherwise women can provide for themselves and have boytoys to keep them occupied.

Yea there are some slim pickings around here...