Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men....................

[Dr. Fill]

Originally Posted by blondie4512

Yea there are some slim pickings around here...

You cannot be who and what you are unless you have a lifestyle, both internally and externally, that is designed to support that definition of self.

What are the truths you believe about yourself when no one else is looking?

[blondie4512]

Originally Posted by Dr. Fill

You cannot be who and what you are unless you have a lifestyle, both internally and externally, that is designed to support that definition of self.

What are the truths you believe about yourself when no one else is looking?

I'm really not sure what all you are saying... Over my head, I am blonde, please forgive me... Its not that no one else is looking, many of opportunities out there... I just may be a bit picky...

beauty is only a lightswitch away

[Toxick]

Originally Posted by blondie4512

What's up with all the good looking men with there ugly women???

Sometimes the homely wimmins are really good at

[blondie4512]

Originally Posted by Toxick

Sometimes the homely wimmins are really good at

I have heard that.... And really I'm not saying anything is about looks, there are many other factors that contribute to finding your mate... Just something I have noticed...

Originally Posted by blondie4512

I have heard that.... And really I'm not saying anything is about looks, there are many other factors that contribute to finding your mate... Just something I have noticed...

it's called "settling" both sides do it

[Pete (Premo)]

Originally Posted by blondie4512

I'm really not sure what all you are saying... Over my head, I am blonde, please forgive me... Its not that no one else is looking, many of opportunities out there... I just may be a bit picky...

How picky are you?

[Pete (Premo)]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

it's called "settling" both sides do it

True, it could be regional or self esteem issues but people settle thinking "i can't do any better" or "I don't deserve any better"

[blondie4512]

Originally Posted by (((echo)))

it's called "settling" both sides do it

That is true... That's why I'm picky, I settled and wasted 4 years of my life with someone I didn't even like... So now I will be sure not to make the same mistake....

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by Pete

True, it could be regional or self esteem issues but people settle thinking "i can't do any better" or "I don't deserve any better"

The thing about it is it's probably subconscious. People don't even realize it. I won't settle, well, I'm gonna try not to settle. I think my biggest problem is I think "Well maybe, he could be a nice guy" and you give him a chance but then for whatever reason it doesn't work out and then you sit back and try to figure out where YOU went wrong. How come I pick the wrong guy again? So then it becomes a case of "Every guy I pick is wrong" so why bother? You want someone your physically attracted to in some way but I don't know, we have to "settle" to some extent because we all are not perfect. It's such a fine line; what types of things are we settling for? I want certain qualities in a male but am I willing to settle for a liar vs someone who isn't an drug addict or alcoholic? Am I willing to settle for someone who is controlling but doesn't cheat? Those types of things and quite honestly, I'd rather not. The truth is I may spend the rest of my alone, but it beats being in an unhappy relationship just to say I have someone. I'm seriously trying to come to terms with it. I've been in many unhappy relationships and it's miserable!!