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Old 05-30-2008, 12:03 PM   #181 (permalink)
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The thing about it is it's probably subconscious. People don't even realize it. I won't settle, well, I'm gonna try not to settle. I think my biggest problem is I think "Well maybe, he could be a nice guy" and you give him a chance but then for whatever reason it doesn't work out and then you sit back and try to figure out where YOU went wrong. How come I pick the wrong guy again? So then it becomes a case of "Every guy I pick is wrong" so why bother? You want someone your physically attracted to in some way but I don't know, we have to "settle" to some extent because we all are not perfect. It's such a fine line; what types of things are we settling for? I want certain qualities in a male but am I willing to settle for a liar vs someone who isn't an drug addict or alcoholic? Am I willing to settle for someone who is controlling but doesn't cheat? Those types of things and quite honestly, I'd rather not. The truth is I may spend the rest of my alone, but it beats being in an unhappy relationship just to say I have someone. I'm seriously trying to come to terms with it. I've been in many unhappy relationships and it's miserable!!

Totally agree... You got one life... Why settle??? Its just leads to affairs and hurting others... I'm completely happy being single, and when someone comes along worth "settling" for, I will...
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Old 05-30-2008, 12:22 PM   #182 (permalink)
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Totally agree... You got one life... Why settle??? Its just leads to affairs and hurting others... I'm completely happy being single, and when someone comes along worth "settling" for, I will...
I wouldn't say "I'm Happy" being single, but I will say that my life is less complicated. I don't have the relationship concerns and worries that a lot of people typically have and your right, "when someone comes along worth settling for", I will too. Hopefully if and when that time comes, it won't come with any of the burdens that my previous relationships did. Best wishes to the both of us!!!
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Old 05-30-2008, 12:26 PM   #183 (permalink)
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I wouldn't say "I'm Happy" being single, but I will say that my life is less complicated. I don't have the relationship concerns and worries that a lot of people typically have and your right, "when someone comes along worth settling for", I will too. Hopefully if and when that time comes, it won't come with any of the burdens that my previous relationships did. Best wishes to the both of us!!!
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Totally agree... You got one life... Why settle??? Its just leads to affairs and hurting others... I'm completely happy being single, and when someone comes along worth "settling" for, I will...
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Old 05-30-2008, 12:27 PM   #184 (permalink)
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Old 05-30-2008, 12:32 PM   #185 (permalink)
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I wouldn't say "I'm Happy" being single, but I will say that my life is less complicated. I don't have the relationship concerns and worries that a lot of people typically have and your right, "when someone comes along worth settling for", I will too. Hopefully if and when that time comes, it won't come with any of the burdens that my previous relationships did. Best wishes to the both of us!!!
I just love the freedom doing what i want when i want.... But yes best wishes!!
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Old 05-30-2008, 12:51 PM   #186 (permalink)
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Old 05-30-2008, 01:03 PM   #187 (permalink)
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If this happens to do with a certain post I saw earlier and I have absolutely no idea what it was referring to and DON'T WANNA KNOW, no he hasn't.
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Old 05-30-2008, 02:43 PM   #188 (permalink)
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I wouldn't say "I'm Happy" being single, but I will say that my life is less complicated. I don't have the relationship concerns and worries that a lot of people typically have and your right, "when someone comes along worth settling for", I will too. Hopefully if and when that time comes, it won't come with any of the burdens that my previous relationships did. Best wishes to the both of us!!!
I have to agree. All my friends ##### and moan about "my girlfriend did this" and "my girlfriend did that" and .



I guess it's better being single than having someone biatch at you all the time.
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Old 05-30-2008, 04:47 PM   #189 (permalink)
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I hate the word "settle"...
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In this case, more and more non-GQ guys are considered because of what else they bring to the party in the way of intellect and skills. Or at least in my case I find the type super
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