Why Women Gladly Date Ugly Men....................

[bresamil (Premo)]

The writer has it all wrong but she works for Huffington so that should be no surprise.
Insecure (in their choices)women have to be with hot looking guys because they think people will make fun of them otherwise. These are the same women who can't buy a dress without at least 3 friend's opinions.
Insecure (in that they don't think they can keep a man) women will pick men that are plain or unattractive or have unattractive habits so that there will be less competition.
Secure women look at the whole package.

[warneckutz]

Originally Posted by Mojo

Ugly ass caveman, you should be happy

[warneckutz]

Originally Posted by nachomama

Warnutz has a shimmery personality, thank you very much.

[nachomama]

Originally Posted by warneckutz

I'm proud to have you as my eye candy, you trophy, you.

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by baileydog

My absolute favorite is when the women that stay with those drunks that beat them say the reason they stay is "cause the sex is so good". Ok then. Ive actually know several of these rather stupid women.

That too! It's very sad that women's self-esteem can go that low but it happens, probably more often than we know about. It happens to men as well, believe it or not!!

[Queenofdenile1]

Originally Posted by bresamil

Insecure (in that they don't think they can keep a man) women will pick men that are plain or unattractive or have unattractive habits so that there will be less competition.

I agree with part of that statement. I think the "thought" process in choosing a less attractive man is they might be less likely to treat them badly, be kinder to them, less apt to cheat, and have some of the same insecurities. However, that does have a tendency to backfire. You also have to realize that sometimes that "thought" is intiated by an outside force, friends, family, co-workers, etc. etc.

[vraiblonde]

Well, no woman "gladly" dates an ugly man. She might date a nerdy man or an average man. But a truly ugly man - the only reason a woman dates him is because she can't get any better.

Even on that reality show where the nerds date the supoermodels, none of those guys were truly *ugly* - they were just average.

[warneckutz]

Originally Posted by nachomama

I'm proud to have you as my eye candy, you trophy, you.

[Dye Tied (Premo)]

After years of dating pretty/handsome/hunky men, I learned they weren't always the best in bed, the best personality or even worth my time anymore. But it was fun learning the hard way

[pixiegirl (Premo)]

I am shallow enough to admit that I will only date men that I personally find atractive. I don't give a flying hoot if the whole world or only his mama find him attractive; it's about how I see him. In order for a relationship to sustain there has to be a level of attraction.

Now I will say that I've met plenty of men that were quite attractive off the get but after getting to know them I was so turned off by thier personalities that I no longer saw them as physically attractive. And the opposite is true; I've found myself more physically attracted to some I thought were just decent looking because they had a good personality.

Like it or not ladies, our attraction thermometer is directly connected to our feelings.