Call me "Old Fashion"

[redneck_woman]

My g/f and I had a discussion last night about, does it matter when in a committed serious relationship for the male to say, "I Love You" first or the female.

Call me old fashion but I feel it should be the male.

[mAlice (Premo)]

Originally Posted by redneck_woman

My g/f and I had a discussion last night about, does it matter when in a commented serious relationship for the male to say, "I Love You" first or the female.

Call me old fashion but I feel it should be the male.

Are you serious?

[SeoulFood]

Originally Posted by redneck_woman

My g/f and I had a discussion last night about, does it matter when in a commented serious relationship for the male to say, "I Love You" first or the female.

Call me old fashion but I feel it should be the male.

if its real love, its understood, doesn't need to be spoken..

[Chasey_Lane]

Originally Posted by mAlice

Are you serious?

Originally Posted by redneck_woman

My g/f and I had a discussion last night about, does it matter when in a commented serious relationship for the male to say, "I Love You" first or the female.

Call me old fashion but I feel it should be the male.

it goes with the feelings, there are no rules to dating.

[redneck_woman]

Originally Posted by mAlice

Are you serious?

I can't help how I was brought up.

[whome20603]

Originally Posted by redneck_woman

I can't help how I was brought up.

How you were brought up? So your mom and dad sat you down and said, "Now redneck, don't you go tellin that there boy you love him first; that's his job. Run along dear and wash the dishes, it's time for you to do wimmens work."

J/P...I honestly don't think it matters who says it first. If you (or your 'friend') feels it, then say it.

[kelb (Premo)]

I think its a womans fantasy for the man to say it first.... but if I love you.. Ima gonna tell ya

[Dye Tied (Premo)]

Originally Posted by mAlice

Are you serious?

Serious as her welfare check

[redneck_woman]

Originally Posted by whome20603

How you were brought up? So your mom and dad sat you down and said, "Now redneck, don't you go tellin that there boy you love him first; that's his job. Run along dear and wash the dishes, it's time for you to do wimmens work."

J/P...I honestly don't think it matters who says it first. If you (or your 'friend') feels it, then say it.

Honestly it has to do more with my grandmother, don't do this, don't do that, what for him to ask you out....etc. etc.

She is in love, wants to tell him, doesn't know how to tell him. Wants to surprise him with something, like dinner and a poem. We ended up getting on the topic who should be first to say it.