Nervous Breakdown

[CalvertNewbie]

Originally Posted by dontknowwhy

I'm right there with you nacho. The love of my life left me for someone else a month before we were to be married. 2 months later and I'm still very much lost. But I'm slowly moving on with my life. I'm starting to find out from the bar scene that most of the people out and about are only there because they have found themselves alone and are looking for someone. Most of them really don't want to be there but what are you supposed to do. Hang in there hon. It does get easier.

That really sucks but thank God this happened BEFORE the wedding. Just think of how much worse it could have been. I'm glad you're starting to find that time does make things a little easier.

[dontknowwhy]

It was the first time in my life that I truly loved another and was looking forward to spending the rest of my life with her. All was going great until a month before she told me she found another and was leaving. Literally, it all fell apart after I put the ring on her finger.

[dontknowwhy]

I could tell something was on her mind and when I asked what was going on she would say "nothing. everything's fine." well, the guilt finally got the best of her and she told me what happened. And just like that she was gone.

[dontknowwhy]

In the 5 1/2 yrs we spent together, we maybe had 3 arguments. Otherwise, everything was great. Not just good but great. Love attention romance open communication. Then I asked her to marry me and it went straight to ****

[smdavis65 (Premo)]

Originally Posted by dontknowwhy

I could tell something was on her mind and when I asked what was going on she would say "nothing. everything's fine." well, the guilt finally got the best of her and she told me what happened. And just like that she was gone.

That stinks, but better now than later.

[dontknowwhy]

Yeah. I'm going through the motions, I put on a fake smile, I'm the happy go lucky guy I've always been, but when the day is over and I'm in that empty house....but every day gets a little better.

[cattataint]

You people can't be serious?

[dontknowwhy]

So to you Nachomamma, I say go out this weekend, let people know what's going on, and you'll be surprised at how much love & support you'll get from all. And you'll be surprised at how many of us are going through it this year. And right now, you'll get shoulders to cry on and hear others experiences and feelings about our losses. But if you think you're gonna get a lot of offers for one night stands, everyone knows your not ready for that yet.

[dontknowwhy]

very much serious catt.

[frozenrain]

Originally Posted by cattataint

You people can't be serious?

John is that you?