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Old 06-23-2009, 11:22 AM   #31 (permalink)
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You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go.
Thank you. I keep telling myself this, but it doesn't seem to help much right now.
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:27 AM   #32 (permalink)
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You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go.

i understand where you are coming from and that is true...not being with him has opened up new doors and quite possibly there is you match out there...the only thing is don't go looking for him...he will come to you. but in the meantime..have you ever said " I don't need a man!" if you have you lied. Look at you now. Get up, get dressed, and do something you want to do..your kids need you too..reach deep down, the strength you need is there.
the tantrums and stuff are just you refusing the change this has brought about..let it in and smile.
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:30 AM   #33 (permalink)
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I'm sorry you are going through this pain right now but it will pass! You have a great many friends to help you through this time, let them help you!

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Old 06-23-2009, 11:30 AM   #34 (permalink)
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i understand where you are coming from and that is true...not being with him has opened up new doors and quite possibly there is you match out there...the only thing is don't go looking for him...he will come to you. but in the meantime..have you ever said " I don't need a man!" if you have you lied. Look at you now. Get up, get dressed, and do something you want to do..your kids need you too..reach deep down, the strength you need is there.
the tantrums and stuff are just you refusing the change this has brought about..let it in and smile.
Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either.

I want *me* back too.
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:31 AM   #35 (permalink)
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Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie!
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:32 AM   #36 (permalink)
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She wants to forget about "him", not men all together
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:33 AM   #38 (permalink)
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Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either.

I want *me* back too.
Sorry kiddo. That really sucks. Please let your friends help as much as they can.
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Old 06-23-2009, 11:34 AM   #39 (permalink)
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Nacho,
I'm sorry you are going through this pain right now but it will pass! You have a great many friends to help you through this time, let them help you!

I :heart: Nacho!

Give that big guy a huge old hug for me. Don't ever let him go.

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First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again?

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Old 06-23-2009, 11:34 AM   #40 (permalink)
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I dunno...a rebound boy toy might not be a bad idea. Besides, you know Beta would appreciate her.
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