Nervous Breakdown

[Black-Francis]

Originally Posted by Mojo

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together

[Black-Francis]

Originally Posted by nachomama

First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again?

[MJ (Premo)]

Originally Posted by nachomama

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either.

I want *me* back too.

Are you serious about drinking a lot? I have a new bottle of Absolute.

[tiltedangel]

Originally Posted by nachomama

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either.

I want *me* back too.

you need "you" back before you can deal with any of this. I have a suggestion though. Think and really remember, evaluate the situation.
What was it about him that really annoyed you? was he never around..did he not notice your hair if you got it done? was he messy? tis the time to get angry at him for taking the time of your life that he did...this may help get you out of the funk..and into the swing again..get mad

[JULZ]

Originally Posted by nachomama

Give that big guy a huge old hug for me. Don't ever let him go.

He's the bestest!

[Beta84]

Originally Posted by Mojo

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together

Don't make me beat you so hard with my stick that you think it's last week.

Originally Posted by nachomama

First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again?

I was just offering to help you because you were so upset and thinking about checking into a clinic. Should I not have offered?

Originally Posted by migtig

I dunno...a rebound boy toy might not be a bad idea. Besides, you know Beta would appreciate her.

[Mojo]

Originally Posted by migtig

I dunno...a rebound boy toy might not be a bad idea. Besides, you know Beta would appreciate her.

I think she would make him cry

Originally Posted by JULZ

He's the bestest!

I bet he needs 2 gallons of water by his bedside with you around

[nachomama]

Originally Posted by MJ

Are you serious about drinking a lot? I have a new bottle of Absolute.

This is how bad it is. I walked out of the liquor store the other day with a bottle of hypnotiq, a bottle of Hennessey and a bottle of MD2020.

Originally Posted by tiltedangel

you need "you" back before you can deal with any of this. I have a suggestion though. Think and really remember, evaluate the situation.
What was it about him that really annoyed you? was he never around..did he not notice your hair if you got it done? was he messy? tis the time to get angry at him for taking the time of your life that he did...this may help get you out of the funk..and into the swing again..get mad

I am mad. That's when the temper tantrums started. It's not pretty. It's not me. I don't like it.

[Mojo]

Originally Posted by Beta84

Don't make me beat you so hard with my stick that you think it's last week.

Beat me big boy

[CalvertNewbie]

Originally Posted by MJ

Are you serious about drinking a lot? I have a new bottle of Absolute.

Be a good friend to nacho. If you're going to get her drunk make sure you hide her phone - no drunk dialing for her!

Nacho, sorry you're heartbroken. It really sucks to feel that way, I think most of us have been there. After I ended a long relationship, I went on a nice vacation with my friends and had a great time. It felt good just to get away for a little while. I know that's probably harder to do when you have kids but it's something to think about. Take some time for yourself and do something you've always wanted to do. Force yourself to get outta the house, sitting there thinking about this will just drive you crazy.