Nervous Breakdown

[vraiblonde]

Originally Posted by nachomama

Somebody help me! I really think I'm having a nervous breakdown.

I just recently went through a very nasty breakup with someone whom I thought was the love of my life. I've tried to get him back, but I think he's done. In the past few weeks since our breakup, I've been super depressed, can't eat, can't sleep, I've been drinking a lot (which I rarely ever do), and have had serious temper tantrums. I am very much a people person, but I'd rather just sit in my room under the covers watching the XM Satellite channels on Directv. I don't want to be around people. I feel like I never smile anymore, my nerves are shot.

I'm thinking about just walking into the hospital and saying "check me in", but don't know if I should maybe go see a shrink.

Please help me - I'm at my wits end, and don't want to be the person I have become in the last month.

Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:

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[BadGirl (Premo)]

Originally Posted by nachomama

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

I repeat

NACHO WILL NOT BE HOOKING UP WITH TOPPICK

Never say never. You could change your mind, you know.

[nachomama]

Originally Posted by BadGirl

Never say never. You could change your mind, you know.

I could jump off the bridge too.

[mommarock]

Hey Nacho - Sorry to hear this....I was once told after a devastating breakup that it wasn't the end of the world even though I thought it was just that. It literally feels like your heart is broken in two pieces, hard to take a breath, hard to not cry at the least little thing or memory. You are in the grieving process. Let it happen. It sux like hell for a while, but you will come to realize that you are a very strong person. You will always have the memories and lessons that this relationship has taught you through the years. It may seem difficult to even take a breath right now, but trust me it will get easier. Who knows what tomorrow brings? Enjoy today and be thankful for your blessings. One day at a time.....

[HunterJJD]

Originally Posted by Dye Tied

Naw, she should make a beeline for the bridge and really get a title on SOMD.com

Dye baby,
Just cause you can jump off a bridge and survive cause them gigantic tits of yours breaks your fall, them keeps you a float till help comes does not mean that everyone else can jump off the bridge. So maybe you should think of something a little nicer to say

JD

[nachomama]

Originally Posted by mommarock

Hey Nacho - Sorry to hear this....I was once told after a devastating breakup that it wasn't the end of the world even though I thought it was just that. It literally feels like your heart is broken in two pieces, hard to take a breath, hard to not cry at the least little thing or memory. You are in the grieving process. Let it happen. It sux like hell for a while, but you will come to realize that you are a very strong person. You will always have the memories and lessons that this relationship has taught you through the years. It may seem difficult to even take a breath right now, but trust me it will get easier. Who knows what tomorrow brings? Enjoy today and be thankful for your blessings. One day at a time.....

Thanks love.

Originally Posted by HunterJJD

Dye baby,
Just cause you can jump off a bridge and survive cause them gigantic tits of yours breaks your fall, them keeps you a float till help comes does not mean that everyone else can jump off the bridge. So maybe you should think of something a little nicer to say

JD

I :heart: you, JD.

[backagain39]

I know this post is gonna sound cold stone hard but it does work.

Love is a chemical reaction in the body between two people. Really it has been proven. When you break up with someone you actually go through a physical withdrawal. Your body does hurt, your stomach does tie up in knots, your nerves are shot and your emotions are crazy. If you can keep this thought in your head and remember that you have to go through this and know that it WILL PASS. In the meantime you have to get up and move, I know it feels like a million ton rock is on your shoulders but you have to go on. Take about a week to feel sorry for yourself and cry, cry cry. Get it out and over with and then GET MOVING AGAIN............

And when that urge comes upon you to call or see him........DON'T DO IT. This will just start the process all over again and make you more miserable.

[dn0121]

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Originally Posted by backagain39

I know this post is gonna sound cold stone hard but it does work.

Love is a chemical reaction in the body between two people. Really it has been proven. When you break up with someone you actually go through a physical withdrawal. Your body does hurt, your stomach does tie up in knots, your nerves are shot and your emotions are crazy. If you can keep this thought in your head and remember that you have to go through this and know that it WILL PASS. In the meantime you have to get up and move, I know it feels like a million ton rock is on your shoulders but you have to go on. Take about a week to feel sorry for yourself and cry, cry cry. Get it out and over with and then GET MOVING AGAIN............

And when that urge comes upon you to call or see him........DON'T DO IT. This will just start the process all over again and make you more miserable.

You're ruthless!

[nachomama]

Originally Posted by backagain39

I know this post is gonna sound cold stone hard but it does work.

Love is a chemical reaction in the body between two people. Really it has been proven. When you break up with someone you actually go through a physical withdrawal. Your body does hurt, your stomach does tie up in knots, your nerves are shot and your emotions are crazy. If you can keep this thought in your head and remember that you have to go through this and know that it WILL PASS. In the meantime you have to get up and move, I know it feels like a million ton rock is on your shoulders but you have to go on. Take about a week to feel sorry for yourself and cry, cry cry. Get it out and over with and then GET MOVING AGAIN............

And when that urge comes upon you to call or see him........DON'T DO IT. This will just start the process all over again and make you more miserable.

Makes complete sense.

Thanks again for all of the positive words of encouragement and the pm's. All advice will definitely be heeded.

[rich70]

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