What do I Have to Do for a date?

[StrawberryGal]

Originally Posted by backagain39

OK brutal truth here..........SUCCESSFUL HANDSOME PROFESSIONAL MAN....and I bet you also talk about your house, cars, bank account...etc?

Women do not need to be told all this......it makes you look vain, arrogrant, selfish and materialist. If you are truly *all that* then you never have to advertise it because it will be apparent in the way you conduct yourself.........it comes across better being confident and self assured instead of LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME.

Ask the ladies what they like, goals, family, hobbies and interact that way......leave the other stuff out and try being yourself.

Also, women don't like desperate and needy/clingy men. Those type of men don't get ladies and ended up chasing them away rather than gaining a long term girlfriend or wife for lifetime.

If you are happy with your life, love the life, and enjoy being yourself is all you need because women likes men that are happy with their life.

[backagain39]

[quote=StrawberryGal;3825366]Also, women don't like desperate and needy/clingy men. Those type of men don't get ladies and ended up chasing them away rather than gaining a long term girlfriend or wife for lifetime.]

Well I don't know about this one, I have seen some pretty butch looking women in this county.....they may like the whimpy type.......

[citizen_fear (Premo)]

[quote=backagain39;3827727]

Originally Posted by StrawberryGal

Also, women don't like desperate and needy/clingy men. Those type of men don't get ladies and ended up chasing them away rather than gaining a long term girlfriend or wife for lifetime.]

Well I don't know about this one, I have seen some pretty butch looking women in this county.....they may like the whimpy type.......

They know how to get women.

[Beta84]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

Honestly, if you are a decent looking guy on a dating site then the only reason I can think of that you wouldn't get any dates whatsoever is if your profile completely sucks. If you have any female friends I'd suggest talking to them about it and get their advice. There's only so much we can do or say here without knowing some additional details. There's obviously SOME sort of problem because a handsome guy who's a "professional", which I assume means you make decent money, should get at least some dates.

Have some friends look at it or go online and look for tips of what to put in a profile and what should maybe be left out. Or it's possible you think you're handsome but you're just overconfident, like vrai's thread mentioned the other day. I don't know and can't judge, just a couple possibilities. If you give more details maybe we could give you more advice, otherwise I dunno what to tell ya

[Black-Francis]

Originally Posted by Beta84

Honestly, if you are a decent looking guy on a dating site then the only reason I can think of that you wouldn't get any dates whatsoever is if your profile completely sucks. If you have any female friends I'd suggest talking to them about it and get their advice. There's only so much we can do or say here without knowing some additional details. There's obviously SOME sort of problem because a handsome guy who's a "professional", which I assume means you make decent money, should get at least some dates.

Have some friends look at it or go online and look for tips of what to put in a profile and what should maybe be left out. Or it's possible you think you're handsome but you're just overconfident, like vrai's thread mentioned the other day. I don't know and can't judge, just a couple possibilities. If you give more details maybe we could give you more advice, otherwise I dunno what to tell ya

Do you write for Cosmo?

[aps45819 (Premo)]

$50 + Great Mills Rd. = "date"

[Larry Gude (Premo)]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

Get your own house in order and finish your relations with your wife. Divorced is one thing. You've moved on. Separated is another. It's a giant sign on your forehead; "Messy person who jumps from one mess to the next. Inquire within."

[JULZ]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

Please provide link to said dating sites and we will examine your profile and get back with you. TIA

[kvj21075]

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh Kelb!!!!!!!!!!!! im smelling money here!

[Toxick]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

I think I found your problem.