What do I Have to Do for a date?

[bohman]

Originally Posted by Toxick

I have no experience in the matter.
I submit the fact that my unit is still attached and is not discolored nor frothing as Defense Exhibit 'A'.



I'm just opining on what I think the value of a hypothetical transaction is.

I'm pretty sure I'd pay $50 to keep one of those chicks AWAY from me.

[beachcat]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

yes, they do. now go back to being a successful handsome professional and figure out what to do with the wife and kids and the woman you were sleeping with

[dontknowwhy]

I would stay off of the dating sites and just get out there and meet people. It will help you to get your confidence back. And don't brag about all you are or have. Be yourself. And be a little humble. It's not easy but it's the only way to move on. Try Toot's. Nice hangout. Friendly people

[JULZ]

Originally Posted by dontknowwhy

I would stay off of the dating sites and just get out there and meet people. It will help you to get your confidence back. And don't brag about all you are or have. Be yourself. And be a little humble. It's not easy but it's the only way to move on. Try Toot's. Nice hangout. Friendly people

[onebdzee]

Originally Posted by Libertarian

Personally, if I were not married I would resort to Craigslist for dates. That way I could bypass all the BS and go right for the gusto.

I heard on the news today that some girl got arrested for prostitution from an ad she placed on there that a cop responded to....I tell you some people should not be allowed to use the internet

[Irish_Eyes]

OK get off the dating websites. They really don't work nearly as often as they try to make it seem, and its really just a money making machine for the people who run it.

Have you tried... you know... ASKING a woman out? In the flesh? Step away from the pc, make some friends, go to parties and get togethers with said friends, and just hang out and relax. Eventually someone will surface without you even having to really look. I found that when I was looking actively, I was either attracting loosers, or not getting any dates at all. The second I stopped looking, wasn't interested in dating anymore, that my beau fell into my lap without me having to do much of anything.

Another thing to look at is instead of dating websites, if you're just too busy to try to cultivate your own personal life, go to a dating SERVICE, where you're dealing one on one with professional match makers, people who do this stuff for a living. If they dont get successes, they don't make their money, so you're a lot more likely to have a shot with them than a website. One of my professors from college admitted to meeting her hubby that way and said it was much better than the websites she tried. I wouldn't know either way, but it logically makes more sense.

[toppick08 (Premo)]

no comment.

[Lilypad]

Originally Posted by Larry Gude

Get your own house in order and finish your relations with your wife. Divorced is one thing. You've moved on. Separated is another. It's a giant sign on your forehead; "Messy person who jumps from one mess to the next. Inquire within."

I can't believe no one respond to your post Larry, it is right on!

adrenaline_2068 Get out there-approach people, speak to them, etc.
You don't have to go to clubs/bars to find them-or the Internet. Volunteer, be a part of something larger than yourself, join a fitness club, pursue activities you enjoy-golf, fishing, boating whatever-you'll find another.

[ccarle]

Originally Posted by Lilypad

I can't believe no one respond to your post Larry, it is right on!

adrenaline_2068 Get out there-approach people, speak to them, etc.
You don't have to go to clubs/bars to find them-or the Internet. Volunteer, be a part of something larger than yourself, join a fitness club, pursue activities you enjoy-golf, fishing, boating whatever-you'll find another.

Nailed it. I'm way to young to give any advice, but this is my vote +1.

[radioSOMD (Premo)]

You should go to Buffalo Wings And Beer in Leonardtown
this Saturday Night starting at 8pm! The LIVE "Dance Party"
will be broadcast from there!

I'm hoping to get enough singles to play "The Dating Game"
so maybe we can even get you a date! Listen to the Morning Show on RadioSOMD.fm for all the details!


You may find someone very interesting there!