What do I Have to Do for a date?

[adrenaline_2068]

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

[aps45819 (Premo)]

Live the life you want to live.
A happy interesting person is attractive


What type of bike do you ride?

[islandgrl]

Personality counts for a lot so if you are all the other things you claim to be then I would start with that.

[citizen_fear (Premo)]

Originally Posted by islandgrl

Personality counts for a lot so if you are all the other things you claim to be then I would start with that.

I was gonna say conceited

[Bronwyn (Premo)]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

Try getting offline and looking out there in the real world.

[BET]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

Are you looking for women ages 35 to 42? Or is it 25 to 32?!?! That may be the problem. I see a lot of men in their 40s looking for someone much younger. A lot of women are not into much older men.

[itsbob (Premo)]

What do I Have to Do for a date?

TOO easy.. I'm not even going to bother..

But I'd ask Toppick.. he was in the same situation, and from what I understand pretty damn popular with the ladies..

[steeler_chick]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

nope, just you


my future ex husband NEVER had a problem meeting women... even BEFORE we were separated... WHO KNEW???

[onebdzee]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

Yes....now get the hell over it and move on

[backagain39]

Originally Posted by adrenaline_2068

I am a successful handsome professional man, 40, who is looking for a date. I have been on several dating sites and haven't been able to have anyone even meet me for a drink. I dont get it?

Do separated guys always have this problem?

OK brutal truth here..........SUCCESSFUL HANDSOME PROFESSIONAL MAN....and I bet you also talk about your house, cars, bank account...etc?

Women do not need to be told all this......it makes you look vain, arrogrant, selfish and materialist. If you are truly *all that* then you never have to advertise it because it will be apparent in the way you conduct yourself.........it comes across better being confident and self assured instead of LOOK AT ME, LOOK AT ME.

Ask the ladies what they like, goals, family, hobbies and interact that way......leave the other stuff out and try being yourself.