Fate and Your SO

[godsbutterfly]

I had just moved here to MD & needed to switch my car insurance over. Got insurance, a job and then ended up dating my boss. A year later we were married (after I swore I'd never remarry!).

[nachomama]

Originally Posted by mizteresa1965

bar

Why does this not surprise me.

[LordStanley]

I found my on page 16 of the Tibetan mail order bride catalog.

[lovinmaryland]

Originally Posted by pixiegirl

For once we agree. At first all he wanted was the :bangbangbang: but he fell in love with me because I was mean to him and he couldn't have my feelings; something he had yet to experience in his life. The first time he told me he loved me I pretended like I didn't hear him. He said it a couple more times without much of an answer then one day before he left I said "maybe I love you too."

It was an Anna Nicole (lovinmaryland) pep talk that made me decide to give him a real chance. I'm forever in her debt as I can't imagine my life without him.

I could tell that he really cared for you. The way he looked at you (and still does) gave it away.

Congrats to you both

[carie_47421]

Keep em coming...love these stories!

[muttdog]

I had a first date at a bar called cell block(miss the shooter chair), we were going to meet around 10pm. I was bored so I went up a few hours early, just to hang out and see what was happening. That same night, the ozzy concert was cancelled and a girl i had met a few times came into cell block. She sat down beside me and started telling me how bumed she was about not seeing ozzy. Well a few hours, few drinks and a few dances later, we left the bar together. She has been putting up with my crap for 18+ years now. Poor woman.
Oh- My "date" for the night was not happy about being stood up and never talked to me again.

[butterfly08]

I met my husband walking down the street, here we are seven years later!

[sweetprincess23]

aww how sweet, all of these love stories. I personally don't have one at this time because im not officially with anyone right now.

While I do love the idea of love, romance and fairytales I personally am not looking for that. I am looking for convience and stability, so I personally don't think about fate. when I go somewhere and someone asks for my number or I am interested in someone, I go for it. What's the harm? I could meet someone and live happily ever after or I could never speak to them again. I try not to wait for "fate" or cuppid to come around, I make as most opportunities as possible. Whatever happens, happens. I think if I sat around and thought about fate I would ask myself... what if I had never met my babydad? would i have my masters? would I still be in St.Marys? etc but i dont think about the what if's i just go with the flow.
What I will say though is, sometimes when someone makes me happy I think "wow, if I hadn't gotten out of the last relationship (that i cried about for a few days) I wouldn't have met so and so." I am also noticing that some of you move pretty quickly in relationships, are you not scared that this fate might lead you in the wrong direction and 10 years later your divorced and lonely?
Not sure if this makes sense to anyone, maybe i am just rambling my crazy thoughts off idk.

[tygrace]

Originally Posted by sweetprincess23

aww how sweet, all of these love stories. I personally don't have one at this time because im not officially with anyone right now.

While I do love the idea of love, romance and fairytales I personally am not looking for that. I am looking for convience and stability, so I personally don't think about fate. when I go somewhere and someone asks for my number or I am interested in someone, I go for it. What's the harm? I could meet someone and live happily ever after or I could never speak to them again. I try not to wait for "fate" or cuppid to come around, I make as most opportunities as possible. Whatever happens, happens. I think if I sat around and thought about fate I would ask myself... what if I had never met my babydad? would i have my masters? would I still be in St.Marys? etc but i dont think about the what if's i just go with the flow.
What I will say though is, sometimes when someone makes me happy I think "wow, if I hadn't gotten out of the last relationship (that i cried about for a few days) I wouldn't have met so and so." I am also noticing that some of you move pretty quickly in relationships, are you not scared that this fate might lead you in the wrong direction and 10 years later your divorced and lonely?
Not sure if this makes sense to anyone, maybe i am just rambling my crazy thoughts off idk.

How are you doing? Glad to see you're posting again!!

[BS Gal]

I met DR in a bar in Yuma, AZ. Been a great 27+ years for us.