Dear Abby: My wife used to.....

[Misfit]

Husband Can't Get Over Pain Of Discovering Wife's Past - Yahoo! News

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for five years. I recently discovered that she made between 10 and 20 porn videos when she was 19. We got married when she was 27. We have four kids from two previous marriages.


I am devastated. When I confronted her about it, she cried harder than I had ever seen. She said she was lost, and it's the biggest regret of her entire life.

[Dakota (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Misfit

Husband Can't Get Over Pain Of Discovering Wife's Past - Yahoo! News

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for five years. I recently discovered that she made between 10 and 20 porn videos when she was 19. We got married when she was 27. We have four kids from two previous marriages.


I am devastated. When I confronted her about it, she cried harder than I had ever seen. She said she was lost, and it's the biggest regret of her entire life.

Jay: shoulda disclosed. Poor guy was probably at a bachelor party and they popped in a video. "Dude is that your wife" "What the............"


Could you imagine?

She really should have mentioned that while they were dating. 5 years is a long time to keep a secret.

[migtig]

Puleeezzz - this is his issue not hers. His insecurity is definitely showing and he needs to realize 1) she's with him now and it seems they have a good marriage so allowing the past to interfere with the present is just childish and 2) this is no different than having "relations" with others prior to marriage. At least she got paid and she always has a fallback career option if the economy continues to tank. Men are so juvenile. :eyeroll:

[Larry Gude (Premo)]

"Dear Abbey, my wife and I have a great marriage in every respect including, if I do so say, a sex life that is just so exciting and hot and satisfying that it would make any two men happy. Or even three. Maybe even the Harlem Globetrotters or even the Vienna Boys Choir. If they were men. And had been lost in the desert for weeks. And were hung like horses. Really big, really horny horses. How should I go about ruining this? Looking a Gift Horse in the Mouth, USA"

This is probably another one of those douche guys who, before he had it, thought and talked endlessly about having his ideal woman; lady out of bed, whore in it and, now that he has it, and is happy, he, for some reason, wants a virgin for a wife. I don't get this. If she was an Olympic swimmer, would he have a problem getting in the pool with her? A past chef in some 5 star joint and now he can't bring himself to eat her grilled cheese because she'd made it for someone before?

[GWguy]

I kinda get what he's saying, would have been nice if she told him, but "4 kids from 2 previous marriages" negates every bit of that.

[Misfit]

While watching porn and churning butter "I recently discovered that she made between 10 and 20 porn videos"

Imagine realizing you’ve been watching a video starring your spouse. He always wondered why she yelled "AND THAT'S A WRAP" after sex.

[itsbob]

Originally Posted by Misfit

Husband Can't Get Over Pain Of Discovering Wife's Past - Yahoo! News

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been married for five years. I recently discovered that she made between 10 and 20 porn videos when she was 19. We got married when she was 27. We have four kids from two previous marriages.


I am devastated. When I confronted her about it, she cried harder than I had ever seen. She said she was lost, and it's the biggest regret of her entire life.

Did he think she got that good from playing Solitaire??

[Larry Gude (Premo)]

Originally Posted by itsbob

Did he think she got that good from playing Solitaire??

Well, I dunno, There are a lot of different versions of solitaire...

[stockgirl]

Originally Posted by GWguy

I kinda get what he's saying, would have been nice if she told him, but "4 kids from 2 previous marriages" negates every bit of that.

It does not say that SHE has 4 kids. And even if that were the case, what would any of that have to do with her being a porn star?

[GWguy]

Originally Posted by stockgirl

It does not say that SHE has 4 kids. And even if that were the case, what would any of that have to do with her being a porn star?

I didn't say her. Exactly my point. Could have been hers, could have been his. In either case, there was a previous marriage with kids. If he could deal with the thought of either of them having sex that created kids, the porn stuff is kinda moot.