Is It OK For the Girl to Propose?

[Wenchy (Premo)]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

I like men. If I wanted a woman, I'd go get one.

I do as well.

I'm not going to take a man or woman's last name if I get married again.



Would I propose? Yes.

I would already know that the person involved didn't have an issue with names.

[GURPS (Premo)]

would it really be a 'proposal'


down on one knee and all that ...

.. or a 'Honey can we Talk for a Minute'



[oh shiat what did I do now]

[Wenchy (Premo)]

Originally Posted by GURPS

would it really be a 'proposal'


down on one knee and all that ...

.. or a 'Honey can we Talk for a Minute'



[oh shiat what did I do now]

Neither of the above.

Probably a and me suggesting marriage a trip to Bermuda (on his tab)

[Bann (Premo)]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

And to me that's a great weeder question:

So, if we got married would you mind if I didn't take your last name?

Any answer other than, "What kind of retarded feminazi lesbian question is that?" would result in him not getting another date.

I like men. If I wanted a woman, I'd go get one.

Well, this is the quote of the day!

My .02: I'm old fashioned and traditional - I think the man ought to propose.

I took my husband's name when I married, although I did take back my maiden name when I divorced. I WAS going to keep it for my son's sake and didn't get it changed by the court at the time I divorced. But it made me nauseous every time I wrote my name - every time. So I got it changed.

If I were to marry again, I would take my husband's name.

[Dakota (Premo)]

I'm glad I don't have to worry about this.... if by some chance, I'd end up single again... I am not getting married again. I say once in a lifetime is enough.

[Wenchy (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Dakota

I'm glad I don't have to worry about this. I say once in a lifetime is enough.

In a perfect world and I wish you the best of a perfect world..

[czygvtwkr]

What about the nagging "Why aren't we married yet?"

[Dakota (Premo)]

Originally Posted by Wenchy

In a perfect world and I wish you the best of a perfect world..

Nobody's world is perfect. I just, personally, will not get married again if ever in that position to make that decision. It is a hard road getting used to living with somebody in the 1st place and it took my husband and I everything we had to get us where we are today... it was difficult and sometimes painful and I just don't think I'd have the energy or willingness to do that again.

[vraiblonde]

Originally Posted by czygvtwkr

What about the nagging "Why aren't we married yet?"

And the answer is: because you're not woman enough to know how to get what you want from a man.

[itsbob]

Originally Posted by vraiblonde

Kwillia and BG brought up the laziness factor in the other thread. It depends on what you're willing to settle for.

What other thread?