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Old 01-31-2013, 11:21 AM   #1
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I'll never have sex again

'I loathe foreplay, and the act itself repulses me': Lisa Smith from Buckinghamshire has decided to never have sex again | Mail Online

My strategies for avoiding sex had run out and so, as the inevitable happened, I simply hoped my boyfriend could not tell that I was enduring, rather than enjoying, our encounter.

John was a virgin when we met, so I assume he did not realise how strange and dysfunctional our perfunctory couplings were.

We'd abstain for months until, finally, he'd start bribing me with gifts to go to bed with him. But I loathed it. I dreaded the foreplay, and the act itself repulsed me. I could only bear it by focusing my mind on something else.
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Old 01-31-2013, 11:24 AM   #2
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How come you didn't just tell him directly?

If you are not into it, then it should be made clear about it. If your boyfriend isn't happy about that (and I can't blame him since he was a virgin and I'm still am a virgin at the age of 26), then I don't see why a relationship should be forced out of this despite both you and him will be unhappy at some point.

I really don't understand why people is forcing themselves to go through things they clearly don't want to do just for the sake of being in a relationship.
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Old 01-31-2013, 11:25 AM   #3
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Her face should be enough to keep her from ever having sex again.
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Old 01-31-2013, 11:39 AM   #4
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She could just find a man who doesn't mind having anoter woman on the side...


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Old 01-31-2013, 11:42 AM   #5
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She truly just needs a man to give her one hell of an orgasm.
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Old 01-31-2013, 11:47 AM   #6
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Its probably because her boyfriend isn't doing his traditionally male chores.
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Old 01-31-2013, 01:19 PM   #7
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I'll never have sex again
I didnt even know you were engaged,
congratulations.
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Old 01-31-2013, 01:22 PM   #8
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I didnt even know you were engaged,
congratulations.
I've had more wives then most people have had dates.
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I've had more wives then most people have had dates.
just means you have had less sex
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just means you have had less sex
I know!
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